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[Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In]

I mean Whoopi Goldberg was married to a white man.
Robert DeNiro's wife is black and I've met both of them.

Hell, even Taye Diggs was married to Idina Menzel for years.

[Rxxf]

I don't know... poor sense of worth comes to mind for people who do that.

[Vonc2002]

I think once you reach a certain level of success and enter a certain social class you won't find many black girls to interact with anymore. Don't know

I kinda agree there's way more rich white ppl overall than Black
so Im unless its fans at a club or something, most women these guys run into are white

most of these women (and Im not talking about specifically the ones in the op) are not or were not Martha Stewarts and Kelly Ripas before.

How do you explain the white women that have gotten with ballers and rappers? They were no diff from the black girls.
Black women are up there in college getting degrees before everydamnbody.

they dont have to be Kelly or Martha
they're more Paris & Nicole Hilton most likely, born & raised rich, so they're able to go the big, A-list Black tie events and meet these guys
Black women have to also be a celeb, through hard work and talent to get the types of opportunities these plain Jane white girls get

Now i can see this.  Blk girls arent afforded the opportunity to meet these men the way white girls are. They're THERE so they pick from the crop of women that surround them

[Vonc2002]

I mean Whoopi Goldberg was married to a white man.
Robert DeNiro's wife is black and I've met both of them.

Hell, even Taye Diggs was married to Idina Menzel for years.

Now Jay what's the significance of this?  I fckn love u

[Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In]

My great-grandfather who is a white man didn't marry a white woman.

[Kurama]

What did u say before u edited that post Bre?

g

I was being an ass

you said oh ok

I said right! lolz

[Rxxf]

What did u say before u edited that post Bre?

g

I was being an ass

you said oh ok

I said right! lolz

i can't stand y'all

[BAPHOMET.]

My great-grandfather who is a white man didn't marry a white woman.

mixed self

[Rxxf]

I will say... I've heard black man say things like "my baby will have good hair", in reference to dating a different race... and I'm sure there's a slew of other foolishness.
Some men are just ignorant.

And some REALLY just fall in love.

[Kurama]

I mean, we can delve into self hatred and social class and all that junk, but interracial dating isn't the epidemic some people think it is. The majority of black me (the average joes) are married to black women.

I think it's a lot more pervasive then we think it is tbh. Even with so many Black men dating Black women, is that based on a proximity thing or a genuine love for Blk women. I ask because I see messages about Black women being less than or wanting a biracial or other raced woman from black men daily.

Or even if some Black men are married to Black women I've personally seen them be treated like shit or less than anyway.

[Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In]

I mean Whoopi Goldberg was married to a white man.
Robert DeNiro's wife is black and I've met both of them.

Hell, even Taye Diggs was married to Idina Menzel for years.

Now Jay what's the significance of this?  I fckn love u

I'm just proving a point that I've seen them interact and they were any ordinary couple. Loving each other. I've seen a number of interracial couples interact and it's just like if they were the same race. Many of my friends that I've known since elementary school that are black married either white men or white women. It's all about how you connect with someone. Interpersonal relationships are quite complex especially if you observe them. (Putting on my psychologist hat for a second)

[RAY7]

My great-grandfather who is a white man didn't marry a white woman.

good point

[Rxxf]

My great-grandfather who is a white man didn't marry a white woman.

good point

i hate this place

[Kurama]

The way I see it: You fall in love and connect with whoever you connect with. Race shouldn't matter. If a black man falls in love with a white woman or a white man falling love with a black woman and vice versa, it shouldn't matter and shouldn't be an issue. I really don't get why people get so uptight about stuff like this. I mean I've dated guys of different racial and ethnic backgrounds. There are many different forms of connection (mentally emotionally, spiritually, sexually, etc.) that draws two people together. I respect people for being with they're with. It's not my place to judge either. smh

Understandable, I wish everything was as reductive in real life for me.

[Kurama]

yall be so concerned about who's in who's bed
it's really not any of your business

let them be happy.

Hmm...starting to notice a theme with all the ppl up in arms here...