I see the "nigger" analogy now that you explained how U.S. Americans view the term "gay agenda". But getting caught up in lexicality is besides the point.
For me I was clearly talking about a conscious effort of normalizing gay people via television. And PCJ and I believe Phant did agree with my and young's impression, but did not like the word.
Now if you Drais and Supreme, want to believe it is just a natural art mimicking life mess, that's gullible and that's on you, but them producers and writers know exactly what they are doing.