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[Vonc2002]

Afro has been feeling this way for a while
Honestly think it has some kinda link to Bent and I
May isn?t us and he?s always been sweet to u and didn?t mingle in ur mess with us

If u didn?t want ur family analyzed then you shouldn?t have brought them up ..
You?re bored

Now this is true.  U can't present info and then try to dictate how it's perceived. If ur gonna take issue with people having an opinion on sumn then it's best just to keep it to yourself

Not moving to dictate how anything's perceived.
But if you wanna chat, we'll chat. And dig in. We stayed on the topic of interracial attraction in here.

He had some thoughts on my cousin's situation, I had some thoughts on some things he's posted about White people.

He wanted me to expound. In fact, he damn near demanded that I do so. And that's what the hell I did. We had our conversation.

We , as in he and I. Not him, Glock, Vonc, and the whole crew jumping in.

But let's try another angle besides dictatorship.

Boy, are u ok
This is a msg board. People are gonna chime in.  Stop being so damn sensitive
And ur definitely trying to dictate how other people perceive your lil anecdote because they didn't walk away with the same thoughts that u did.  If u can't handle opinions then it's best to leave your family out of mess

[ya rock muh world.]

People will chime in!

Yet when I "chime in" on things that were posted by someone else and how I view them, I'm being a bitch, etc.

Are we allowed to speak openly and freely about how we feel on mess that's posted here without being a villain or not? I'm confused.

[Vonc2002]

Afro has been feeling this way for a while
Honestly think it has some kinda link to Bent and I
May isn?t us and he?s always been sweet to u and didn?t mingle in ur mess with us

If u didn?t want ur family analyzed then you shouldn?t have brought them up ..
You?re bored

Now this is true.  U can't present info and then try to dictate how it's perceived. If ur gonna take issue with people having an opinion on sumn then it's best just to keep it to yourself

Not moving to dictate how anything's perceived.
But if you wanna chat, we'll chat. And dig in. We stayed on the topic of interracial attraction in here.

He had some thoughts on my cousin's situation, I had some thoughts on some things he's posted about White people.

He wanted me to expound. In fact, he damn near demanded that I do so. And that's what the hell I did. We had our conversation.

We , as in he and I. Not him, Glock, Vonc, and the whole crew jumping in.

But let's try another angle besides dictatorship.

Things must not be going well on ur end 
Not sure why this whole jumping narrative is being rehashed
Youre just not strong enough for this place bro

Because I was only commenting on a small portion and not that whole back and forth they had.  This is a msg board. We ain't raising hands and waiting to be called on 

[Vonc2002]

[ya rock muh world.]

Because the way Eddie was damn near coddled in here, you'd think I was reading his entire life or something. He had something to say about me and what I posted (accused me of hypocrisy, etc.) and vice versa. Period.

It's just a message board, right? No need for anyone to come to his defense.

"Afro you're being such a BITCH! You're in the wrong here! He's just an innocent kitten!"

sdsd I'm crying.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Yo Afro

Ya Cousin Fits the Very Common Narrative that that alot of brothas fit 3 blk girls do some mess and they never wanna see a black girl again and the one white girl comes along and WOOO white girls accept me for who i am blacks girls are the issue blah blah

and hes falling in that whether thats the situation or not cause its the most common

Point BLANK

Same Issue CHardonayy had with Jason Pitts

Its not personal he fits the profile

sorry

[ya rock muh world.]

At what point did I mention a number of Black girls he dated?

[ya rock muh world.]

That's the problem. Some of ya'll perched up in here with gavel in hand, making up facts and figures as you go along.

"Dated 3 Black girls and called it quits!"
"Put all Black women into a box"

I just need to go back to not sharing anything deep or too personal on here and keep it playful because clearly this just ain't the place. Post songs, kii kii and keep it moving. What a lovely reminder and wake up call this thread has been.

Thought this ONE instance was worth speaking up on but clearly I wasn't prepared for the....outlooks... that followed.

Last I'll say in here.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

no afro Dont do that
its less about your cousin and more about the profile lol like i said
we know everyone has their own story
sometimes they say even 1 black girl ruined it for all of them

your cousin is lumped in with them eventhough the particulars arent the same

[Sinpool]

b

I knew yall wasn't talking about no Black Panthers in here.

We need to put you fags in a ring and make some money off ya.

[b7]

May's whole post was based on an assumption that a White person actually made fun of his Blackness, to his face, in his lifetime.

Never happened to him.

yea i was just commenting on that one aspect of his that jumped out at me immediately. It?s crazy how people assume everyone is one way based on what they look like. I?ll never understand it. Even if you?ve been through a few isolated incidents, it?s like damn that turned you off of the entire race of people?

But trauma is a tricky thing of course. That can be considered trauma i guess, and anything can trigger it, specifically someone that even resembles the person that fucked you over sdddd i just tend to be more open to almost anything

[b7]

but yea, love who you love and i dont care. i just HATE hearing some of the reasoning behind it

any time someone says "Well all black men ....  "  ima stop em right there. Most of these people prefacing their statements with that kinda shit, have barely experienced much life outside of their few blocks and same three gay clubs.

[b7]

For him to judge ALL Black women based off his experiences with a few is no different than what many White people do to us.

I'm sorry, but I will never accept that way of thinking, especially from another Black man.

While I'm sure all black men in interracial relationships did not plan out for it to be that way, I think there's a bulk of em  who are just simply not attracted to black women. They just PUSSY foot around the truth because they know how fucked up it sounds.

but yeah..  black women need to stop getting fumed up by this mess.

this is true too, but i can see why it would upset black women and take no issue with that at
all

[wizzy]

He?s from the islands, he?s not held to the same dumb standards as you niggas.

see and this is why i never take your "african supreme" mess seriously
cause you think they better but sweetie they could never do it like black americans which is why their booty scratchin asses is scrambling  and scheming to get to america hun to piggyback off what we built

b


the nerve

hhhhhhhhh
This fat slob ain't built a damn thing but a pee bottle fortress, no one is piggybacking off that.

not a pee bottle fortress

[GLOCK]

He?s from the islands, he?s not held to the same dumb standards as you niggas.

see and this is why i never take your "african supreme" mess seriously
cause you think they better but sweetie they could never do it like black americans which is why their booty scratchin asses is scrambling  and scheming to get to america hun to piggyback off what we built

b


the nerve

hhhhhhhhh
This fat slob ain't built a damn thing but a pee bottle fortress, no one is piggybacking off that.

not a pee bottle fortress

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