And I know some of you will kii but being of mixed heritage is a huge reason I struggled so much with my hair, not knowing what to do with it for so long. It's kinky and it's curly at the same time. It's thick, dense hair with a looser curl, and although it appears very full its actually very fine in texture (the strands themselves), which makes it tricky finding good product to use. Any person who has my hair will tell you that. Then you have other black people telling you how jealous they are of your hair...asking you about your heritage.....I know it sounds funny that I'd complain about something like that, but its part of what drove me to this test to be honest.
Here in the south the "good hair' complex is stronger than anywhere else I've ever been. They want to know WHY you have it....HOW did u get it....why ur curl pattern is so consistent...the list goes on, and its always black women. It's weird having women tell you that they envy something on you -- cuz ur a man

or others will ask u , "does it naturally curl like that?".....which is the question I really detest. Like, why would I perm my fucking head.

I mean, even on the board, all I do is post a pic of my hair and people start talking about it -- whether making jokes or asking what I use, or whatever. Imagine it in real life for me.
I know I'm venting about something that may seem rather trivial and even comedic upon reading it, but I just want to possibly open some minds as to what goes on and why I sought answers. This wasn't random. People see hair that is not strictly kinky and automatically jump to a "Native AMerican heritage" conclusion. That's ignorance within our community, I don't know where it began...but I don't want to encourage or foster it. So next time someone asks I'll be prepared with educated answers.
#endrant . U guys can post a random letter under this essay now.

got some studying to do....love u bvys!!!!!!!!! i'm watching u

stay fabulous
and keep fucking twirling
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