Got my AncestryDNA results.....

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Sidona

Quote from: Phantom on September 07, 2015, 08:10:21 PM
Its just that first sentence  :dead: like gorl, who are these people? I would never look at her or her hair and wonder if she's mixed/ what she's mixed with. Like.... Where  :uhh: I just see nigger tbh  :letsmessfag: and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

!!!! lkjhkjsdhlfajhfdjhffd

im wondering WHO these people are.

Phantom

Quote from: Jonovan on September 07, 2015, 08:15:37 PM
Quote from: Phantom on September 07, 2015, 08:10:21 PM
Its just that first sentence  :dead: like gorl, who are these people? I would never look at her or her hair and wonder if she's mixed/ what she's mixed with. Like.... Where  :uhh: I just see nigger tbh  :letsmessfag: and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
But what's wrong with wanting know where you came from? lol

Lol read what I said luv. The first sentence was the only kii. I actually didn't make it to anything past that. Researching your heritage is wonderful.

Herb.

September 07, 2015, 08:24:27 PM #122 Last Edit: September 07, 2015, 08:27:18 PM by Herb.
Quote from: Boomer (ง︡'-'︠)ง on September 07, 2015, 08:20:29 PM
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Herb gorl!

I didn't come back into this thread after my last reply. But reading through it now and I'm realizing you group me as one of the negative gorls?
I didn't mean harm.

We use to joke like that remember? A bitch goes on a short sabbatical and loses her sense of humor. :uhh:
nnnnn

I didn't name anyone. I think you made a joke and punched. Its expected from u.  :dead: :dead: :dead: I don't want anyone to think I was singling them out. But clearly there are a few people here who highkey hate me.  :dead:

And that's fine. At the end of the day, as long as my trade uses, I could careless what some miserable queen thinks about me or my truth. lolz

SUPREME

Quote from: Herb. on September 07, 2015, 07:59:58 PM
I mean, I did kinda just post my mess and punch.

Preme, That paragraph you quoted was the reason for why I did a DNA test. Not an explanation to anyone here. Honestly I wouldn't dedicate that much energy to anyone in particular here, not anymore at least. As you can see, when the gorls came with their mess, I kii'ed and punched. Simply commented on the anger and hostility I sensed -- which others noticed and noted as well (Glock and Jayd)

I know my truth. So to get upset about someone challenging it, or to pull out powerpoint presentations to debate with them would be useless. It's MINE. That's sad on their part, if it upsets them.

lolz!
sdddddddd

i understand what you're saying but commenting and kii'ing @ the shade is what im talking about

stop hun

i know how to be a pest and when someone gives in and gives me attention all it does is confirm that im doing my job correctly

ignoring someone just goes a long way, is all im saying

:udontlookok:

Plank

idc wat ure mix wit luv

keep fckin wit me n it wont matter cuz them curls r comin OUT

Herb.

September 07, 2015, 08:29:45 PM #125 Last Edit: September 07, 2015, 08:30:58 PM by Herb.
Quote from: SUPREME on September 07, 2015, 08:27:02 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 07, 2015, 07:59:58 PM
I mean, I did kinda just post my mess and punch.

Preme, That paragraph you quoted was the reason for why I did a DNA test. Not an explanation to anyone here. Honestly I wouldn't dedicate that much energy to anyone in particular here, not anymore at least. As you can see, when the gorls came with their mess, I kii'ed and punched. Simply commented on the anger and hostility I sensed -- which others noticed and noted as well (Glock and Jayd)

I know my truth. So to get upset about someone challenging it, or to pull out powerpoint presentations to debate with them would be useless. It's MINE. That's sad on their part, if it upsets them.

lolz!
sdddddddd

i understand what you're saying but commenting and kii'ing @ the shade is what im talking about

stop hun

i know how to be a pest and when someone gives in and gives me attention all it does is confirm that im doing my job correctly

ignoring someone just goes a long way, is all im saying

:udontlookok:
I honestly think its funny, and enjoy the stalking to an extent. It's lowkey flattering, if I'm being completely honest. If they want to follow me around and question my every statement, talk about me, come at me.....bring it on! :cheerup: I won't sit here and argue with you but I will laugh with you, and at you. lolz Then log off and well..live my life hehe!

Herb.

