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[GLOCK]

And typical Bow..
being stupid and haven't a damn MENT episode in a thread that doesn't really call for that.

gosh.. you've seen one episode you've seen them all with her 

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.

matt can raise him alone but like any baggage.. u kinda agree to that with a relationship 

Stay or go.
Sorry.. this is his god child.
And this boy needs help.

If they both want the baby then that's one thing but in no way should either one of them feel obligated to talks custody of him.

ugh the white in you is just.... SKRONG

[reekz]

Matt here.

[Barbie Dangerous]

You guys think the mother is just gonna okay this so easily and not expect something in return?

[reekz]

Bow lol

[Gilgamesh.]

If the next update is "we adopted lil Jamal" I'm gonna lose it

[reekz]

Original story is on PG 1
1st time story is on PG 4
quick update is on PG 30
Family Reunion Story is on PG 32
2019 Update Story Part1 is on PG 36
2019 Update Story Part 2 is on PG 38
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[RatherBe]

Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel?

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge

this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh? 


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.

[Gilgamesh.]

AJ, do you WANT to do it? 

[GLOCK]

Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel?

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge

this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh? 


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.

I def feel u on that. Make sure the business is all right so that everything else is right.

Keep us updated king

[RatherBe]

AJ, do you WANT to do it?

its a little more complex than yes or no.

My initial answer is... YES!

However, I need to make sure the business side is right first. So until we sit down together... and draw up what's what and who's who... I unfortunately can't give a cut and dry answer. I hate that. But that's the truth.

[Barbie Dangerous]

AJ, do you WANT to do it?

YES!

[Gilgamesh.]

AJ, do you WANT to do it?

its a little more complex than yes or no.

My initial answer is... YES!

However, I need to make sure the business side is right first. So until we sit down together... and draw up what's what and who's who... I unfortunately can't give a cut and dry answer. I hate that. But that's the truth.

Aww, I feel you...good luck. You have a lot of sense, more than you're dude anyway, so I think whatever happens it'll be the best decision.

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel?

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge

this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh? 


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.

damns

Cause I agree with you too

Cause I'd cut a bitch trying to come back 6 years later

"oh, im clean nows"! And I've been raising and loving the bvy for years but can't do shit cause of the law

[Navyman]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy

aj is really the one who's like either we're all in or we're out. He's been researching and figuring out the exact process. I have the overall big picture but he's really the brains behind the details and process to make sure I don't get hurt too bad or to just keep thinking with my heart.
I am not willing to lose my relationship for this though. I've tried life without being with aj and yeah, I'm good on that. I will never choose that. We talk every night and as far as us and our relationship we are on the same page. I hate being in limbo with the other crap tho. As the man of this house, it's my goal to work on eliminating that in the next month.

Put your foot down king. Ya'll got this best of luck. And more importantly do what's best for that lil boy, give him a chance at life.