so im more so pissed about what took him so long, im not even paying attention to the AMOUNT of shit in the truck. i get quiet because now i dont wanna talk... but after the 2nd trip, Im like "WHY THE FUCK YOU BRING ALL THIS SHIT FOR ONE WEEKEND??!!!" and he says "I couldnt let him stay there. im sorry!"
me: so what does this mean?
matt: it means we got our lil family now
im fuckin livid but im trying not to be loud because im not sure if the baby can hear me and we're outside.. but i am cussing him tf owt.
me: so you didnt think at all to fucking call me and talk this over with me?
he says he just reacted... and just packed his shit.
by this time i know for sure that the baby was watching us and i decide to just drop it but i told him he needed to clear his morning schedule the next morning because we needed to talk.
the baby ended up sleeping in the bed with us... (which is a whole other story, i havent gotten dick since he's been here and im ready to riot.)
but we wake up, matt puts him in the guest room, which i guess was really just his at that point and comes back and we talk..
matt is a jokester so he plays a lot. its honestly fucking annoying.matt: "sooooo... how did you sleep? lol"
me: not fuckin good. what the fuck happened last night?
matt: yo will you chill??
me: im calm but im not finna sit up here and go in circles with you. because if the baby wake up, the convo gon have to be put on hold AGAIN. so lets get straight to the point.
matt says he went to pick him up. he went to the door and the mom was acting like she didnt want Matt to come in and that she had his stuff already together... after waiting like 5 mins at the door, matt said lil man came to the door and asked him to come in to see his toys... matt went in.... and i guess the mom made a joke like...."uhhh, lil boy how you gon invite somebody in MY house." and matt said back.... "at least one of yall got manners.. and if you had his stuff together i really couldve stayed in the truck."
matt said the house was disgusting, cold, and smelled like weed. he said there was barely food in the house and that when he use the bathroom he saw roaches.
he then asked the mom about everything.. she said she had everything under control and she was going to handle it when she came back from her tip. they apparently were going back and forth about her priorities and shit. she said something to the point of... "i dont need nobody questioning me about how I raise my baby and the sacrifices i make, especially when you dont have none." Matt told her he was just giving her advice on what he thinks she should do (not go on the trip) and she told him..."people who aint parents always think they know better.. you cant handle the responsibility, so dont tell me how to parent."
he said after that he said "fine." and went in lil man's room and threw all his shit in bags.... and told his mama on the way out "when you get your shit together, you can come get him." and left
now Im fine with all this because i know how Matt is... but even if we were just roommates, if youre bringing another mf into our space to live indefinitely, you owe me a heads up....dont surprise me! and ive told him this shit before about "surprising" me. especially if im going to have to be ttaking care of him as well...
my second problem: if they had roaches, WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU BRING HIS SHIT IN MY HOUSE?! we may as well just buy him all new shit. (we took all the shit out to the dumpster and spent the next day spending matts money for new clothes and toys..
i got some stuff too
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so yeah i guess im a parent now. its almost the end of january and the only thing this bitch has done is pick him up from school a couple of time and get him on the weekend... but he calls and asks us to come get him when hes with her too long.
