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[GLOCK]

Well it's an example about my cousin not myself but Tyra! I guess sss

ddd
I was joking with u

[ya rock muh world.]

[b7]

The problem is that alot of black women are not attracted to square black men... so when those square black men need to seek out sex, they dip into other races that dont care.

When those square black men become successful, those same black women expect him to drop everything for them.

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funny...

this guy i used to date told me once he gained success, this girl from high school that used to clown him, was working at a wendys drive thru and asked him for his number once she saw his car/card 

i just wish we werent so fucked up as blacks 

ncncnnfnfngnngg this one of those rare times where Gen? has made some damn SENSE

King wait

[b7]

I'm not disregarding his experience. The stuff we go through as kids definitely shapes who we are as adults. I just think sometimes it's easy for Blacks to be judged collectively while Whites get to be individuals. I'm sure he's had negative experiences with White people at some point in his life, especially being from Georgia, but I could be wrong.

It just seems like a convenient excuse to say "I'm not into Black girls/guys".

very true, IMO.

I was just watching my favorite debate show on ESPN, and Stephen A. Smith was trying to explain to this white man how as a BLACK man, he felt responsible to speak for most of the community (because black people he meets tell him this all the time) while the white man can pretty much speak for himself without worrying about much backlash.  I totally see what you?re saying.

We?re always lumped together and if one says or does one thing, suddenly we?re a representation or spokesman for the whole. The problem is that?s usually on the negative side

[ya rock muh world.]

May's whole post was based on an assumption that a White person actually made fun of his Blackness, to his face, in his lifetime.

Never happened to him.

No shade but in many cases I'd actually have to go further out to see a White person making fun of Blackness/Black features than I would to see a Black person.  Don't have to go very far within my own community to see Blackness being put down for filth. And that's no shade.

If anything I'd say White people are sneaky about certain things simply because they know they'd be labeled much more quickly about it than a Black person would. It's more likely they'd wait to get home to log on to a computer and talk shit. But Loqueta wouldn't really see a big consequence of calling someone nappy headed or Darkie . It's just shits and giggles among friends for her.

So it makes sense that he hadn't experienced it from a White person before. Directly.

[ya rock muh world.]

And we have to make up our minds.

We can't be worshipping White men for filth one day and condemning others for dating them the next. And ultimately moving to dictate who people can and cannot be with based on race.

It's just a bit confusing.

[Kalifornia.]

And we have to make up our minds.

We can't be worshipping White men for filth one day and condemning others for dating them the next. And ultimately moving to dictate who people can and cannot be with based on race.

It's just a bit confusing.

Would you care to elaborate on this?

[Nine]

I believe he's saying you're a white mans whore hun

[ya rock muh world.]

To break it down:

If someone's obviously very attracted to White men I'd expect them to be more understanding of others who are as well. I'm not even gun ho crazy about White men in general (although many of them are attractive) and you still wouldn't find me somewhere dragging someone for dating outside of their race.

That's their business. Long as they're not going out of their way to offend anyone or feeling a need to make some big "I only date this race" announcement. Let have.

[MelMel]

I believe he's saying you're a white mans whore hun

[Eternal Bell]

[Kalifornia.]

I'll cut straight to the key lime pie and assume you're referring to me, but if you refer back to my earlier post in this thread you'd see...

I'm all for loving who you love. Interracial relationships are beautiful if they are based on true love and a genuine connection, as opposed to a fetish or "dating up".

I love men period. I don't care about race. If we have chemistry and a genuine connection that's all that matters to me. I don't set out looking for anything specific when it comes to a partner's race. I have openly gone up for men of damn near all backgrounds on this board. So we can dead that right now.

Also, I'm not dragging your cousin, but his way of thinking when it comes to Black women and dating is a bit problematic. For him to judge ALL Black women based off his experiences with a few is no different than what many White people do to us.

I'm sorry, but I will never accept that way of thinking, especially from another Black man.

[Kalifornia.]

But I digress...

[Kalifornia.]

And Nine & MelMel I will fuck both you hoes up

[ya rock muh world.]

Well luckily you got an opportunity to explain yourself. See how that works?

I hope you consider giving others the opportunity before moving to judge them.

If your whole argument in here was fetishes you should have been mute when it came to my cousin's situation. Because you know not one detail about it but what I've typed and whatever else you may conjure up in your head.