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In same gender loving relationships we often find ourselves falling into or fighting against heteronormative views and stances on relationships.  I remember a few years back talking to my straight friends about dating another guy and the first they would ask was "so who is the man in the relationship?" I had to explain to them that we were both men and no one had a specific role.  But thats not always the case.  Whether we want to or not we often mold our relationships to into molds created by the straight relationships we've seen.  Sometimes based off who is dominant and who is submissive, who is top and who is bottom, who is masculine and who is feminine.  While this may not hold true for all, I know for myself and many of my friends, we had no gay references to guide us on how same gender relationships worked.  Most of us are mimicking what we've seen our parents do.

I believe in taking care of my house and my partner but not based on our sexual roles but more about how I was raised.  A man should take care of his home.  What are your thoughts?

http://www.aazios.com/articles/my-bottom-will-not-pay-rent-tops-says-he-handles-finances-his-relationship#.XSqnBCUpDDs

[GLOCK]

This is really damn ridiculous

it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY..


the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing

Gosh.. we are fucked

[Kaeli.]

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[Kaeli.]

Stay @ home wife!

boy get real

[I. Hate. Monica.]

This is idiotic 

[BAPHOMET.]

This is that shit Afro is talking about....

[Bentley. HARRIS!]

Stay @ home wife!

boy get real

ssssssssssssssss

NOW do yawl get what Baph & I be saying

[BAPHOMET.]

Stay @ home wife!

boy get real

ssssssssssssssss

NOW do yawl get what Baph & I be saying

[BAPHOMET.]

Now don't get me WRONG i have no issue with someone paying all my bills.
Just dont think im some bitch or something.

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

v

Fag we're going half and half

A lot of the time when we go out for food or drinks one of us just covers it since it's a small bill but home stuff, yeah, we splitting

[oph.]

This is really damn ridiculous

it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY..


the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing

Gosh.. we are fucked

dggghhjjj

literally all of this

[FlowerBomb]

This is really damn ridiculous

it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY..


the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing

Gosh.. we are fucked

dggghhjjj

literally all of this

[BAPHOMET.]

Its honestly just black gays that are like this. Tbh

I just wanna SHAKE these people

[FRANCE]

This is really damn ridiculous

it amazes me how folks thinks there's a difference between a bottom and a top in a relationship
it's the same level of GAY..


the bottom isn't a woman.. and if he was .. this isn't 1950..
equal fucking footing

Gosh.. we are fucked

dggghhjjj

literally all of this

[Buy The Stars✨]

Yeah it's 50/50 for me. Ain't paying for no bottoms bills sor'