Started by Kurama, October 14, 2016, 11:51:54 AM
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Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:40:51 PMA few weeks ago a few of my former students who are 8th graders now visited my 7th grade class toward the end of the day. I was reading this boy's paper, and when he writes his "I" he does the circle for the dot. He peeks at the paper my 8th grade student says, "is he gay?" I was like..."what?" He then says, "str8 dudes don't write their i's like that" I had to enlighten a bit.
Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 01:45:17 PMFeminine to me is a very sing songy way of talking, every word has an extra syllable. Popping lips, delicate mannerisms, deliberate soft/nasal voice and all of this is done very subtley actually. When I say popping lips I dont mean acting ghetto I mean naturally doing it here and there. Then there are the extra things guys do that are clearly feminine like wearing clohing that is designed for women, extra cosmetics, etc etc. Its more the combination of all these things generally. Masculine is an overall thing, too. But I wont say MUSCLES! DEEP VOICE! FITTED CAP....its honestly a matter of being NOT feminine. Its just.... regular. A regular guy. You can have feminine 'ways' and still be masc to me. Just not that combination mess I described above. and if course It varies from person to person
Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:51:15 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:50:31 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PMdreereererreerThat's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.God forgive me cause Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely Fhidkdndmdkdddddrr"Boy...erase this mess"
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:50:31 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PMdreereererreerThat's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.God forgive me cause Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PMdreereererreerThat's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay. Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract. I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay. Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone though
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:55:43 PMQuote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:51:15 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:50:31 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PMdreereererreerThat's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.God forgive me cause Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely Fhidkdndmdkdddddrr"Boy...erase this mess" gggFuck yall okay. It's my last name, I thought I was being creative.
Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 01:56:34 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay. Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract. I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to meWhat about height? I ask because my bf normally dated shorter guys before me. He's 6'2 and I'm 6'1. He got over that I guess.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:59:57 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay. Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract. I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to meSo dominance in ur mind is im big ur small and because I'm bigger, im dominant?
Quote from: Real on October 14, 2016, 02:01:53 PMQuote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 01:56:34 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay. Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract. I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to meWhat about height? I ask because my bf normally dated shorter guys before me. He's 6'2 and I'm 6'1. He got over that I guess.I didn't know you were tall
Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 02:03:25 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:59:57 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PMQuote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PMQuote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PMQuote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PMIn looking for a partner I don't like masc/muscle guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys I can be friends with almost anyone thoughSo u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay. Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract. I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to meSo dominance in ur mind is im big ur small and because I'm bigger, im dominant?Thats a very common stance.