Would you start meeting an Ex again, after they become sick? (life advice needed

Started by Purple Moon, December 28, 2017, 02:54:19 PM

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L0NZ.

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on December 28, 2017, 03:30:30 PM
Quote from: Justaway on December 28, 2017, 03:24:35 PM
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no romance! I insist! not romantically involved! g-guys hear me out no romance!

I still don't get why most of y'all are so hard to be honest. This ambiguous shit will do more harm than good to your ex, unless you REALLY tryna mess with him again but you're scared he'll die soon. Actually, that's what I'm getting from you. If you texted him back while drunk then you actually wanted to regain contact w/ him deep inside :dead:

If you're that worried about his feelings then tell him you're not looking for anything special but you can be there for him if he wants to (and if his health is that much of a concern to you)

Deep down I probably wanted to meet him again, you're right.

then you saw how he looks now and wanna change your tune. tsk!


Vonc2002

boy, u always in sumn. and NO! Being sick doesnt mean all issues I had with u have magically disappeared. A nice call or text or sumn MAYBE but dassit
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Purple Moon

Quote from: Aa. on December 28, 2017, 03:35:56 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on December 28, 2017, 03:30:30 PM
Quote from: Justaway on December 28, 2017, 03:24:35 PM
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no romance! I insist! not romantically involved! g-guys hear me out no romance!

I still don't get why most of y'all are so hard to be honest. This ambiguous shit will do more harm than good to your ex, unless you REALLY tryna mess with him again but you're scared he'll die soon. Actually, that's what I'm getting from you. If you texted him back while drunk then you actually wanted to regain contact w/ him deep inside :dead:

If you're that worried about his feelings then tell him you're not looking for anything special but you can be there for him if he wants to (and if his health is that much of a concern to you)

Deep down I probably wanted to meet him again, you're right.

then you saw how he looks now and wanna change your tune. tsk!

As I said I kind of wanted a friends with benefits mess owt (although i knew he never would agree to such a thing). anything else wouldnt work with him though from experience. So him being sick like that and me using him as a fuckbuddy against his will would be pretty fucked up. And yes maybe I also am not attracted to the idea of anything sexual with him at the moment, I am going to be honest with you. I do still care about him though and that's where the whole thing gets tricky.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Purple Moon

Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

Stunna Gor’

I think it's just the kind of person I am, but I'd start meeting him, if he asked to see me as one of his final wishes. At least check ins here n there. It doesnt seem like anything really romantic.. it's more like allowing him to close chapters and let him rest at ease. Youre not obligated to do anything just because he's sick, but I think it's the right thing to do. I wouldn't want to risk having that regret on my heart in the future.

b7

Why tf would he be interested in romance when he?s going through hell right now? I highly doubt it

He probably needs a friend

Navyman

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on December 28, 2017, 03:20:09 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on December 28, 2017, 03:04:16 PM
but you've been ignoring him for almost a year, and that says a lot also.

what does that say?
That their wasn't anything really there, at least on your end. He is on his death bed, thinking of you and trying to contact YOU. But your feelings or what ever y'all had obviously wasn't that strong on your end if he was "great, amazing, sweet person" but you constantly ignored him. You don't really care about him, your doing it out of pitty and he obviously is probably thinking the opposite. I can understand your in a hard place, if your presence is making him happy on his last days I say why not, but not at the expense of yourself.

Navyman

Quote from: Aa. on December 28, 2017, 03:35:56 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on December 28, 2017, 03:30:30 PM
Quote from: Justaway on December 28, 2017, 03:24:35 PM
s

no romance! I insist! not romantically involved! g-guys hear me out no romance!

I still don't get why most of y'all are so hard to be honest. This ambiguous shit will do more harm than good to your ex, unless you REALLY tryna mess with him again but you're scared he'll die soon. Actually, that's what I'm getting from you. If you texted him back while drunk then you actually wanted to regain contact w/ him deep inside :dead:

If you're that worried about his feelings then tell him you're not looking for anything special but you can be there for him if he wants to (and if his health is that much of a concern to you)

Deep down I probably wanted to meet him again, you're right.

then you saw how he looks now and wanna change your tune. tsk!


Boomz