How do YOU define masculinity & femininity ?

Started by Kurama, October 14, 2016, 11:51:54 AM

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Zankou.

Quote from: Baphomet. on October 14, 2016, 02:16:38 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on October 14, 2016, 02:15:43 PM
I heard they don't teach cursive in schools anymore

they shouldn't. I haven't ONCE ever used it in business tbh.
Only for signatures  :kii:

I think it's still important to know how to read it though


SouravMay

Cursive is important, anything else gives me kindergarten tease nn
B7

yummy

But back to the topic at hand, what so yall give offline behavior wise?

I stopped getting clocked once I hit high school and learned how to walk without a switch and relax my mannerisms. I went through a strictly masc period where I literally mimicked everything my brothers did in terms how to walk, talk, sit etc;

I eventually let go of all of that and learned to find a healthy balance between being comfortable and avoiding giving anything away.

Vonc2002

October 14, 2016, 02:19:06 PM #199 Last Edit: October 14, 2016, 02:19:52 PM by Vonc2002
Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 02:11:58 PM
My handwriting sucks sffff. I literally write in italics. After writing a full page, Id look and everything is slightly sifting to the right
sddsddsssssssssssssssssssss
I know EXACTLY what ur talking about. I CAN write neatly but i have to kinda think about it to do it. Like consciously, purposely do it. Normally i just dgaf. I write really heavy. Like if i wrote a full page of something, i could flip the paper over and the indentations would be on the back side for like every letter :dead:
So it was just too much to add neatly writing into the equation unless it was simething i was turning into somebody
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Kurama


yummy

I feel kind of hypocritical at times because I feel like I still have some insecurities around the idea of getting clocked, but I'm not about to pretend like l enjoy sports or walk like a penguin to throw someone's faggot senses off.

Young




Vonc2002

Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 14, 2016, 02:18:29 PM
Cursive is important, anything else gives me kindergarten tease nn
I agree
Anything else seems so elementary to me
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





SouravMay

Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 14, 2016, 02:18:33 PM
But back to the topic at hand, what so yall give offline behavior wise?

I stopped getting clocked once I hit high school and learned how to walk without a switch and relax my mannerisms. I went through a strictly masc period where I literally mimicked everything my brothers did in terms how to walk, talk, sit etc;

I eventually let go of all of that and learned to find a healthy balance between being comfortable and avoiding giving anything away.

You think you have a gay walk or had one? I think one of my insecurities in the past, for being perceived gay has maybe been my taste in music or film. I think to me I still think it is a dead give away, but I think mostly fellow gays read it. If somebody adores female pop singers, you will be put in the gay box.

I do think if one talks more slowly and deeper I'd be considered manlier maybe and therefore "less gay".
B7

SouravMay

My grandpa who grew up with the Arabic alphabet writes in block letters, like these. it aint cute

B7

b7

Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:06:55 PM
Quote from: D.I.E.G.O. on October 14, 2016, 01:04:56 PM
f the question is not about dating or friendships, it's about DEFINING what those two words mean.

QuoteDoes either hold more weight when you're looking for friends or partners?


...like...just stfu...
:kii:

Smh

L0NZ.

October 14, 2016, 02:25:18 PM #208 Last Edit: October 14, 2016, 02:26:29 PM by Columbo! PICASSO!
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 02:19:06 PM
Quote from: Columbo! PICASSO! on October 14, 2016, 02:11:58 PM
My handwriting sucks sffff. I literally write in italics. After writing a full page, Id look and everything is slightly sifting to the right
sddsddsssssssssssssssssssss
I know EXACTLY what ur talking about. I CAN write neatly but i have to kinda think about it to do it. Like consciously, purposely do it. Normally i just dgaf. I write really heavy. Like if i wrote a full page of something, i could flip the paper over and the indentations would be on the back side for like every letter :dead:
So it was just too much to add neatly writing into the equation unless it was simething i was turning into somebody

!!!! same.

I also dont necessarily have a designated, habitual way of writing. Sometimes I use both capital and lowercase letters in the same word. I just donated a dollar at 7Eleven for some breast cancer mess and they gave me a lil placard to hang on the window. I wrote my name in all caps ff


yummy

Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 14, 2016, 02:23:04 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 14, 2016, 02:18:33 PM
But back to the topic at hand, what so yall give offline behavior wise?

I stopped getting clocked once I hit high school and learned how to walk without a switch and relax my mannerisms. I went through a strictly masc period where I literally mimicked everything my brothers did in terms how to walk, talk, sit etc;

I eventually let go of all of that and learned to find a healthy balance between being comfortable and avoiding giving anything away.

You think you have a gay walk or had one? I think one of my insecurities in the past, for being perceived gay has maybe been my taste in music or film. I think to me I still think it is a dead give away, but I think mostly fellow gays read it. If somebody adores female pop singers, you will be put in the gay box.

I do think if one talks more slowly and deeper I'd be considered manlier mayba therefore "less gay".

I was super effeminate as a kid, high pitched voice, walked with a switch, everything tbh  :dead: thank god for puberty

I think every gay learns how to supress it as they get older.