Honesty Hour: If someone is willing to have sex with you or does on the 1st date

Started by GLOCK, August 13, 2016, 01:01:35 PM

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BrokenHeartsHeal

but the date would have to be off the chain and you paid for everything

Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GRAND

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 03:10:34 PM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on August 13, 2016, 02:41:31 PM
I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.
HONESTLY, thats kinda worse imo
sssddd

I mean yeah fag you're sucking all these dicks but not taking them?

Useless tbh

Treasure

as long as u dnt stink

idc wat we do
sex
robbery
fraud missions

jus dnt be musty wen i MEET u
but its ok aftr a few hours, i wont care thens <3


GRAND

Quote from: Chao on August 13, 2016, 04:02:06 PM
as long as u dnt stink

idc wat we do
sex
robbery
fraud missions

jus dnt be musty wen i MEET u
but its ok aftr a few hours, i wont care thens <3
ssssssds

You're so open mindeds


JRocka

nah me and my ex fuck on the first date in the back of the car and we were together for 5 years :dead:

Opposites Attract.



It's unconditional, these days you know....

FAMÈ

Quote from: Nine on August 13, 2016, 01:09:17 PM
tbh I can't really trust someone who wants to mess on the first date. I really do think "do they do this with everyone"

:damselindistress:

More power to those who do, but yeah, not for me.

:udontlookok:
This.

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Look, It takes TWO to have sex, so who am I to lose respect for someone because WE chose to go through with it? anything is possible and although it isn't ideal to fuck or "mess around" on a first date, I never rule anything out.

There aren't any rules or guidelines I necessarily follow when it comes to that. You really never know how it'll work out. It's possible to get cheated on even if you wait 6 months and never touch each other, just as it's possible the other way around.

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:31:34 PM
but yea, I dont think waiting to have sex does anything tbh. Honestly, im the type of person that talks and talks anyway so im pretty familiar with anyone I like and have decided to go on a date with. having sex isnt gonna change my perspective. If a person's goal was to smash and go thats gonna happen whether its date 1 or date 5.
!!!!!!

you can feel someone out and get a pretty good gauge on their intentions rather quickly IMO

Any time I've held out on sexual acts, it was purely for self and my own thoughts about ME. Never really has anything to do with the other person.

And like you said, sex doesn't really change my outlook on folks. I don't judge the other person afterwards, and I certainly don't catch feelings afterwards :uhh:

That's always been strange to me. If I didn't feel these things beforehand, sex certainly isn't going to sway me either way

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:37:58 PM
I dont believe in just random, casual sex. I think thats wack and sex is better with a connection ANYWAY. BUT, im not about marking a calendar to give this perception of virginal. If our first date is THAT intense and we vibe enough then get tf naked

:kii:

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Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:55:28 PM
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Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.

But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.

Do you at the end of the day

this is true too, but just because they choose to do that with ME doesn't always mean they've done that with something else. Maybe our dynamic during that date and the pull we have and feel is way different than anything they'd ever experienced


Real

Turn off.

And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious