How do YOU define masculinity & femininity ?

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BranLover

Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:40:51 PM
A few weeks ago a few of my former students who are 8th graders now visited my 7th grade class toward the end of the day. I was reading this boy's paper, and when he writes his "I" he does the circle for the dot.

He peeks at the paper my 8th grade student says, "is he gay?" I was like..."what?"  :uhh:

He then says, "str8 dudes don't write their i's like that"

:hmph: I had to enlighten a bit.

:plzstop: :plzstop:

BranLover

Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 01:45:17 PM
Feminine to me is a very sing songy way of talking, every word has an extra syllable. Popping lips, delicate mannerisms, deliberate soft/nasal voice and all of this is done very subtley actually. When I say popping lips I dont mean acting ghetto I mean naturally doing it here and there. Then there are the extra things guys do that are clearly feminine like wearing clohing that is designed for women, extra cosmetics, etc etc. Its more the combination of all these things generally.

Masculine is an overall thing, too. But I wont say MUSCLES! DEEP VOICE! FITTED CAP....its honestly a matter of being NOT feminine. Its just.... regular. A regular guy. You can have feminine 'ways' and still be masc to me. Just not that combination mess I described above. and if course It varies from person to person

Yes!!!

Kurama

Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:51:15 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:50:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PM
dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.
God forgive me cause :dead:
Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine  :dead:
I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely  :dead:
Fhidkdndmdkdddddrr

"Boy...erase this mess"
:plzstop:

ggg

Fuck yall okay. It's my last name, I thought I was being creative.  :uhh:

L0NZ.

Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me

What about height? I ask because my bf normally dated shorter guys before me. He's 6'2 and I'm 6'1. He got over that I guess.


Vonc2002

Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:51:15 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:50:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PM
dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.
God forgive me cause :dead:
Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine  :dead:
I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely  :dead:
Fhidkdndmdkdddddrr

"Boy...erase this mess"
:plzstop:
sddddddddddddddddddddddddds
Like i know me and i just KNOW if we were passing our papers to the front and i saw that damn rose drawn id give a


Followed by, BOY if u dont get yo big
...........
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Demm_

Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:55:43 PM
Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 01:51:15 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:50:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:42:47 PM
dreereererreer

That's another important piece too though, discourse. I used to draw a rose at the end of my full name and they tore me to shreds. Then people usually bash any male who has nice penmanship.
God forgive me cause :dead:
Nice penmanship, no i don't care about that but something like drawing a rose at the end of ur name........i DO think that's a lil feminine  :dead:
I probably wouldn't not be cool with u but i would definitely rag on u for it, like definitely  :dead:
Fhidkdndmdkdddddrr

"Boy...erase this mess"
:plzstop:

ggg

Fuck yall okay. It's my last name, I thought I was being creative.  :uhh:
:plzstop: :plzstop: taking up all this class time with your arts and crafts. Pass in your homework and on to the next... :plzstop: :plzstop: 





Vonc2002

Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me
So dominance in ur mind is im big ur small and because I'm bigger, im dominant?
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw






Real

Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 01:56:34 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me

What about height? I ask because my bf normally dated shorter guys before me. He's 6'2 and I'm 6'1. He got over that I guess.

I didn't know you were tall :damselindistress:

L0NZ.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:59:57 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me
So dominance in ur mind is im big ur small and because I'm bigger, im dominant?

Thats a very common stance.



L0NZ.

Quote from: Real on October 14, 2016, 02:01:53 PM
Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 01:56:34 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me

What about height? I ask because my bf normally dated shorter guys before me. He's 6'2 and I'm 6'1. He got over that I guess.

I didn't know you were tall :damselindistress:

:supluv:


Vonc2002

Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 02:03:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:59:57 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:52:32 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:30:50 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?

I just prefer to be the dominate one and I guess it's also a looks thing for me too. Im a more built bigger guy so to me it feels normal to be with someone who is smaller than me. It just looks right to me. In my case opposites really do attract.
I don't have to know they are gay to date them if they are still skinny that's more important to me
So dominance in ur mind is im big ur small and because I'm bigger, im dominant?

Thats a very common stance.
Wow, that sucks
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





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