It was rough about a month ago, the boy was having a tougher time, just with religious convictions, brainwashing, etc, so that makes it harder on us. Its so emotionally exhausting tbh
I just can't do it tho, that's my mindset now
I don't feel like it's fair to the woman.
I've come to the realization I want to be a father, but that doesn't mean traditional marriage. And that's ok.
I've seen too many of my old friends do the marriage cop out, some end in divorce early already, and some are still married, I just honestly believe the attraction to men is set in stone, you can't ignore it forever. Why ruin this girls life that you love, when you have your inevitable breakdown at 50

I may be wrong, but I feel like if you're identifying with bi for life, traditional marriage isn't for you. One year is gonna come when you want Dooch, and it'll be hell