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some of you are ridiculous passing judgments on someone elses friendship cause it doesn't suit what your friendship goals are everyone has their needs

life moves us in different directions and we grow and change and have different needs and priorities as our lives go on

but if you have a best friend they are going to be there through it all

if you have a seasonal friend it will tapor off
if you have friends for certain occasions then thats that

but real friends if you go a while without speaking and sutn happen they can call you up and u be like bishhh whats tea
and boom

i know i cannot deal with anyone needy clingy or not having anything going for themselves
fucking draining

ive cut my friends like that

but nehoo

yeah

[SouravMay]

Yeah I don't know if people I don't talk to for months and months aren't just friends instead of "best friends"...

I think you have best friends for different seasons and stages in your life.

[Gilgamesh.]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.

Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.

omg ddfffff catching up after a few days and hearing all the MESS >

This sounds like me and Theo fffffff

[Vonc2002]

some of you are ridiculous passing judgments on someone elses friendship cause it doesn't suit what your friendship goals are everyone has their needs

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SouravMay]

I looooooove Theo 


His story telling >>>>>>>>>>>>

[Stunna Gor’]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

>>>><<<<

[Stunna Gor’]

I moved across that country recently and circumstances just changed...

[Zankou.]

n

Weird

very

[Real]

Why is this pinned

[GRAND]

So we can tell everyone how we're best friends real

[Real]

with benefits

[GRAND]

Don't let may find out. He'd be devastated.

[MAY]

You can have him luv. I been done.

Monk >>>

[Kurama]

[GRAND]

Must be "Claim men who don't acknowledge you" month.