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[Demm_]

A few weeks ago a few of my former students who are 8th graders now visited my 7th grade class toward the end of the day. I was reading this boy's paper, and when he writes his "I" he does the circle for the dot.

He peeks at the paper my 8th grade student says, "is he gay?" I was like..."what?" 

He then says, "str8 dudes don't write their i's like that"

I had to enlighten a bit.

[Kurama]

dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.

[Opposites Attract.]

I honestly genuinely don't have a response. I don't believe in the whole masculine/feminine label within the gay community. It's all mental and a way for heterosexual gender roles to infiltrate Homosexuality and emasculate the man but It's dope to read others opinions on it though.

[Demm_]

dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.

"He writes too pretty"

So to be straight, you gotta have 4th grader penmanship?

[L0NZ.]

Feminine to me is a very sing songy way of talking, every word has an extra syllable. Popping lips, delicate mannerisms, deliberate soft/nasal voice and all of this is done very subtley actually. When I say popping lips I dont mean acting ghetto I mean naturally doing it here and there. Then there are the extra things guys do that are clearly feminine like wearing clohing that is designed for women, extra cosmetics, etc etc. Its more the combination of all these things generally.

Masculine is an overall thing, too. But I wont say MUSCLES! DEEP VOICE! FITTED CAP....its honestly a matter of being NOT feminine. Its just.... regular. A regular guy. You can have feminine 'ways' and still be masc to me. Just not that combination mess I described above. and if course It varies from person to person

[Real]

I had to enlighten a bit.

I'm crying thinking about this response

[Kurama]

Feminine to me is a very sing songy way of talking, every word has an extra syllable. Popping lips, delicate mannerisms, deliberate soft/nasal voice and all of this is done very subtley actually. When I say popping lips I dont mean acting ghetto I mean naturally doing it here and there. Then there are the extra things guys do that are clearly feminine like wearing clohing that is designed for women, extra cosmetics, etc etc. Its more the combination of all these things generally.

Masculine is an overall thing, too. But I wont say MUSCLES! DEEP VOICE! FITTED CAP....its honestly a matter of being NOT feminine. Its just.... regular. A regular guy. You can have feminine 'ways' and still be masc to me. Just not that combination mess I described above. and if course It varies from person to person

Thanks Lonz, I also knew you'd have some good input.

[Demm_]

I had to enlighten a bit.

I'm crying thinking about this response

I said... "Listen..." And took it from there...

[Vonc2002]

A few weeks ago a few of my former students who are 8th graders now visited my 7th grade class toward the end of the day. I was reading this boy's paper, and when he writes his "I" he does the circle for the dot.

He peeks at the paper my 8th grade student says, "is he gay?" I was like..."what?" 

He then says, "str8 dudes don't write their i's like that"

I had to enlighten a bit.

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See but in 8th grade that makes perfect sense. I could see an adolescent thinking this.....well a grown man too tbh. I think back to grammar school and girls doing that real cutesy drawing with their letters.

[GLOCK]

I feel like they coincide in a sense
But I've learned that both men and women can behold both traits .. whether homosexual or heterosexual

[Vonc2002]

dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.

God forgive me cause
Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine 
I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely 

[Demm_]

A few weeks ago a few of my former students who are 8th graders now visited my 7th grade class toward the end of the day. I was reading this boy's paper, and when he writes his "I" he does the circle for the dot.

He peeks at the paper my 8th grade student says, "is he gay?" I was like..."what?" 

He then says, "str8 dudes don't write their i's like that"

I had to enlighten a bit.

sddsddssssssss
See but in 8th grade that makes perfect sense. I could see an adolescent thinking this.....well a grown man too tbh. I think back to grammar school and girls doing that real cutesy drawing with their letters.

But you know I feel it's my obligation to plant a new seed 

[Demm_]

dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.

God forgive me cause
Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine 
I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely 

Fhidkdndmdkdddddrr

"Boy...erase this mess"

[Kurama]

dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.

God forgive me cause
Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine 
I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely 

Firstly, I wouldnt give a damn if you were cool with me ya lil crumb snatcher. Probably was a lil shit then too.

Secondly,

My last name is Rose.

[Buy The Stars✨]

In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.

Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me