Honesty Hour: If someone is willing to have sex with you or does on the 1st date

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FlowerBomb

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

!!!!
IMO once you had them....you already had them gggg
Doesn't meant 10/10 it doesn't work afterwards, but it's less likely

GLOCK

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will

Purple Moon

Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
what kinda failed audition?!
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

FlowerBomb

Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:36:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will

gggfffffgggg

Purple Moon

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:29:47 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:21:51 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?

Sex on the 1st date.  It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect   :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.

I thought Glock meant full blown sex idk. I see ur point tho.

Im not saying it's not a possibility for something to flourish(probably wont be the healthiest tho) but I just think its really unlikely.
alright fair enough. Well i was talking oral sex maximum.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Nine

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

:justabit:

:heyddy:

GLOCK

Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish

:dead: :dead: :dead:

I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive

So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either



But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?

Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?

Vonc2002

I dont believe in just random, casual sex. I think thats wack and sex is better with a connection ANYWAY. BUT, im not about marking a calendar to give this perception of virginal. If our first date is THAT intense and we vibe enough then get tf naked
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Gilgamesh.

I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.

I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.

Kurama

Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:36:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will


Boiiiiiiiiiiii 

























































but If they're into that kind of kink

Purple Moon

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:37:58 PM
I dont believe in just random, casual sex. I think thats wack and sex is better with a connection ANYWAY. BUT, im not about marking a calendar to give this perception of virginal. If our first date is THAT intense and we vibe enough then get tf naked

:plzstop: but !!!
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Kurama

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:37:18 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:29:47 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:21:51 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?

Sex on the 1st date.  It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect   :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.

I thought Glock meant full blown sex idk. I see ur point tho.

Im not saying it's not a possibility for something to flourish(probably wont be the healthiest tho) but I just think its really unlikely.
alright fair enough. Well i was talking oral sex maximum.

Oh a mean lil lick n suck for a sec is tension-building too.
:wellheythere:

GLOCK

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:36:40 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
what kinda failed audition?!
fff

See I don't think sex should be treated like an audition/interview or sumn
The first time is usually not the best time because u have to get to know someone's body..
What turns them on
What makes them quiver
What makes them melt..
What makes their legs shake
What makes them nut
What makes them submit..
What makes them completely satisfied

It takes several occurrences

Purple Moon

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on August 13, 2016, 01:38:14 PM
I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.

I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.
i can imagine that most guys would want sex with you on the first date.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

GLOCK

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:38:31 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:36:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho

Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will


Boiiiiiiiiiiii 


but If they're into that kind of kink

Ffffffff

A lil smash and grab ain't never hurt nobody