I thought I?d feel some kinda way when i was in my teens, but i like the idea of aging now in a lot of ways. Especially being black lmao!!
Buuuut when you mention aging in the gay community, it does become a bit more alarming i suppose. We know how that is

i don?t really think about it though, and i most certainly don?t compare my progress to anyone else?s based on age and what society thinks we should be doing by our mid to late twenties.
Society says a lot of things and puts a lot of guidelines out there that i don?t plan on buying into
It?s a different time now. Imagine getting married in ur early twenties and having kids. Ew