Eh, such an entrapping life imo.
Trans women are pressured/conditioned to be "passable" and to exist exactly like a woman. What better way to feel like you've finally transitioned or become passable than to be able to have sex with cis oriented men. To be able to attract them or feel like you're supposed to be with some hypermasc ass man because that what the dominant culture does/values.
I dont think these niggas are straight but when you take into account how masculinity is for Black men and how dangerous it is to threaten it, it's always gonna be like this.
Most t-girls I know only have these encounters because they're trying to survive by doing sex-work. These niggas be on the same apps looking for them just as much as they're trying to get money. So I usually reject the whole "they tricked him" narrative.
Niggas just lose their shit when that anonymity is lost and they feel like their masculinity will be lost as a result.
RIP.
