Honesty Hour: Do you police yourself on not being "too black" in public?

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FINE.

Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:33:55 PM
Quote from: Baeomi on November 22, 2016, 06:30:31 PM
Your more vocal when it comes to blacks acting a fool, but when your kpop faves say some shit about black people
you make like casper and vanish

I actually have voiced how ignorant they can be

BranLover

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 22, 2016, 02:31:35 PM
I definitely do, especially living here in Southern California.

I was just having a conversation about this with a friend of mine. White people don't get how much their perceptions affect people of color. To the point that some of us feel the need to wear this "mask" when we interact with them so they don't feel threatened or uneasy.

I've seen this first hand. I've been told that I speak very "proper". So sometimes when dealing with White people I see this relief or ease come over them the minute I open my mouth. It's like, "Ok, he's one of the cool ones."

These fuckin DEVILS have taken so much from us. Even the ability to just be ourselves. It's like we have to constantly conform or "play their game" to get ahead or appease them, and if you don't you're labeled a certain way. It's sad.

All of this.


BranLover


BranLover

Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 06:37:03 PM
Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 06:36:34 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 22, 2016, 02:31:35 PM
I definitely do, especially living here in Southern California.

I was just having a conversation about this with a friend of mine. White people don't get how much their perceptions affect people of color. To the point that some of us feel the need to wear this "mask" when we interact with them so they don't feel threatened or uneasy.

I've seen this first hand. I've been told that I speak very "proper". So sometimes when dealing with White people I see this relief or ease come over them the minute I open my mouth. It's like, "Ok, he's one of the cool ones."

These fuckin DEVILS have taken so much from us. Even the ability to just be ourselves. It's like we have to constantly conform or "play their game" to get ahead or appease them, and if you don't you're labeled a certain way. It's sad.

All of this.
type ur own mess
ur just as lazy as tbull

hhhhgh

Mel.

Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:35:48 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:30:44 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh

I'm still black. Mixed and all.
with my lightskin and hazel/green eyes and curly hair. Still my BLACK and BEAUTIFUL self!

I'm sorry if you want what I possess. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!
:letsmessfag:

Lol

Love yourself. Dont hate on me.
look in the mirror and learn to love yourself

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 06:31:39 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:29:20 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 06:28:09 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh
v

lew girl

step outta this one

you just referred to someone as TOO AFRICAN looking earlier



Im in it

Those guys looked to african to.me and i didnt like it
what's the difference between that and the mess you're getting on Mel about?

Dating preferences vs discrimination based on race
I like my black american lookin bruvas



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

FlowerBomb

Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 06:37:06 PM
But I feel like some of their asses put on a front too.
you mean white people pretending to be DOWN?

Mel.

Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 06:36:37 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:35:45 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 06:34:09 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:30:44 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh

I'm still black. Mixed and all.
with my lightskin and hazel/green eyes and curly hair. Still my BLACK and BEAUTIFUL self!

I'm sorry if you want what I possess. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!
:letsmessfag:
im over here crying

yass, flip those tresses mama

I'M SCREAMING!!!
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let em fume! :cheerup:

hey bew

Hey luv! :-D

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:37:47 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:35:48 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:30:44 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh

I'm still black. Mixed and all.
with my lightskin and hazel/green eyes and curly hair. Still my BLACK and BEAUTIFUL self!

I'm sorry if you want what I possess. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!
:letsmessfag:

Lol

Love yourself. Dont hate on me.
look in the mirror and learn to love yourself

I learned that back in 04 while u were postin pics of the real u



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: شيطان on November 22, 2016, 04:18:34 PM
It's mostly linguistic and behavioral markers of class than race for me. I come from a working class immigrant family, my nature is pretty hood and inner city but I'm moving into liberal elite bubble media circles and I really notice how I have to switch it up. They are so bougie even with music taste.
sssssssssssssssss

Afro?
:guys:

H.#.G.*.Z

GRAND

Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:37:52 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 06:31:39 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:29:20 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 06:28:09 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh
v

lew girl

step outta this one

you just referred to someone as TOO AFRICAN looking earlier



Im in it

Those guys looked to african to.me and i didnt like it
what's the difference between that and the mess you're getting on Mel about?

Dating preferences vs discrimination based on race
I like my black american lookin bruvas
fag please you don't even go for black men from whay it seems

And if you did they can't be too dark

Is that what your issue with Mel is? Because he's lighter than you? Is that why you have a problem with dark skin?


Gilgamesh.

Quote from: sadiddy? on November 22, 2016, 06:38:22 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:37:47 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:35:48 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:30:44 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh

I'm still black. Mixed and all.
with my lightskin and hazel/green eyes and curly hair. Still my BLACK and BEAUTIFUL self!

I'm sorry if you want what I possess. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!
:letsmessfag:

Lol

Love yourself. Dont hate on me.
look in the mirror and learn to love yourself
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Mel.

Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:39:23 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:37:47 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:35:48 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:30:44 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 22, 2016, 06:26:08 PM
Quote from: Mel. on November 22, 2016, 06:19:59 PM
and yall are some of the most racist individuals I've come across
so let's not even go there with that racist mess.

Says the gorl clinging to being mixed and lightskin and lighteyes fairytales

Too ashamed to be the black brick u are

Part of the problem tbh

I'm still black. Mixed and all.
with my lightskin and hazel/green eyes and curly hair. Still my BLACK and BEAUTIFUL self!

I'm sorry if you want what I possess. YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!
:letsmessfag:

Lol

Love yourself. Dont hate on me.
look in the mirror and learn to love yourself

I learned that back in 04 while u were postin pics of the real u

You haven't known me that long. Sorry
maybe you're confusing me with someone else