How yall feel about Aging?

Started by Kurama, June 08, 2018, 03:40:32 PM

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Kurama

Been thinking about aging/mortality a lot lately. Ill be 30 soon and I was just reflecting on life and how it just ZOOMS the fuck by when you're young.

I also was thinking about goals and shit we are conditioned to feel like we should have at a certain age. Even the way we feel folks should behave at certain ages. Also, just aging in the gay community and the feels around that.

How yall feel about your own aging or walk through life currently? You think you're on the right track? Doing it gracefully? Nervous for the future?

LOONA.


BAPHOMET.



b7

June 08, 2018, 03:44:25 PM #3 Last Edit: June 08, 2018, 03:44:43 PM by 1RIG
I thought I?d feel some kinda way when i was in my teens, but i like the idea of aging now in a lot of ways. Especially being black lmao!! 

Buuuut when you mention aging in the gay community, it does become a bit more alarming i suppose. We know how that is  :dead: i don?t really think about it though, and i most certainly don?t compare my progress to anyone else?s based on age and what society thinks we should be doing by our mid to late twenties. 

Society says a lot of things and puts a lot of guidelines out there that i don?t plan on buying into
:udontlookok:
It?s a different time now. Imagine getting married in ur early twenties and having kids. Ew

Lazarus

I don't mind aging at all. It's nothing wrong with getting older. I don't look my age at all. I drink plenty of water and try to eat as heathly as possible.

Kurama

I really appreciate your post king

these other niggas knew they could have dropped another sentence


Kurama

Quote from: 1RIG on June 08, 2018, 03:44:25 PM
I thought I?d feel some kinda way when i was in my teens, but i like the idea of aging now in a lot of ways. Especially being black lmao!! 

Buuuut when you mention aging in the gay community, it does become a bit more alarming i suppose. We know how that is  :dead: i don?t really think about it though, and i most certainly don?t compare my progress to anyone else?s based on age and what society thinks we should be doing by our mid to late twenties. 

Society says a lot of things and puts a lot of guidelines out there that i don?t plan on buying into
:udontlookok:
It?s a different time now. Imagine getting married in ur early twenties and having kids. Ew

!!!!

All of this. It's crazy the perspective you have now looking back on some of those thoughts.

Married and house at 25!

Plea!  :kii:

yummy

Quote from: Lazarus on June 08, 2018, 03:45:21 PM
I don't mind aging at all. It's nothing wrong with getting older. I don't look my age at all. I drink plenty of water and try to eat as heathly as possible.

:dead:

My, you a kii

Lazarus

Quote from: ANIMMAI on June 08, 2018, 03:47:20 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on June 08, 2018, 03:45:21 PM
I don't mind aging at all. It's nothing wrong with getting older. I don't look my age at all. I drink plenty of water and try to eat as heathly as possible.

:dead:

My, you a kii

:ummwhat:

FlowerBomb

As I get older, I try to imagine being 21 again and I shudder  :dead:
I think when you pass certain milestones...you're "over it"?
Like for me, being a teenager all over again is late...if that makes sense.
:dead:

Kalifornia.

The only thing that scares me about aging is that my mom is also getting older. The thought of losing her is my worst fear.

I know it will eventually happen, but it really scares me.

b7

Quote from: Kurama on June 08, 2018, 03:46:02 PM
I really appreciate your post king

these other niggas knew they could have dropped another sentence


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Kaeli.

Quote from: StarKitty on June 08, 2018, 03:48:47 PM
The only thing that scares me about aging is that my mom is also getting older. The thought of losing her is my worst fear.

I know it will eventually happen, but it really scares me.
!!!!

Omg idk how I?ll deal

Kalifornia.

Quote from: Kaeli. on June 08, 2018, 03:50:25 PM
Quote from: StarKitty on June 08, 2018, 03:48:47 PM
The only thing that scares me about aging is that my mom is also getting older. The thought of losing her is my worst fear.

I know it will eventually happen, but it really scares me.
!!!!

Omg idk how I?ll deal

I had a dream once that she passed and I felt so lost. I've never felt that way before, and I never want to feel it again.

When I woke up my pillow was soaked. I had been crying so hard in the dream that I was actually crying in my sleep.

I had to call off work. That dream had me so fucked up that whole day.

CHOKE

June 08, 2018, 03:53:07 PM #14 Last Edit: June 08, 2018, 03:53:55 PM by Choke
As long as I don?t look my age when I?m in my 30s I?ll be good

Wanna give a lite 23 throughout my 30s

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