Iyanla confronts two gay black pastors

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Bentley!

September 19, 2015, 11:42:03 PM #75 Last Edit: September 19, 2015, 11:42:35 PM by Bentley!
sssssssss
I think sharing certain things on bsource is a no no.
Your ssn, fb page, moms maiden name

But I wish a phagg would come for me with willingly shared information :dead: :kii:

The girls around here have to be stronger, no shade
Once you get to a certain point a chick can't really come for you no matter what ammo they think they have
Cause a lashing will still occur
:letsmessfag:


Bentley!

September 19, 2015, 11:56:00 PM #77 Last Edit: September 19, 2015, 11:56:50 PM by Bentley!
Quote from: Stewie on September 19, 2015, 11:41:18 PM
i was thinking the same thing when i saw bentleys post...

we all know how ruthless that witch, Talisa is

the moment you remind her ciara cant sing (or dance) she'll just kinda throw it in your face
sssssssss
No shade but that's what separates me and my good sistren here from the fray of weaker gorls.
There's absolutely no "read" someone could use against us,especially one given by me. It's called being greater than.


And .... Am mean....  I even revealed to the girls I was raped before

By those two muscle Army ROTC dudes and how they lured me into their dormitory late at nite and just used me
I didn't ask for that, but it happened



..... and I survived it
:heyddy:

Gilgamesh.

Quote from: Baphomet. on September 19, 2015, 09:48:11 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on September 19, 2015, 09:43:28 PM
I dont like how they tied in him being raped as a young boy with him being gay, like what does one have to do with the other.

I really HATE that because it makes no sense.
How can a traumatic experience make you want to turn gay.   :diddraispoot:

!!!

Jon

September 20, 2015, 12:37:43 AM #79 Last Edit: September 20, 2015, 12:38:30 AM by Jonovan
Quote from: Bentley! on September 19, 2015, 11:11:00 PM
Molestation does cause confusion, I think they should look into how it plays into sexual preference. Because it happens more than ppl think.

My molester actually created a false bond, and even tho you feel bad about what's happening, you don't want to let that person down as a kid. Especially if they're in a position of power over you.

But as a young adult, I never really attributed that to my preference, partly because I blocked it out. But who knows

I don't think so, that's more PTSD than anything. I knew I was different before but I think abuse does make sex with a man "easier". IDK how to explain it.


RekeRig

I don't think children are too young to identify anything. I don't think we give them enough credit. I knew what I liked since age 5 and maybe before

Herb.

September 20, 2015, 01:08:55 AM #81 Last Edit: September 20, 2015, 01:09:35 AM by Herb.
True, maybe a young boy can identify the fact that he likes girls. But what if someone comes along and challenges his conceptions of sexuality by forcibly exposing him to his first real sexual experience -- one which contradicts what he feels is right for him?

Rxxf

September 20, 2015, 08:32:31 AM #82 Last Edit: September 20, 2015, 08:33:13 AM by Ralf
Quote from: Stewie on September 19, 2015, 10:43:01 PM

most of the ones who 'turn gay because of molestation' were already gay to begin with

I actually believe this.
It was just a coincidence that they happened to get molested by a man.

There's many heterosexual individuals who were molested and are not gay.
BRANDY

Rxxf

For instance, there may have been cases when a young male was molested by a woman...
And still ended up being gay.

There's so many variables to consider.
BRANDY

Rxxf

Quote from: RIG on September 20, 2015, 01:02:52 AM
I don't think children are too young to identify anything. I don't think we give them enough credit. I knew what I liked since age 5 and maybe before
BRANDY

RekeRig

Quote from: Herb. on September 20, 2015, 01:08:55 AM
True, maybe a young boy can identify the fact that he likes girls. But what if someone comes along and challenges his conceptions of sexuality by forcibly exposing him to his first real sexual experience -- one which contradicts what he feels is right for him?
you're right. Anything is possible

It's hard for me to imagine because it isn't my experience, but I do know that kids are easy to manipulate and confuse. Sad

Stunna Gor’

I watched the show last night with my sis... I enjoyed it n felt that it was pretty genuine. I mean their story is clearly not EVERY fag's story, but it opened questions and deep conversation between me n my sis. I enjoy and can appreciate things like this simply for the purpose of that. My sis said it before I could even get to it.. We often felt like the married pastor was using tears to avoid answering questions and standing in his truth. She said Iyanla should've came RIGHT back n asked the question again. :dead:

SUPREME

Quote from: Stewie on September 19, 2015, 11:41:18 PM
i was thinking the same thing when i saw bentleys post...

we all know how ruthless that witch, Talisa is

the moment you remind her ciara cant sing (or dance) she'll just kinda throw it in your face
sometimes i wish the worst things on this earth would happen to you

You're a really stupid Faggot. I mean that to its truest form.

SUPREME

I've never been molested but i know lots of young girls are molested and theres that stereotype of them becoming whores. I know first hand that's not true so i feel like this is something where there isn't a solid ' answer'

Herb.

Quote from: SUPREME on September 20, 2015, 10:19:17 AM
Quote from: Stewie on September 19, 2015, 11:41:18 PM
i was thinking the same thing when i saw bentleys post...

we all know how ruthless that witch, Talisa is

the moment you remind her ciara cant sing (or dance) she'll just kinda throw it in your face
sometimes i wish the worst things on this earth would happen to you

You're a really stupid Faggot. I mean that to its truest form.
wtf :omgwatshappening: