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[DVDDY.]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

!!

I was still getting nudes pics and videos after I made it clear that I was in a relationship. These gays are ruthless 😂

[Kurama]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

Yeah I really can't stand this type of shit. I remember I had a group of friends who would sit around and brag about all the men they fucked that had girlfriends or boyfriends. Then they'd be smiling in the girlfriend/boyfriends face while fuckin their men and kiing about it.


now they're all on social media complaining about being lonely though.

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If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

Not insta rules and DM terms and conditions 

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why is that so far fetched tho?
because it's "online"

I mean continue your normal daily interaction
but look, don't cross the line and disrespect the relationship in person or online

I'd rather he jack to his instathots and keep it to himself.
Hell I don't even follow him online...I don't need to see anything he likes.

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you damns new age gorls and you new age thinking
there's always lines and levels, having relationship guidelines doesn't scream insecurity, it's natural
you even have a guideline, you want him to do it and not tell you

I mean ... jacking to someone he doesn't know is just like porn. that's not what we mean
but liking and jacking to everything on his new "friends" page is unacceptable
why would I be waiting around allowing him to keep it to himself ... until the day he doesn't keep it to himself?

Iono why I come in these threads, I always feel like an old bitty. my gen is old school

Maybe what you see as rules is what I see as conversations before getting involved. I make sure he knows before hand what my understanding of dating / a relationship is and that if he ever felt that was no longer for him he could express it. We aren't (nor do I plan on ever get) married, don't have kids, don't share a mortgage. There's literally not one reason for him to ever feel stuck. Besides I think it's silly to blame things like Socia media, the gym, the bar he goes to. A cheater is a cheater period...the environment doesn't create the cheater...the cheater seeks the venue. I refuse to be over here stressing when I know what I'm bringing to the table. If I can resist and block attempts on a daily basis...he should be able to breeze through it just as easily.

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Celebs were thotting and bopping before social media...it's just easier for them to find their prey now. 

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Easier for them to be sloppy and get caught now too

Side pieces are now bolder than ever. Social media is  kind of a gift.

[LOONA.]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

!!

I was still getting nudes pics and videos after I made it clear that I was in a relationship. These gays are ruthless 😂

They're tacky as fck tbh. They think they're on some sort of conquest or some mess. Let's see how many relationships I can destory etc.

Filth   

[LOONA.]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

Yeah I really can't stand this type of shit. I remember I had a group of friends who would sit around and brag about all the men they fucked that had girlfriends or boyfriends. Then they'd be smiling in the girlfriend/boyfriends face while fuckin their men and kiing about it.


now they're all on social media complaining about being lonely though.

I hope you dropped these "friends" cause     

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.

not a requirement but an option thank you

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No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.

not a requirement but an option thank you

An option for the unfulfilled

[KING BENTLEY.]

@Sleigh
a cheater is a cheater

I used to think that, but now I think it's a case by case basis

not saying there are valid reasons to cheat, but even honest ppl can get caught up in relationship woes and lash out imo

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@Sleigh
a cheater is a cheater

I used to think that, but now I think it's a case by case basis

not saying there are valid reasons to cheat, but even honest ppl can get caught up in relationship woes and lash out imo

Not you advocating for a break baby.

[Kurama]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

Yeah I really can't stand this type of shit. I remember I had a group of friends who would sit around and brag about all the men they fucked that had girlfriends or boyfriends. Then they'd be smiling in the girlfriend/boyfriends face while fuckin their men and kiing about it.


now they're all on social media complaining about being lonely though.

I hope you dropped these "friends" cause     

Of course I did.

[BAPHOMET.]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

Yeah I really can't stand this type of shit. I remember I had a group of friends who would sit around and brag about all the men they fucked that had girlfriends or boyfriends. Then they'd be smiling in the girlfriend/boyfriends face while fuckin their men and kiing about it.


now they're all on social media complaining about being lonely though.

yuck

[DVDDY.]

@Sleigh
a cheater is a cheater

I used to think that, but now I think it's a case by case basis

not saying there are valid reasons to cheat, but even honest ppl can get caught up in relationship woes and lash out imo

I kinda get this, in a weird way

[Kurama]

I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

I've heard this before. My friends who just married had a 3some but they said neither could bottom. What's the significance?

I think it's something about letting someone else inside them...getting what should be mine... I'll admit, I haven't fully thought about it but it just always made sense to me

Whew, almost lashed you.


I hear this a lot. Its interesting.

[b7]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

!!

I was still getting nudes pics and videos after I made it clear that I was in a relationship. These gays are ruthless 😂

fdfffffff they thrive off that shit.  Scary