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I cant be friends with people who have emotional problems. I did and we were CLOSE. But he became so draining after his bf who is still currently my friend broke up with him. He kinda started to seem suicidal or some shit. Idk. It was weird. It felt like he was sucking the happiness outta me.

[MelMel]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yes this.

Like my best friends are currently living in different states for school/work. So we it's hard to talk to each other every day. But when we do, it's like, we are back in college, just lounging around and just talking the shit. 

[MelMel]

Like, my parents go around and call my besties their children. We are just family at this point. They are better than some of my brothers and sister

[Kurama]

Like, my parents go around and call my besties their children. We are just family at this point. They are better than some of my brothers and sister

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[4 fucking k]

I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n

I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"

Yeah I just take friendships very seriously.

I'm already very closed off and keep most people at a distance so the small chance I do meet someone I can fuck with I'm definitely gonna hold onto you. I'm very loyal and caring and I'm not just gonna leave anybody hanging for a long period of time.

I've seen friendships crumble because people go through a crisis and their "bestie" is MIA thinking everything is fine. Nah, that's not me.   

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is so me too.

[b7]

I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n

I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"

yea texts here and there saying "hey i miss you!! Just checking in" are normal and happen often with me and mine

There's a balance, which I'm all about in general

[Young]

What yawl talkin bout

[LOONA.]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

All I know is you're gonna talk to me everyday and you're gonna deal.

   

[Rxxf]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.

Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.

[Rxxf]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

All I know is you're gonna talk to me everyday and you're gonna deal.

   

Lol.
A cute "night love" is common with your bestie if u can't have full convos.

Also, when we're dating others, there's nights where we can't talk much cause...

[b7]

Now that's the other thing I think that makes for a "best friend" .....even if we haven't spoken in a few weeks, if you hit me up and need something, I'm making it a priority.

!!!!! let's not get it twisted y'all are taking it to the extreme. doesn't mean we're all ignoring our friends

Just confident in the bonds we've made over time. I'll drop any and everything for the people I love

[Rxxf]

Now that's the other thing I think that makes for a "best friend" .....even if we haven't spoken in a few weeks, if you hit me up and need something, I'm making it a priority.

!!!!! let's not get it twisted y'all are taking it to the extreme. doesn't mean we're all ignoring our friends

Just confident in the bonds we've made over time. I'll drop any and everything for the people I love

[4 fucking k]

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So yea, Drais is right anyone sporadically talking to their "BFF" should probably reconsider calling them BFF.

[b7]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.

Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.

omg ddfffff catching up after a few days and hearing all the MESS >

[Rxxf]

What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff

IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.

If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.

IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.     

no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.

Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine  just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.

Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.

Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.

omg ddfffff catching up after a few days and hearing all the MESS >

Yes


Ch!!
What did your boyfriend do to you nowz?!