My bf of 7 years just called me a nigger after a heated argument

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:38:18 PM
Oh wow! Not acting like a nigger! U know what, I'm slowly starting to be swayed. Like, they'll always hold that card in their back pocket. U need to give all the deets. What was the argument over? Did u say sumn really horrific to him prior to him saying that?  Do u really think you'll be able to walk away from a 7 yr relationship?
i don't see how anyone would stay honestly.  Toss his ass

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Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:38:56 PM
Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:38:03 PM
Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:35:54 PM
Sorry to hear that
7 years and there weren't any signs?
Obviously not if he stayed for 7 years.
You do realise how stupid this sounds, right?
makes zero sense  :dead: sorry bow'. people always recall the little things after a big blow up

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Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:41:24 PM
Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
A "bitch" here and there under his breath but nothing racially derogatory lol. He'll joke with us about blacks but never anything offensive that I can recall with race involved. He's not one for name-calling in general..
:dead:

:usuresis:

Young

Quote from: Ntwadumela on August 16, 2017, 01:34:54 PM
long story short..I've been dating an Italian guy for the past 7 years. We had a vicious argument and he called me a nigger..or said I was "acting like one" because I wouldn't let him control me. This is the danger of dating white men. The deep seated hatred comes out eventually in one way or the other. Now, he's acting as if it never happened and begging and pleading. I'm so devastated.

Oh MESS!  :uhh:

I'm sorry this happened to you...



Young



Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: 1RIG on August 16, 2017, 04:05:56 PM
Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:38:56 PM
Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:38:03 PM
Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:35:54 PM
Sorry to hear that
7 years and there weren't any signs?
Obviously not if he stayed for 7 years.
You do realise how stupid this sounds, right?
makes zero sense  :dead: sorry bow'. people always recall the little things after a big blow up
Don't agree with him.


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Quote from: Ntwadumela on August 16, 2017, 01:58:22 PM
I'm not innocent by any stretch of the imagination. I fucked his best friend. So I guess this is my karma.
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:uhh:

something is really .. different about you  :dead: still doesn't make it ok tho

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Quote from: 1RIG on August 16, 2017, 04:07:31 PM
Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:41:24 PM
Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
A "bitch" here and there under his breath but nothing racially derogatory lol. He'll joke with us about blacks but never anything offensive that I can recall with race involved. He's not one for name-calling in general..
:dead:

:usuresis:
What'd I say? :unsure:


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Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on August 16, 2017, 02:04:41 PM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on August 16, 2017, 01:58:22 PM
I'm not innocent by any stretch of the imagination. I fucked his best friend. So I guess this is my karma.

Oh now see...

No shade, but I would've called you that and much more :plzstop:
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Ur BLACK tho  :uhh: u know that right

Young

Quote from: Ntwadumela on August 16, 2017, 01:58:22 PM
I'm not innocent by any stretch of the imagination. I fucked his best friend. So I guess this is my karma.
Oh now see...


Young

Quote from: Ntwadumela on August 16, 2017, 02:09:08 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 02:06:52 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on August 16, 2017, 01:54:55 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:48:36 PM
7 yrs is a long ass time. Let's have an honest conversation. Were things really good outside of this argument? Do u think there's anything he could say to you to make u take him back?

Fuck that. 7 yrs ain't shit compared to the rest of gnutellas life. He has decades to go. Move on with it as soon as possible. You'll always, ALWAYS think about how he thinks you're a nigger he tolerates with something about you he happens to like a little bit.
I get it but i honestly could understand him not just walking away. This is terrible but its also why u don't share ur relationship shit with outside parties. U fight with ur boy/girl, u tell people, and u look like a crazy for going back......... because i definitely see him going back in spite of this, sorry Ntw. In arguments dont u go low? Like, bitch you was a hoe before i met u. Nigga, yo lil dick ass, etc. I think this was a disgustingly LOW low, but clearly sumn he said to provoke a response. He just said the boy hasnt shown ANY sign of racism in 7 YEARS, so there's sumn else we don't know here. Iono

Yeah in the heat of the argument. I called him an uneducated, low life cracker with a small dick ..all brawn and no brains, ect..but he went waaay below the belt. He said and did other stuff too which I won't share since a lot of you guys are coming for my wig already ..

My goodness


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Quote from: 1RIG on August 16, 2017, 04:12:44 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on August 16, 2017, 02:04:41 PM
Quote from: Ntwadumela on August 16, 2017, 01:58:22 PM
I'm not innocent by any stretch of the imagination. I fucked his best friend. So I guess this is my karma.

Oh now see...

No shade, but I would've called you that and much more :plzstop:
n

Ur BLACK tho  :uhh: u know that right
hhhhhhhhhh all that BEAR nut seepping out his pores say different

XXX.

Screaming at "or acting like one".

You better not be telling yourself there's a difference.  Leave his ass, and don't look back.

Actually, RUN!  And fast.

Eternal Bell

Quote from: Amir on August 16, 2017, 01:47:04 PM
Quote from: BowDown on August 16, 2017, 01:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 16, 2017, 01:41:24 PM
Bow  has ur father ever called ur mother sumn derogatory?
A "bitch" here and there under his breath but nothing racially derogatory lol. He'll joke with us about blacks but I Never anything offensive that I can recall with race involved.
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He's def called you a stupid nigger BITCH a few times
Believe me.
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