hey y'all... quick update because some of you have asked
Matt an I are together still.. somehow. lmfaooo
we were just starting to set into a routine of things as far as balancing jobs, school and the relationship..... and then just like clockwork.... shit got blown up.
a lil back story. around the time when me and matt were first talking in 2016 he was cutting a 1 year old's hair that naturally gravitated to him. he would joke at the shop and call the little boy his play son. Around May 2017 the boy's mother asked for Matt to be his godfather and matt first told her about his lifestyle and about me to make sure she didnt want to change her mind. she said she did not care and she felt that matt was a great role model. matt accepted the role as his godfather.
matt would see him every Thursday to pick him up and cut his hair at our house. sometimes id pick him up from school on and take him home if I had talked to his mother and she or matt wouldn't couldn't get to the school in time... also depended on if I drove to work that day. this went on for about 4 months. we had a cute lil system. however when matt got into an accident... he obviously wasn't cutting hair so its like we wouldn't see him much and I remember matt going off on his mother because matt would want to see him and she would either make up an excuse or just never respond. so we kind kind of fell out of touch
once we got over that hump of Matt being able to cut again, things seem to be fine. we would see him maybe once a month. then in November 2019 the mother lost her job. I told matt then, I dont think we should be so quick to jump in because I personally felt like she used us last time, and then when we couldn't do for the baby like we use to she kept him or was slow on bringing him around. The mom was alluding to living with us because she wanted to get rid of her apartment... to which I immediately shot down. because fuck that.
December 2019, she called us crying saying she couldn't get him anything for Christmas.. and we literally bought him EVERYTHING and took it over to her house so he could have a great Christmas. For New Years, she wanted to go out of town and asked us to watch him. Matt asked how was she going out of town with no money.. she said that somebody else paid for it and that she was staying with them. we knew she was lying but we agreed to keep him..
on Dec. 30th Matt went to go pick him up from their house. I knew the baby would be there with us for about 3 days so I got the house ready while he was going to get him. they live about 45 mins away from us so I knew it would be at least 2hrs before they got back. he left at 6pm I dosed off and looked up and it was 10pm they hadn't come back yet. so I call and matt answers says he's pulling up and open the door.
I open up the door and lil man has a cute lil suitcase, and im like "okay that's cute, matt must've packed him a lil suitcase for the weekend." I give the baby a hug and ask if he's hungry... im waiting for Matt to come in so I can ask him wtf took so long and he calls me outside to his truck.... I get to the truck and he says.... "Can you help me get the rest of his stuff?"
bitch.....
