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[Barbie Dangerous]

Yea, it would be the perfect way to start a family for them but does AJ even want that?

[RatherBe]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

[GLOCK]

She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.

matt can raise him alone but like any baggage.. u kinda agree to that with a relationship 

Stay or go.
Sorry.. this is his god child.
And this boy needs help.

[GLOCK]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy

[Barbie Dangerous]

She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.

matt can raise him alone but like any baggage.. u kinda agree to that with a relationship 

Stay or go.
Sorry.. this is his god child.
And this boy needs help.

If they both want the baby then that's one thing but in no way should either one of them feel obligated to talks custody of him.

[GLOCK]

Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel?

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child? 

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge

[FRANCE]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

Protect your hearts man. Cause u can never tell what may happen months or years down the line after you guys really fall in love with this kid. What if she moves away? What if the Dad or his family do come around and may not want lil man around y'all like that? Whats gonna happen when she starts to request more money from u to do this or do that? There's gotta be some serious boundaries. Theres a difference between godparents and actual parents.

Now if y'all are keeping lil man and say mom is going to school or doing some productive to get back on her feet or move into a more stable environment, that I can fuck with, but if she is using her free time to go "party" or smoke weed and chill at a niggas place and waste her own money, then thats when u gotta stop and think twice about certain things. Its gonna be even worse for the kid if he gets used to you guys and then gets suddenly cut off if something happens in the future to break y'all apart.

[GLOCK]

So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on?

[Barbie Dangerous]

So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on?

He said the house smelled like weed, did we confirm that she was an abuser? What else was there to indicate that she's truly unfit?

[GLOCK]

So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on?

He said the house smelled like weed, did we confirm that she was an abuser? What else was there to indicate that she's truly unfit?

I know a crackhead when I hear about her. She's lacing the mess with mess tbh.
The filth in the house and the lack of food. Sis ain't living right tbh

She's clearly unfit

Food is essential and it's winter

Why the fuck would it be cold in anyone's crib? Especially with a 4 year old in it?

[Barbie Dangerous]

So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on?

He said the house smelled like weed, did we confirm that she was an abuser? What else was there to indicate that she's truly unfit?

I know a crackhead when I hear about her. She's lacing the mess with mess tbh.
The filth in the house and the lack of food. Sis ain't living right tbh

She's clearly unfit

Food is essential and it's winter

Why the fuck would it be cold in anyone's crib? Especially with a 4 year old in it?

Playing devil's advocate. Matt might be exaggerating all conditions because he's hellbent on keeping that baby..

[RatherBe]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy

aj is really the one who's like either we're all in or we're out. He's been researching and figuring out the exact process. I have the overall big picture but he's really the brains behind the details and process to make sure I don't get hurt too bad or to just keep thinking with my heart.
I am not willing to lose my relationship for this though. I've tried life without being with aj and yeah, I'm good on that. I will never choose that. We talk every night and as far as us and our relationship we are on the same page. I hate being in limbo with the other crap tho. As the man of this house, it's my goal to work on eliminating that in the next month.

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

ack!

[GLOCK]

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.

hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy

aj is really the one who's like either we're all in or we're out. He's been researching and figuring out the exact process. I have the overall big picture but he's really the brains behind the details and process to make sure I don't get hurt too bad or to just keep thinking with my heart.
I am not willing to lose my relationship for this though. I've tried life without being with aj and yeah, I'm good on that. I will never choose that. We talk every night and as far as us and our relationship we are on the same page. I hate being in limbo with the other crap tho. As the man of this house, it's my goal to work on eliminating that in the next month.

Yes bro. U better know u got a good man. Ack!

Praise my bruv a bit

This is love.
That's why i have no doubt that y'all will work this out and continue to build this love y'all have!


Proud of all the growth bro. Keep going. Keep loving and keep aj first

[RatherBe]

Imma head out though. I'll start logging on and talking to you fools way more.  Thank y'all for all the nice shit you said and the advice. I appreciate that.  


Night.