I believe in it, but I dont know if a lot of people find it.
I see some gay older black couples, but not a lot. I always say majority of gay relationships last about 3-6 months before they're on to the next. They move on so fast too.
A lot of times I think its fake, some just are acting in love for an audience.
I think we as gay men, well those of us who are 20 and up had a late start. We couldn't be out and open like this new generation which is crazy because I only been out of high school like 6 years. I think alot of us are trying to make up for lost time ..Idk maybe im talking in riddles....
Also a lot of times we are superficial. We are to stuck on what we want in a guy and we aren't abundance. He has to be masculine, he can't show emotion, has to have everything together, have to wear the latest labels, have to have the best body....Only to end up at 50 being that gay lonely uncle who once was "it."