How do you guys cope with homophobic parents/siblings/fam in general?

Started by navyn, October 15, 2015, 06:29:29 PM

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emzen

Quote from: 9九 on October 15, 2015, 09:16:40 PM
Meh, just because you share the same blood with someone doesn't mean you have to love em.
!!!!

I've never understood this mantra of 'oh that's blood! gotta love em!' Fuck that. Everyone can get cut off, tf blood is supposed to do. If you want to disrespect and degrade me then there's no need to maintain a relationship. Mother, father, brother, whoever.

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Quote from: emzen on October 15, 2015, 10:48:12 PM
Quote from: 9九 on October 15, 2015, 09:16:40 PM
Meh, just because you share the same blood with someone doesn't mean you have to love em.
!!!!

I've never understood this mantra of 'oh that's blood! gotta love em!' Fuck that. Everyone can get cut off, tf blood is supposed to do. If you want to disrespect and degrade me then there's no need to maintain a relationship. Mother, father, brother, whoever.
!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

Quote from: 9九 on October 15, 2015, 09:16:40 PM
Meh, just because you share the same blood with someone doesn't mean you have to love em.
Exactly....
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"


Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Scott.

Quote from: 9九 on October 15, 2015, 09:16:40 PM
Meh, just because you share the same blood with someone doesn't mean you have to love em.
i never said you had to

I just hate to see families divided

Scott.

Quote from: Jay. on October 15, 2015, 09:13:03 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on October 15, 2015, 08:28:38 PM
It's sad that some of you can't stand your family. I wasn't close to my fathers family at all until last year and I love all of them. Very accepting. I just hate seeing families divided like my mom's family because none of them fuck with each other
Well if family doesn't accept you nor wants you around them, then fuck them. Simple as that. It's not sad. I've created my own family with my friends. They're way better than my blood family will ever be.

You're missing the point but OKAY!

COD.

This "family" of yours sounds disgusting sorry. And like many have mentioned....just because you share the same blood doesn't mean a damn thing  :usureuok:

Family is someone who loves you, supports you and who wants the best for you and is there for you whenever you need it.

Your mom sounds like she's the one who needs to be sent to a mental hospital tbh. To make a comment like that in front of your own child when she knows you're gay  :diddraispoot:

she sounds like a miserable, hateful bitch. no offense!  :nogrammynoneck:


You don't need people like that in your life. Run far, far away and find your own happiness with people who deserve to be around you. You don't need trash like that in YOUR life bringing you down.

Life is too damn short anyways. Why spend it with people like THAT
:uhh:

Fuck them. Go be happy.

Miranda

It's selfish to come out when you are not paying your own bills.

AIDS!

I'm one of the lucky ones
Especially coming from an African background where tradition and religion is law of the land :dead:
My family don't care and love me the same

COD.


Miranda

Can you not keep your dating life to yourself until you stacked up enough coins to live by yourself? I never understand that.

AIDS!


AIDS!

It's your sexuality, not your  'dating life' :uhh:
And I don't see how it's 'selfish' for anyone to want to share that part of their life with their family
If anything it's brave and their right

Miranda

It is selfish and stupid, especially if you know your family does not tolerate it.