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[MelMel]

I love men period.

we know, hoe!

[Kalifornia.]

Well luckily you got an opportunity to explain yourself. See how that works?

I hope you consider giving others the opportunity before moving to judge them.

If your whole argument in here was fetishes you should have been mute when it came to my cousin's situation. Because you know not one detail about it but what I've typed and whatever else you may conjure up in your head.

One of my cousins from Georgia just married a White woman.

He's as "Black" as you could imagine - his features, his hair, his skin....very nice looking young man.

but he never had good experiences with Black girls. They made fun of the size of his lips and his skin color.
Some self hating bitches who probably didn't hold a candle to him.
So he ended up dating nothing but White women. And married one.

I'm only going by what you gave us hon. So that's more on you than me.

Also did you allow those girls, whom your cousin claimed made fun of him, the same opportunity to explain themselves before you labeled them self hating?

See how that works?

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[yummy]

the fuckin fist on that pinky nail has me crying out for help

[Kalifornia.]

And it's quite hypocritical of you to say I should give others the opportunity to explain themselves before judging, as you defend your cousin for judging an entire race of women based off the actions of a few.

[ya rock muh world.]

You don't know that she's with him because of a fetish.

And I actually knew facts about these girls. Specific details which provided enough evidence to conclude there may have been some self hate involved.

You literally have no evidence that she's with him because of a fetish. So for you to jump to that conclusion is HIGHLY assumptive.

You can keep it pushing though.

[novmbrchild]

For him to judge ALL Black women based off his experiences with a few is no different than what many White people do to us.

I'm sorry, but I will never accept that way of thinking, especially from another Black man.

While I'm sure all black men in interracial relationships did not plan out for it to be that way, I think there's a bulk of em  who are just simply not attracted to black women. They just PUSSY foot around the truth because they know how fucked up it sounds.

but yeah..  black women need to stop getting fumed up by this mess.

[MelMel]

the fuckin fist on that pinky nail has me crying out for help

[Kalifornia.]

Sis I never mentioned anything about her being with him because of a fetish

[Kalifornia.]

But we can agree to disagree. It's still all luv 

[ya rock muh world.]

I'm all for loving who you love. Interracial relationships are beautiful if they are based on true love and a genuine connection, as opposed to a fetish or "dating up".

This wasn't your argument in here? Fetishes? This is what you specifically quoted to me in your defense just now.

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[ya rock muh world.]

Like I said, if the basis of your selective disdain of interracial relationships is anti-fetishization , you can hit the mute button on the situation I laid out in here. Completely irrelevant.

Neither one of them are in "fetish" with the other. It's real love.