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[FINE.]

And it's not synonymous with hatred or wishing bad on someone. Like it's normal to want something a friend has that you don't or w/e the case is

Like it's not far fetched 

You can be jealous and still show support and/or motivate someone
It shouldn't have such a negative connotation attached to it to where ppl are like "oh no! Would/could never!"

and it shouldn't be so far fetched to believe some people just don't experience that towards their friends

[GRAND]

It's just like anything else

Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things

Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.

I'm saying some people never or rarely experience it.

Especially as it pertains to this topic.

Well, I guess.

Just google this and you'll find many different articles that go into depth. It's really not a bad thing -- jealousy.

Black people think so and I think it has a lot to do with the slave mentality of there can only be one, so you can't let your feelings show.  But I digress again.

!!! it comes down to being 'covetous' not being a good thing and it being a sin

it has nothing to do with that ONLY ONE mentality

That makes absolutely NO sense. In fact, if someone had that mentality it would make perfect sense that they would be jealous of someone else and whatever they accomplished 

[Vonc2002]

And it's not synonymous with hatred or wishing bad on someone. Like it's normal to want something a friend has that you don't or w/e the case is

Like it's not far fetched 

You can be jealous and still show support and/or motivate someone
It shouldn't have such a negative connotation attached to it to where ppl are like "oh no! Would/could never!"

and it shouldn't be so far fetched to believe some people just don't experience that towards their friends

[FlowerBomb]

[GRAND]

All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)

I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that

But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.

That's why it just doesn't happen.

[FlowerBomb]

Guess me and Que are just evil bitches huh

[Vonc2002]

 

[FINE.]

All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)

I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that

But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.

That's why it just doesn't happen.

when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.

[GRAND]

All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)

I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that

But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.

That's why it just doesn't happen.

when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.

That's the only way I feel about it 

How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding

[pettypatty]

naw.

Me and my friends slay together 

[Vonc2002]

naw.

Me and my friends slay together 

sddddddddddd
This is how i feel tbh

[FINE.]

All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)

I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that

But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.

That's why it just doesn't happen.

when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.

That's the only way I feel about it 

How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding

just lowkey saltiness mixed with being desirous of whatever the person might have. It's an emotion that pops up from time to time.
If someone is jealous all the time then there's a problem. That's just how I see it.

[GRAND]

All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)

I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that

But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.

That's why it just doesn't happen.

when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.

That's the only way I feel about it 

How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding

just lowkey saltiness mixed with being desirous of whatever the person might have. It's an emotion that pops up from time to time.
If someone is jealous all the time then there's a problem. That's just how I see it.

i guess i understand

i will say the last time i strongly felt this was during a fuck/relationship 



but it was a competition  maybe thats why i associate it in such a way

[Eternal Bell]

no

[KING BENTLEY.]

I'm jumping in on the tail end, but I DO see what Que is saying. It's a common human emotion.

are you guys saying you've NEVER felt jealousy at all?
or just never felt that way towards someone you consider a friend?