So there's this good straight friend of mine... (Real Life Story)

Started by Purple Moon, January 21, 2017, 07:58:12 PM

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Purple Moon

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:44:38 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on January 21, 2017, 08:28:07 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:21:09 PM
If thats even him, his not obligated to share that with u. Address it for what? he clearly doesnt wanna discuss that and that's his choice. as his friend, your duty is to be there if he needs to discuss it with u and understand that he may NEVER wanna discuss it with u. It's hilarious that you somehow found a way to turn this around and become the victim :dead:

Maybe you'll understand more if I say that we have a somewhat weird friendship. sometimes he treats me like a gay best friend and tries to rub it in peoples faces that i like guys, when i myself am not completely comfortable doing that with random people that I dont know that well. I've put him in check for that already and informed him that I'm more than my sexual orientation.

So now finding out that he likes himself some dick, does seem a little odd.
I still dont think he's obligated to tell u anything. We have to check friends all the time to let them know what we will and wont accept, so that situation shouldve ended with the chceking. This makes it sound like a spiteful thing a lil to me now. I think if he chooses to confide in u then thats great but I wouldnt impose myself on my friend like WHY DIDNT U TELL ME
ur making it about u and it's not about u. I recently had a situation similar to this happen. I introduced 2 friends of mine. The father of my friend died and he didnt disclose it to me but he did to my other friend. went over drank and smoked  and had a whole commiseration day. My friend that he told asked me did I feel some kinda way. No, why would I? People have different relationships with different people. If he chooses to tell me then Im here to receive it. If not, then I accept that as well. I didnt take that moment and make it about me, and I feel like thats what ur doing here...........but this is just my opinion

I appreciate your point of view, maybe I'm being a little too harsh on him here. There are some friends that I don't share certain stuff with, who I still consider to be good friends. I will try to just ignore this for now, as in the end it shouldn't affect our relationship. Telling him that my friend saw him on Tinder might only make him uncomfortable and that's not the goal for me either.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Purple Moon

Quote from: formate on January 21, 2017, 08:54:58 PM
hun I think u want to be more than friends with him.

sss

i used to want more, but i'm over it i think. also he doesn't want me obviously.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

KING BENTLEY.

so .... nobody else realized Irf still has a crush on his boy :dead:

That's why he wants this SOLVED

H.#.G.*.Z


Vonc2002

Quote from: BENTLEY. on January 21, 2017, 09:01:10 PM
so .... nobody else realized Irf still has a crush on his boy :dead:

That's why he wants this SOLVED
Yea cause is seeming a lil deeper. It really shouldn't matter either way.
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





FlowerBomb

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:21:09 PM
If thats even him, he's not obligated to share that with u. Address it for what? he clearly doesnt wanna discuss that and that's his choice. as his friend, your duty is to be there if he needs to discuss it with u and understand that he may NEVER wanna discuss it with u. It's hilarious that you somehow found a way to turn this around and become the victim :dead:
jjjjjjjijjj why are you LIKE this

Purple Moon

January 21, 2017, 09:06:35 PM #22 Last Edit: January 21, 2017, 09:07:27 PM by BrandySavedMyLife
guys i forgot to mention that my gay friend (who I also had a crush on when I first got to know him), liked my straight friend on tinder when he saw him there. so if they actually do match, it's time for some fucking mess in these streets.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Nine

Quote from: formate on January 21, 2017, 08:54:58 PM
hun I think u want to be more than friends with him.

sss
!!! dfskdsmkdfsfdk inspector gadget! confrontation!

hun ya want him

:usuresis:

Purple Moon

Quote from: Nude on January 21, 2017, 09:04:22 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:21:09 PM
If thats even him, he's not obligated to share that with u. Address it for what? he clearly doesnt wanna discuss that and that's his choice. as his friend, your duty is to be there if he needs to discuss it with u and understand that he may NEVER wanna discuss it with u. It's hilarious that you somehow found a way to turn this around and become the victim :dead:
jjjjjjjijjj why are you LIKE this

i think he doesnt like me  :ohwow:

but i actually appreciate his harsh opinionata.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Vonc2002

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on January 21, 2017, 09:08:39 PM
Quote from: Nude on January 21, 2017, 09:04:22 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:21:09 PM
If thats even him, he's not obligated to share that with u. Address it for what? he clearly doesnt wanna discuss that and that's his choice. as his friend, your duty is to be there if he needs to discuss it with u and understand that he may NEVER wanna discuss it with u. It's hilarious that you somehow found a way to turn this around and become the victim :dead:
jjjjjjjijjj why are you LIKE this

i think he doesnt like me  :ohwow:

but i actually appreciate his harsh opinionata.
:dead:
Irf i have absolutely no problem with u. Im just stating my opinion..........unadulterated
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Purple Moon

guys it would be less tricky if he wouldnt call me gorgeous, compliment my hair etc every other day.

anybody would feel a little flattered and wonder if it's time to MESS a bit.

sssss
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Purple Moon

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 09:10:26 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on January 21, 2017, 09:08:39 PM
Quote from: Nude on January 21, 2017, 09:04:22 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:21:09 PM
If thats even him, he's not obligated to share that with u. Address it for what? he clearly doesnt wanna discuss that and that's his choice. as his friend, your duty is to be there if he needs to discuss it with u and understand that he may NEVER wanna discuss it with u. It's hilarious that you somehow found a way to turn this around and become the victim :dead:
jjjjjjjijjj why are you LIKE this

i think he doesnt like me  :ohwow:

but i actually appreciate his harsh opinionata.
:dead:
Irf i have absolutely no problem with u. Im just stating my opinion..........unadulterated

I know it's all love Vonc :wub:
I tend to make everything about me, I'm sorry.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 21, 2017, 08:21:09 PM
If thats even him, he's not obligated to share that with u. Address it for what? he clearly doesnt wanna discuss that and that's his choice. as his friend, your duty is to be there if he needs to discuss it with u and understand that he may NEVER wanna discuss it with u. It's hilarious that you somehow found a way to turn this around and become the victim :dead:
Omffffffffffffff  But I agree with every word of this!!
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Nine

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on January 21, 2017, 09:10:46 PM
guys it would be less tricky if he wouldnt call me gorgeous, compliment my hair etc every other day.

anybody would feel a little flattered and wonder if it's time to MESS a bit.

sssss
so u do wanna suck his dick then

:ATLcameo: