Gorls, could you be in a relationship w/a guy who isn't out to his family?

Started by MAY, October 20, 2015, 06:59:52 PM

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MAY

Quote from: Bentley! on October 20, 2015, 07:37:35 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 20, 2015, 07:09:56 PM
But if we're talking about some paranoid hyper masculine queen who wants to tell people I'm his cousin...no thanks
sssss

What if he stops you outside of the movies and tells you to "butch" it up for his friends, and to leave an empty seat between you and him


That's the kind of shit I WON'T do


RekeRig

Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:45:11 PM
I just don't care for family in general

I'll meet yours but I'll probably always be slightly standoffish because I'm not very social

And you're not meeting mine. I'm not that guy.

Has nothing to do with being out though.
nigger i'll be meeting ur family when im damn good and readys

:nowgorl:

SUPREME

Quote from: RIG on October 20, 2015, 07:48:39 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:45:11 PM
I just don't care for family in general

I'll meet yours but I'll probably always be slightly standoffish because I'm not very social

And you're not meeting mine. I'm not that guy.

Has nothing to do with being out though.
nigger i'll be meeting ur family when im damn good and readys

:nowgorl:
j

They don't even know who my friends are

They damn sure don't know who I'm in love with

Plank

Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:45:11 PM
I just don't care for family in general

I'll meet yours but I'll probably always be slightly standoffish because I'm not very social

And you're not meeting mine. I'm not that guy.

Has nothing to do with being out though.

i see this if tha guys fam'ly rlly dnt seem welcomin'

my bf would hafta meet my several younger siblings tho
since im involve in they lives
which is fines

my dad is craz' so nobod' can meet him
but yea for tha mos part
fam'ly like aunts n uncles n shit..nah
fck them lols

Miranda


MAY

I totally understand and respect that you have to come out at your own time. I would never try to force anyone to do that, but if we are going to seriously be together at some point the people close to you need to know about me.

I'm not gonna be tucked away like something you're ashamed of. If you're going to functions of close family & friends I want to be part of that too.

And don't even get me started on your DL ass lying telling me that you're going to your sister's birthday party; only to be laid up with some other fag and using that shit as a convenient excuse because you know I won't question your family commitments.

No fuckin ma'am

Miranda

This guy used to prepare stories with me on how we met. At work, 3pm, twas a sunny day.. nnnn It was kinda fun tho.


L0NZ.

Quote from: SCOTTland on October 20, 2015, 07:31:14 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on October 20, 2015, 07:24:46 PM
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Quote from: L0NZ. on October 20, 2015, 07:18:26 PM
what in the k michelle fuck

I use my talent to cope with my heartbreak. Is that wrong? :uhh:

whats wrong is you thinking that was shade.  :uhh: damn bitch

What is wrong is you cursing at me. I asked a question cause you never know what's shade or what isn't around here

:hmph:


MAY

Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:49:21 PM
Quote from: RIG on October 20, 2015, 07:48:39 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:45:11 PM
I just don't care for family in general

I'll meet yours but I'll probably always be slightly standoffish because I'm not very social

And you're not meeting mine. I'm not that guy.

Has nothing to do with being out though.
nigger i'll be meeting ur family when im damn good and readys

:nowgorl:
j

They don't even know who my friends are

They damn sure don't know who I'm in love with

Am at your auntie's house right now.

SUPREME

Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on October 20, 2015, 07:54:37 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:49:21 PM
Quote from: RIG on October 20, 2015, 07:48:39 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:45:11 PM
I just don't care for family in general

I'll meet yours but I'll probably always be slightly standoffish because I'm not very social

And you're not meeting mine. I'm not that guy.

Has nothing to do with being out though.
nigger i'll be meeting ur family when im damn good and readys

:nowgorl:
j

They don't even know who my friends are

They damn sure don't know who I'm in love with

Am at your auntie's house right now.
they're all dead hun

I don't have much family

Kurama

Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 20, 2015, 07:09:56 PM
But if we're talking about some paranoid hyper masculine queen who wants to tell people I'm his cousin...no thanks

Blackpantha

Just as long as he isn't paranoid. And I don't have to hide in the closet (literally) when his folks or friends visit him.
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MAY

Quote from: SUPREME on October 20, 2015, 07:53:55 PM
:omgwatshappening: this is turning into cheater mess

b

It's just that with some guys I feel like if you're not even keeping it 100 with your family, at some point I'm gonna wonder if you're hiding shit from me too.

Not saying that about all guys, but definitely some. They get used to lying and hiding. So it just carries over into the relationship.

"Oh, brunch with mom! Hehe!"

Meanwhile his ass is laid up with Michael across town.