Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)

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Meathead_33127

Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 09:41:35 PM
So now going through someone's worth basically solidifies ones worth!

Excellent!


Glad you agree!


Meathead_33127

September 04, 2016, 09:45:12 PM #287 Last Edit: September 04, 2016, 09:46:26 PM by Meathead_33127
Nevermind

Vonc2002

So because u have sex with someone, ur now entitled to know evrything about them and who they talk to and share i miss u msgs with :dead:
They didn't have a conversation about exclusivity before the sex and he didn't have the right to go thru his phone anyway so none of what he saw was even supposed to be seen. U sound like one of those extra clingy/crazy people that u duck and Dodge after sex :dead:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GLOCK

Hope pons.. I mean meathead posts more.
Welcome Hun


GLOCK


b7

Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
n

looking through someone's personal things isn't going to answer all of those questions, so now what? sounds like you
simply have trust issues. Question your decision making in terms of who you allow to enter you in the first place, if you must
do all THAT. 

b7

Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 09:39:15 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
people are so disgusting
I hate nosey ass people
:uhh:

Like why ...
Get ur own damn business
Hate when ppl just scroll thru my phone
This girl ( a friend of mines) that I fcked found some niggas ass pics in my phone once ...
Bitch watched me key in my password
I left my phone for like 3 minutes and this bitch said I know ur code  :uhh:

I said  :uhh:
Opened my phone up and saw she was in the deleted pics section
And I had all his ass pics in there
I just let the shit go.. And she did too apparently .. Fucked her again and she never mentioned it
Nosey bitch
embarrasing. and to brag on it :uhh: learned ur code LMAO  :uhh: s;s;dsddds

Vonc2002

Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:56:05 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
n

looking through someone's personal things isn't going to answer all of those questions, so now what? sounds like you
simply have trust issues. Question your decision making in terms of who you allow to enter you in the first place, if you must
do all THAT.
Yea, now THIS post sounds like insecurity issues, definitely
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 08:59:44 PM
Because I've looked thru someone's phone, i should make mine accessible and not care if people look thru mine? :dead:

Because i know people are nosey/curious, is exactly why i protect my phone the way i do. If that didn't make sense to you, u probably don't have much.......... especially if ur  going up for a lew cosign :kii:

It goes back to the golden rule bby




Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

RatherBe

Wth happened in here..

Just to clear up anything..


I don't usually go through phones.
Actually this was my first time doing it ever..

As I said before lol.. Because he was identifying as straight at a point... I felt the need to make sure this wasn't some game of front he was putt on on with me. We aren't in a relationship but we are strongly considering one.. And this will be my first time in a situation like this. I hear you guys talk about DL dudes and how they act homophobic but like dick on the low.. I felt for my sake that I needed to just check and make sure that this was something I can manage..

Btw I had a talk with him about how he identifies and the whole closet thing...

He said something about not really caring about what people think that he's gonna do what makes him happy regardless.. However he isn't quite comfortable with broadcasting that he's into a guy.. But if he was asked he wouldn't really deny it.. he just doesn't feel comfortable yet with voluntarily disclosing his sexual preference.. I'm okay with that, to me its understandable. He never hides me or tells me how to act. When he says he doesn't care.. I truly get that from him.



Meathead_33127

I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!

GLOCK

Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:57:01 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 09:39:15 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
people are so disgusting
I hate nosey ass people
:uhh:

Like why ...
Get ur own damn business
Hate when ppl just scroll thru my phone
This girl ( a friend of mines) that I fcked found some niggas ass pics in my phone once ...
Bitch watched me key in my password
I left my phone for like 3 minutes and this bitch said I know ur code  :uhh:

I said  :uhh:
Opened my phone up and saw she was in the deleted pics section
And I had all his ass pics in there
I just let the shit go.. And she did too apparently .. Fucked her again and she never mentioned it
Nosey bitch
embarrasing. and to brag on it :uhh: learned ur code LMAO  :uhh: s;s;dsddds
people are disgusting

yummy

Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!

did u just call me a faggot