What’s your current ideal relationship structure?

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b7

This is more in depth than a buzzfeed type of mess. pretty interesting, i had to read each option carefully

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/5cf7fbe81eba640014ba8148



b7

I got:
MODERN MONOGAMOUS -

Quote"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: 1RIG on June 20, 2019, 10:22:59 AM
I got:
MODERN MONOGAMOUS -

Quote"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

I love this. This is where im at.




b7

Quote from: Faux Darius. on June 20, 2019, 10:24:56 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 20, 2019, 10:22:59 AM
I got:
MODERN MONOGAMOUS -

Quote"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

I love this. This is where im at.
!!!!  Babe.


I have no problem committing, but the whole "let's fight for this" mess ain't happening to an extent. If you fuck me over or remain stagnant, i have no problem dipping
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Stunna Gor’


b7

Quote from: Trey on June 20, 2019, 10:36:36 AM
Question 10 is kinda hard... sdxxx
sdddd i think I'm a healthy combination of the first two, but mostly secure.




CHOKE

June 20, 2019, 10:43:06 AM #6 Last Edit: June 20, 2019, 10:43:41 AM by The Mad Choke
Not taking a quiz

My ideal mess is an open one

where if we mess we don't hide it or lie about it

It would transcend sex we would be like brothers, friends or cousins we would be that close and in sync

b7

Quote from: The Mad Choke on June 20, 2019, 10:43:06 AM
Not taking a quiz

My ideal mess is an open one

where if we mess we don't hide it or lie about it

It would transcend sex we would be like brothers, friends or cousins we would be that close and in sync
nnnnn that option was there

Only 10 questions too

Stunna Gor’

I got Modern Monogamist. Pretty accurate. Lol



"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time." 
-Esther PerelYou are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!Modern monogamy is the most popular form of coupling and one that is depicted most often in media. BUT, don't fall into the trap of taking this for granted by assuming everyone has the same relationship structure goals as you. It is still extremely essential to emphasize not just how important fidelity is to you, but also to explain why it is uniquely necessary for you to love and feel loved.


African Queen

Serial non-committed dating

You love the idea of what a committed relationship can provide: friendship, comfort, shared history, shared beds, frequent communication and some level of partnership. BUT, you're not quite ready (or entirely in to) the accountability, exclusivity and pressure that a formal commitment comes with.

Unlike someone who is into casual dating - you do want your partner's to rely on you and vice versa to some extent, but not in the full way that you perceive a formal relationship would. You're not actively searching for new partners, but you enjoy the idea that you can engage at will without having to consult with anyone else.

In short you're looking for a medium-level of commitment without a high-level of accountability with a preference for mid-term partners. For you to exist in your sweet spot, managing expectations is going to be essential. And not just in the beginning of the connection when you say "I'm not looking for anything too serious right now," but all the way through. You're giving people the relationship experience without wanting the title, which is awesome because you do prioritize your relationships in many meaningful ways, but not necessarily in the traditional ways. This can be confusing for some so be open to having the relationship status chat frequently.

Kalifornia.

Quote from: 1RIG on June 20, 2019, 10:22:59 AM
I got:
MODERN MONOGAMOUS -

Quote"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

I got this one too

Kaeli.

Serial Non committed dating

QuoteYou love the idea of what a committed relationship can provide: friendship, comfort, shared history, shared beds, frequent communication and some level of partnership. BUT, you're not quite ready (or entirely in to) the accountability, exclusivity and pressure that a formal commitment comes with.

Unlike someone who is into casual dating - you do want your partner's to rely on you and vice versa to some extent, but not in the full way that you perceive a formal relationship would. You're not actively searching for new partners, but you enjoy the idea that you can engage at will without having to consult with anyone else.

In short you're looking for a medium-level of commitment without a high-level of accountability with a preference for mid-term partners. For you to exist in your sweet spot, managing expectations is going to be essential. And not just in the beginning of the connection when you say "I'm not looking for anything too serious right now," but all the way through. You're giving people the relationship experience without wanting the title, which is awesome because you do prioritize your relationships in many meaningful ways, but not necessarily in the traditional ways. This can be confusing for some so be open to having the relationship status chat frequently.

LOONA.

Quote from: The View on June 20, 2019, 11:50:23 AM
Serial non-committed dating

You love the idea of what a committed relationship can provide: friendship, comfort, shared history, shared beds, frequent communication and some level of partnership. BUT, you're not quite ready (or entirely in to) the accountability, exclusivity and pressure that a formal commitment comes with.

Unlike someone who is into casual dating - you do want your partner's to rely on you and vice versa to some extent, but not in the full way that you perceive a formal relationship would. You're not actively searching for new partners, but you enjoy the idea that you can engage at will without having to consult with anyone else.

In short you're looking for a medium-level of commitment without a high-level of accountability with a preference for mid-term partners. For you to exist in your sweet spot, managing expectations is going to be essential. And not just in the beginning of the connection when you say "I'm not looking for anything too serious right now," but all the way through. You're giving people the relationship experience without wanting the title, which is awesome because you do prioritize your relationships in many meaningful ways, but not necessarily in the traditional ways. This can be confusing for some so be open to having the relationship status chat frequently.

This is what I got

On some of the questions I didn't agree with any of the answers though so I ended up just choosing whatever was closest to how I personally felt. That probably affected my results.

I'm not actively searching for a relationship, but if I meet someone and the connection is there I'm not afraid to commit. Right now I'm just focusing on becoming the best version of myself possible. If someone comes along that's fine...and if they don't, that's fine too.     


LOONA.

I agree more with the modern monogamous mess.

I don't even like to date 


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