Quote from: Plankesha on September 07, 2015, 08:27:53 PM
idc wat ure mix wit luv

keep fckin wit me n it wont matter cuz them curls r comin OUT
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:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

:stressed:

SUPREME

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oh well i know what you mean

sometimes i get a little HOT when someones hot with me hehe

do you then luv

:traciandchelle:

Herb.

Quote from: SUPREME on September 07, 2015, 08:31:51 PM
ssssssssssssddddd

oh well i know what you mean

sometimes i get a little HOT when someones hot with me hehe

do you then luv

:traciandchelle:
lolz!!

:raycharles2urmess:

luh u bvy :stressed:

Boomz

Quote from: Herb. on September 07, 2015, 08:24:27 PM
Quote from: Boomer (ง︡'-'︠)ง on September 07, 2015, 08:20:29 PM
gtrhgsjgggggggggggggggg

Herb gorl!

I didn't come back into this thread after my last reply. But reading through it now and I'm realizing you group me as one of the negative gorls?
I didn't mean harm.

We use to joke like that remember? A bitch goes on a short sabbatical and loses her sense of humor. :uhh:
nnnnn

I didn't name anyone. I think you made a joke and punched. Its expected from u.  :dead: :dead: :dead: I don't want anyone to think I was singling them out. But clearly there are a few people here who highkey hate me.  :dead:

And that's fine. At the end of the day, as long as my trade uses, I could careless what some miserable queen thinks about me or my truth. lolz


Well it's all luv from this direction.

A lil Carol's Daughter Pomade from me to u!

Herb.

Quote from: Boomer (ง︡'-'︠)ง on September 07, 2015, 08:38:31 PM
Quote from: Herb. on September 07, 2015, 08:24:27 PM
Quote from: Boomer (ง︡'-'︠)ง on September 07, 2015, 08:20:29 PM
gtrhgsjgggggggggggggggg

Herb gorl!

I didn't come back into this thread after my last reply. But reading through it now and I'm realizing you group me as one of the negative gorls?
I didn't mean harm.

We use to joke like that remember? A bitch goes on a short sabbatical and loses her sense of humor. :uhh:
nnnnn

I didn't name anyone. I think you made a joke and punched. Its expected from u.  :dead: :dead: :dead: I don't want anyone to think I was singling them out. But clearly there are a few people here who highkey hate me.  :dead:

And that's fine. At the end of the day, as long as my trade uses, I could careless what some miserable queen thinks about me or my truth. lolz


Well it's all luv from this direction.

A lil Carol's Daughter Pomade from me to u!

[l]pk[ojp'i0h;u9glfy8ct7dr6xsue5z

thnx bvy i ran owt

Herb.

September 07, 2015, 08:55:00 PM #131 Last Edit: September 07, 2015, 09:00:55 PM by Herb.
Quote from: Jonovan on September 07, 2015, 08:15:37 PM
Quote from: Phantom on September 07, 2015, 08:10:21 PM
Its just that first sentence  :dead: like gorl, who are these people? I would never look at her or her hair and wonder if she's mixed/ what she's mixed with. Like.... Where  :uhh: I just see nigger tbh  :letsmessfag: and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
But what's wrong with wanting know where you came from? lol
It's complex, it's a black thing Jon', let me break it down for you. lol.

For some reason in our community when someone brings up their heritage, unless they're strictly referring to Africa, people get very uptight. But on the other hand, people in our community are also quick to assume that anyone who doesn't have kinky hair is of mixed heritage. Which isn't always necessarily true because there are people who are 100 percent African in countries such as Ethiopia and Somalia who have looser curl patterns.

It just happens that I actually have a mixed heritage which is pretty close generationally on the maternal side of my family, which contributes to some attributes which aren't necessarily "African". The truth is most black men do not have hair like mine. Which is what prompts these questions from people. It intrigues them, and that's understandable.

However, I do NOT consider myself mixed. I mean the reason that my hair intrigues people is the fact that I AM black. lol and clearly of African descent.  if I had a more European appearance with my skin, etc. it probably wouldn't raise a question for anyone. That's why they question my HERITAGE.

Some people see "mixed" anything and automatically shut down and start getting angry and accusing others of self hatred. When its actually the opposite, it's embracing your WHOLE truth and everything about you which makes you who you are.

But that's what makes black people so beautiful. You have someone like me who is dark complected with softer hair, and then you have someone like Michael Ely who has green eyes, light skin and kinky hair. We're kinda well.......beautiful lolz :cheerup: