So I finally get why most gays are single

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GLOCK

Quote from: Drais. on September 22, 2016, 10:05:56 AM
Yeah finding a man that can communicate outside of sex is hard to find these days.

And once you find a man capable of that you need to hold on for dear life cause....... :dead:

My ex & I broke up about 2 years ago (or almost) and I've been enjoying the single life but these past few months I've been longing for some affection. I met a few guys off some apps but they all pretty much wanted one thing. Plus they all suck at communicating. They're literally just cute faces with nothing else to offer as most guys I've encountered this year are.

Dating doesn't even excite me anymore.  :unsure:

       

>><<

Really starting to think there's no hope TBH
I'm afraid of those apps for that reason and knowing that most of them are just fucking everyone in their surrounding areas smh

GLOCK

Quote from: Drais. on September 22, 2016, 10:07:53 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 10:00:18 AM
I even began questioning whether or not I was asking for too much
Creating a fantasy of sorts in my head..
:overit:

Naw, most guys our age are just the pits.       

I see SMFH

GLOCK

Quote from: BLOND?. on September 22, 2016, 10:10:06 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 09:53:58 AM
Quote from: BLOND?. on September 22, 2016, 09:49:10 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 09:44:48 AM
Quote from: BLOND?. on September 22, 2016, 09:42:40 AM
I've been in a realtionship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.
This is how it was for me...
But we were together for 3 years... I didn't cheat but I imagined mysel doing so
Funny enough there was no one around that I liked or wanted so that helped
But the love had clearly dried up.

I've been single for almost 2 months now .. u think I'm putting too much emphasis on getting to know him?

I totally understand.  The guys I've cheated on him with I would never even date.  That's the real shade.  Most times, we just want a fantasy sexually, anyway.  I've learned that sex and my relationship can definitely be seperate.  I get now how people can be fulfilled sexually outside of the relationship, but totally still need the emotional/friendship/support aspect of a relationship.  We barely have sex, but somehow we are still together fronting like this is the best situation ever.  I do honestly hope it changes. 

But as for you.... I can't really say.  I'm the type to be trying to say "I love you" after 2 months.  So, I wouldn't be the right person to ask.  It's all about how you feel.  Ain't no rules.  If your intuition is telling you he just wants to be thotted out, then you're probably right.  Just don't ignore it, and then realize you're dating some bopper 6 months in who's tossing that boochie everywhere.  I've seen it happen to one of my boys. 

Sad.
Eek!
You need to get out
This is exactly how things began to feel like for me
I had to dip!

But that's some real shit
Yeah they just wanna get fucked and if I'm wasted and in the mood I'm just gonna D em down! :cheerup:

What if it's so good.  You gon be stuck!  :loose2when:
Nah bby
Unless he brings some actual depth to the situation
I won't be
Ass is temporary

L0NZ.

Fags ya'll age? Oh now y'all fags want an older nigger huh  :ATLcameo:


XXX.

Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 10:12:44 AM
Quote from: BLOND?. on September 22, 2016, 10:10:06 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 09:53:58 AM
Quote from: BLOND?. on September 22, 2016, 09:49:10 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 09:44:48 AM
Quote from: BLOND?. on September 22, 2016, 09:42:40 AM
I've been in a realtionship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.
This is how it was for me...
But we were together for 3 years... I didn't cheat but I imagined mysel doing so
Funny enough there was no one around that I liked or wanted so that helped
But the love had clearly dried up.

I've been single for almost 2 months now .. u think I'm putting too much emphasis on getting to know him?

I totally understand.  The guys I've cheated on him with I would never even date.  That's the real shade.  Most times, we just want a fantasy sexually, anyway.  I've learned that sex and my relationship can definitely be seperate.  I get now how people can be fulfilled sexually outside of the relationship, but totally still need the emotional/friendship/support aspect of a relationship.  We barely have sex, but somehow we are still together fronting like this is the best situation ever.  I do honestly hope it changes. 

But as for you.... I can't really say.  I'm the type to be trying to say "I love you" after 2 months.  So, I wouldn't be the right person to ask.  It's all about how you feel.  Ain't no rules.  If your intuition is telling you he just wants to be thotted out, then you're probably right.  Just don't ignore it, and then realize you're dating some bopper 6 months in who's tossing that boochie everywhere.  I've seen it happen to one of my boys. 

Sad.
Eek!
You need to get out
This is exactly how things began to feel like for me
I had to dip!

But that's some real shit
Yeah they just wanna get fucked and if I'm wasted and in the mood I'm just gonna D em down! :cheerup:

What if it's so good.  You gon be stuck!  :loose2when:
Nah bby
Unless he brings some actual depth to the situation
I won't be
Ass is temporary

Don't come back in 3 months crying on my shoulder.  I'm writing this down.  :watchit:

GLOCK

XCCCVVBBBBBB BVVBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

trust me .. he doesn't quite do it for me mentally
If we one day have sex I doubt it will be the type that keeps me locked in!


Zankou.


LOONA.

Quote from: L0NZ. on September 22, 2016, 10:14:26 AM
Fags ya'll age? Oh now y'all fags want an older nigger huh  :ATLcameo:

ghhfffffff

Know anybody?

:tistheseas:       


wizzy

I still don't older tbh
Once I tried with this one guy
he looked 30 but was was 40
so I figured "hey!.."
:letsmessfag:

Just as silly as a 25 year old
He'd been in a relationship for 10 yrs and was back to being single
swimming in the new age dating pool and so dumb and lost
he accidentally called me bae
revealing that he was already seeing someone passed the friend zone
but was talking to me in case his guy flopped

L0NZ.

Quote from: Drais. on September 22, 2016, 10:20:22 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 22, 2016, 10:14:26 AM
Fags ya'll age? Oh now y'all fags want an older nigger huh  :ATLcameo:

ghhfffffff

Know anybody?

:tistheseas:       


fffff. Yeah a bunch of niggas MY age  :feelinmyself:


GLOCK

If I date someone older
They have to be very tight skinned and youthful spirited :ohwow:

With a fat shaved boochie

JRocka

Quote from: Kurama on September 22, 2016, 09:57:06 AM
Apps have microwaved courtship in so many ways
Men aren't really conditioned to have meaningful dialogue, let alone with one another.
People dont really know how to communicate effective anymore.
If someone does they really have to work hard to help the other party out and that can be exhausting and people would rather explore other options instead of building with someone they like. That grass is always greener shit.

!!!!!

JRocka

Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 10:22:06 AM
If I date someone older
They have to be very tight skinned and youthful spirited :ohwow:

With a fat shaved boochie

u n your bf done? :mmyulost:

GLOCK

Quote from: LiBra on September 22, 2016, 10:25:18 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 22, 2016, 10:22:06 AM
If I date someone older
They have to be very tight skinned and youthful spirited :ohwow:

With a fat shaved boochie

u n your bf done? :mmyulost:
yeah for 2 months now next week  :howfestive:

KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: L0NZ. on September 22, 2016, 10:14:26 AM
Fags ya'll age? Oh now y'all fags want an older nigger huh  :ATLcameo:
s

I mean, I understand everything they're saying, 20's were a fckn MESS :plzstop:
I should've secured a 40 yr papi at 25 if I was smarter

Our gen are trendsetters tho
How to still look 24 six years later
:young:

H.#.G.*.Z