MonogomISH
For all intents and purposes, you are monogamous. Your partner is the only one you want to have a physical or sexual relationship with... BUT, that doesn't mean they are the only one you want to play with at a safe distance.Unlike traditional monogamy, you acknowledge that your partner may have eyes for others (because you for damn sure do) so you are comfortable loosening the boundaries a bit: strip clubs, flirting, porn and possibly a bit of seduction via social media are OK. But intently engaging with others beyond a lil harmless fun, is not! As a monogamish person, this is a line you know how to tread carefully and expertly.Monogamish relationships can take the monotony out of monogamy in a way that preserves the sanctity, the safety, and the comfort of the primary relationship while acknowledging each other's desires for novelty.Monogamish also means dancing on the line of fidelity. This isn't a bad thing (afterall dancing is fun) but, it does mean you have to be VERY clear with your partner about where the boundaries are and you must be comfortable talking about it more than once. You also have to commit yourself to complete disclosure to your partner as you examine new feelings and experiences in your old dynamic.
