And I find it funny how some people are quick to jump on others for not showing enough black pride, or aligning themselves with their community, but once they see it happen, they complain that it's too much too soon.
Essentially, you're pretty much asking "Why are you aligning with your community? Why are you connecting yourself with Africa?" Do these sound like appropriate questions to ask? Regardless of anyone's history? Especially when they've already specifically stated their reasons to you, on a couple occasions? lol I'll just leave it at that.