Do you care about what people DON'T like you.

Started by Herb., December 20, 2015, 04:03:26 PM

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Herb.

Quote from: squid on December 20, 2015, 04:38:14 PM
Quote from: MosDef on December 20, 2015, 04:35:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 20, 2015, 04:22:29 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:16:34 PM
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oh unbothered! didn't even notice!

yall are full of shit
Not everyone craves attention or acceptance. Not everyone is gonna like u and really it don't fckn matter if they do. I think people who really care about being liked are a bit insecure tbfh

this seriously sounds a tad bit bitter/bothered
you can't walk around life not giving a fuck if people like you or not.
who wouldn't want to be accepted? now morphing or conforming into a different person just to gain acceptance is a different story.

True, not everyone is going to like you. But the ones that DO like you, you should care enough that they like you and try to maintain it.

lolz what if you had a friend and they said "I like you" then you fire back with "I don't care if you like me or not"  :uhh:

Long story short, you should care to an extent imo....
!!!

That's why Herb's first sentence threw me off a bit. Personally, I do care if someone likes me.
I said that I've been caring LESS about who likes me or who doesn't.

And as I admitted earlier in the thread, I had plenty of room to do so. Sometimes caring TOO much will turn you into a people pleaser.

All humans need acceptance, it's part of the way we are wired.


throwintheTAL

Quote from: COD. on December 20, 2015, 04:12:28 PM
That's always been a huge flaw of mine. I have severe social anxiety and always have the feeling that someone is judging me. Like I can walk in a room and be a nervous WRECK because I think everyone is looking at me and judging. So naturally I often crave the acceptance of others.

I hate it.....but it's something I have to work on.
:19k:
your honesty is everything, babe :wellheythere:

Boomz

Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways

Mel, gone!  :uhh:

Ur loveable downe!

Herb.

I think a better way to phrase my question would have been, "Do you care about what people DON'T like you."

Herb.

Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:42:18 PM
Quote from: COD. on December 20, 2015, 04:12:28 PM
That's always been a huge flaw of mine. I have severe social anxiety and always have the feeling that someone is judging me. Like I can walk in a room and be a nervous WRECK because I think everyone is looking at me and judging. So naturally I often crave the acceptance of others.

I hate it.....but it's something I have to work on.
:19k:
your honesty is everything, babe :wellheythere:
And this is exactly what I've been referring to.

Sometimes it can come in EXCESSIVE amounts! It's real.

Someone like GOD could afford to cut back a little and relax more.

Vonc2002

Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:42:18 PM
Quote from: COD. on December 20, 2015, 04:12:28 PM
That's always been a huge flaw of mine. I have severe social anxiety and always have the feeling that someone is judging me. Like I can walk in a room and be a nervous WRECK because I think everyone is looking at me and judging. So naturally I often crave the acceptance of others.

I hate it.....but it's something I have to work on.
:19k:
your honesty is everything, babe :wellheythere:
I did kinda love this post, so genuine n stuff
:stressed:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





throwintheTAL

I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:

FINE.

Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:47:26 PM
I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:
omf u said it perfectly ddddddsddfdfffdddd

AIDS!

Quote from: Boomer on December 20, 2015, 04:42:32 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways

Mel, gone!  :uhh:

Ur loveable downe!
!!
Stupid fuck

Herb.

Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:47:26 PM
I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:
Perfect answer.  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

I totally fucking agree.

I think that's what it is. Once I stop using, I can careless if you like me or not. Bye!

Vonc2002

Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:47:26 PM
I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:
U knw wh, I can agree with this
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





MelMel



King

Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways
:everythingok:

then why does everyone here like you?

Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw