Family Reunion StoryLol so earlier this year.. me and Matt traveled to Natchez, Mississippi for his family reunion.
Hell. On. Earth.
So first Matt asked me if i wanted to go, and i responded with instantaneous, swift, black ass "HELL NO!"... in my opinion i had met the mfs that mattered (parents and sister) and initially that shit didnt go too well. i didnt feel like putting myself in that uncomfortable position and risking our relationship.. so i was like...
PERIOD!!he was going on about how he hadnt been in 3 years and how he really wanted me to go with.. in my head im thinking the following
1.)
nigga if you aint been in 3 damn years, whats another year?2.)
What about it is so bad that you dont wanna go alone and that you havent been in three years3.)
No! needless to say he was upset..lolz, i was pretty set in my ways about not going until... his mom called and asked me to go.. i think he had her do it, because he knows i cant tell her no, usually (he wants me to put here that, thats not true.) whatever, back to what i was saying.. i was trying really hard to say no, she just was not going for it and she is just sooo sweet. so when we were all at his parent's house a day later, i was asking them more questions about the trip.. "how long was the ride?" "were we all riding together?" "where we were staying?' "did his family know about me and matt, we're they accepting?" the whole NINE i was not about to get caught slipping this time... so they assure me that its all cool and that me, matt and his sis could ride together because his parents were going down 2 days before.. matt said that we were staying at the hotel and that his sister would probably stay with us and his parents were staying at the family's house.. and he says that the rest of his family is like his parents and sister.. i agree to all of this and im cool... the ride there was LIT.. Matt drove while me and sis drank

it was lit.
we got there and went straight to the hotel. called his parents and told them we made it. got food and matt knocked out because he had been driving the whole time. me and baby sis, stayed up watching movies and talking..
next morning was the reunion. we get there and honestly everything felt okay. matts walking around introducing me to people as his "friend" which didnt bother me. every things going good.. inside the house we meet his granny and she was so cool lol funny as shit too..we're sitting talking to her and matts cousins came in... they do the "long time, so see!!" "stranger" schpeel... grandma chimes in on this... and then she says "hell. i wanted to know who was keeping my baby away from me!"
matt:

me:

his sister is just giggling...
so one of his cousin is like we about to go play some ball.. you wanna come play or you wanna stay in here with the ladies and gossip..

so im like are you talking to me... hes like yeah.. i know you dont play no ball.. matts smirking because he knows i can play. so matts like we'll do two on two. us against you and whoever... so they thought it was gonna be easy. the first game was close but we lost, so they wanted to bet on the next game, and we beat the hell out of them of course they started talking straight nigga bullshit... calling me princess

, saying i was cheating, saying matt was doing all the work.. which we all knew was a lie.

the last game i ended up tripping and scarring up my knee a lil... they were talking trash saying it was time to go inside and sit with the ladies and it was a man's sport. but i wanted to finish even though matt kept asking me if i was sure... i wasnt bothered by their lil comments but matt was getting mad... i didnt want him to show his ass and fully give himself away so after we won the last game i said i was going inside to ice my knee (some type of bull shit) i forgot what i said.
while we're in the house..me and matt in there talking about what they were saying and im trying to assure him that im fine, the cousin comes in the room where we are and is like "i just came to check on my little princess." i laugh. matt no so much.
matt is looking at the cuz like:

it got awkward and silent
the cousin eventually caught the hint and left. i walk towards the bathroom i see matts sister. im talking to her about everything, laughing. the annoying ass cousin walks up again... now im starting to get annoyed and hes like "dont be over here lying..you garbage on the court." so im like "...but you see who won and who lost, right? RIGHT!" so he mustve gotten in his feelings about that because that was the first time that i actually had responded to one of his remarks... and he says "you only wanted to play to touch on some dudes."
Me:

you asked me if i wanted to play, so what does that make y- nvm." and i walk off back outside
now its time to eat... the food was soooo good...me and matt were eating together but i guess at some point when i wasnt looking he got up. i called his phone but it was at the table. so i know he wasnt far. there was this 2 year old that i started playing with and feeding, she really took a liking to me.. her mom was like "i cant believe shes acting like that with you... she usually dont like strangers." so now its like 3 kids and we are all just playing in the yard.. so thats where my focus was.. i hadnt noticed that matt hadnt came back yet. like 20 mins later matt comes out.. and i can tell somethings happened.
he walks up to me and asks real quietly because the kids are there.. "Are you uncomfortable and do you wanna be here?"
i say im fine and hes like are you sure.. while we are talking matts mom and sister come out and matts mom is like "im sooo sorry that happened."
im confused AF.. i just ate good and at this point im having the time of my life running a mini daycare.
matt is like "ma just give me a sec."
im like "whats going on"

the energy has completely shifted and now everybody is lookin on our direction
so matts sister is like.. "well, hell ill say it! i told him what my cousin said to you in the hallway, i sure tf did!"

matts like if you wanna go.. just say so and we can leave right now. i lowkey was ready but i felt bad because matt hadnt seen his grandma in like 3 years (i think that was the main point of the trip and why he wanted to go so bad) i didnt wanna be selfish by saying i was ready to go, so im like no really im fine we can stay. so i continue playing with the kids and matt is either right by me or watching like a hawk to see if anyone comes to say anything to me... about 25 mins go by and the cousin comes out of nowhere i guess one of the kids that were hanging outside with me was his... he comes and picks the lil boy up and tells him he needs to stay with him, mind you the whole day the lil boy has been running around free (i mean it is a family reunion and basically everyone there is family) but now all of a sudden the nigga wants to be dad of the year..
matt sees this and just yells... "THATS IT! Get your shit. We're leaving now, 'fore i break this retarded ass nigga's neck." (i later found out the cousin couldnt read

...so that was the sting) the cousin obviously heard.. he charges out the house yelling. him and matt are passing words at this point... well really its just the cousin because matt just kept saying real calmly "make me fuck you up in front of these kids.." so i knew matt was about to try to whoop his ass.. so i just say "Okay lets go!" i didnt even wanna argue with matt about staying at this point, it had already gone too far. hes like im about to unlock the door, tell my sister if shes coming with us we're leaving now. i get his sister and we get in the car. matts walking towards the car and at this point im not sure what was said because out of no where matt does a 180 and turns around and is walking back towards the cousin..the cousin pushes matt first and then matt spears the shit out of him.. like some shit you would see in WWE

im watching all this but im like SHOOK because everything happened so fast. needless to say by the time i got over there matts dad and some other guys had already broke them up. Matts dad was cursing him tf out for fighting and stooping that low
for the first time i seen matt disrespect his parents.. he looked his dad STRAIGHT in the eye and was like:
so then matt and his dad started arguing.. by this time i knew matt was in a RAGE for him to talk to his dad like that.. so i literally had to drag him to the car... his dad is like "yeah get him, somebody better talk some sense into him."
meanwhile the cousin is limping into the house still talking shit

finally get in the car and the sister fall asleep on the way to the hotel... me and matt start talking and hes calmed down a little bit but hes still upset. while we are talking i see a tear come down his face and he tries to play it off but i know he was cryin a little bit.. so we pulled up to the hotel and the sister goes up to the room we stay in the car talking.. i think that was the first time that he really got to see that everybody aint as accepting of the lifestyle now that hes IN IT. and i think he couldnt believe he had went that far with his dad..
the next day we went back to the house so he could apologize to his grandma, spend more time with her and say bye to everyone because we were leaving that night. he didnt speak to his dad while we were there but he talked to him on the way home.. me and his sister took turns driving back.. so matt could chill. yea dassit.
my cousin still is illiterate and broke. -from matt