Do you care about what people DON'T like you.

Started by Herb., December 20, 2015, 04:03:26 PM

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Cartierline

I wish I could say I don't but what Cod' said is almost my situation; I care too much about what other people think of me and it affects how I act sometimes.

I'm slowly getting over it though, shit was WAY worse in high school.

throwintheTAL

Quote from: FINE. on December 20, 2015, 04:48:01 PM
Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:47:26 PM
I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:
omf u said it perfectly ddddddsddfdfffdddd
sis, don't we be >>>><<<<< :kii:

Batwing

Yes, until I actually find out that someone doesn't - for whatever reason.

I can be the nicest, most cool person ever... but when you decide that
you don't like me, especially, when I've done nothing to you - that's a wrap; it's
whatever at that point.  :nowgorl:


Sometimes, to stay alive, you must consume the darkness
that surrounds you before it consumes you.

♫♪♬ CarolsOfAKnight AWinteryGotham ☢♞☮



Kurama


throwintheTAL

Quote from: Herbie on December 20, 2015, 04:48:25 PM
Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:47:26 PM
I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:
Perfect answer.  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

I totally fucking agree.

I think that's what it is. Once I stop using, I can careless if you like me or not. Bye!
they'll get served an apathetic tea from me

King

Quote from: Batwing on December 20, 2015, 04:52:28 PM
Yes, until I actually find out that someone doesn't - for whatever reason.

I can be the nicest, most cool person ever... but when you decide that
you don't like me, especially, when I've done nothing to you - that's a wrap; it's
whatever at that point.  :nowgorl:



woww wow wow.....yeah...that's it

you said it best....better than talisa   :wellheythere:

Herb.

Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:53:43 PM
Quote from: Herbie on December 20, 2015, 04:48:25 PM
Quote from: straplis on December 20, 2015, 04:47:26 PM
I only care about the people that I like liking me and that's never been an issue

:cheerup:
Perfect answer.  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

I totally fucking agree.

I think that's what it is. Once I stop using, I can careless if you like me or not. Bye!
they'll get served an apathetic tea from me
sdsdsdsd


Admin

Quote from: Herbie on December 20, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
Quote from: squid on December 20, 2015, 04:38:14 PM
Quote from: MosDef on December 20, 2015, 04:35:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 20, 2015, 04:22:29 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:16:34 PM
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oh unbothered! didn't even notice!

yall are full of shit
Not everyone craves attention or acceptance. Not everyone is gonna like u and really it don't fckn matter if they do. I think people who really care about being liked are a bit insecure tbfh

this seriously sounds a tad bit bitter/bothered
you can't walk around life not giving a fuck if people like you or not.
who wouldn't want to be accepted? now morphing or conforming into a different person just to gain acceptance is a different story.

True, not everyone is going to like you. But the ones that DO like you, you should care enough that they like you and try to maintain it.

lolz what if you had a friend and they said "I like you" then you fire back with "I don't care if you like me or not"  :uhh:

Long story short, you should care to an extent imo....
!!!

That's why Herb's first sentence threw me off a bit. Personally, I do care if someone likes me.
I said that I've been caring LESS about who likes me or who doesn't.

And as I admitted earlier in the thread, I had plenty of room to do so. Sometimes caring TOO much will turn you into a people pleaser.

All humans need acceptance, it's part of the way we are wired.
I see your point.
Either extreme is worrisome. A healthy amount of caring isn't bad. :justabit:

Herb.

Quote from: squid on December 20, 2015, 05:02:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on December 20, 2015, 04:41:22 PM
Quote from: squid on December 20, 2015, 04:38:14 PM
Quote from: MosDef on December 20, 2015, 04:35:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 20, 2015, 04:22:29 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:16:34 PM
m

oh unbothered! didn't even notice!

yall are full of shit
Not everyone craves attention or acceptance. Not everyone is gonna like u and really it don't fckn matter if they do. I think people who really care about being liked are a bit insecure tbfh

this seriously sounds a tad bit bitter/bothered
you can't walk around life not giving a fuck if people like you or not.
who wouldn't want to be accepted? now morphing or conforming into a different person just to gain acceptance is a different story.

True, not everyone is going to like you. But the ones that DO like you, you should care enough that they like you and try to maintain it.

lolz what if you had a friend and they said "I like you" then you fire back with "I don't care if you like me or not"  :uhh:

Long story short, you should care to an extent imo....
!!!

That's why Herb's first sentence threw me off a bit. Personally, I do care if someone likes me.
I said that I've been caring LESS about who likes me or who doesn't.

And as I admitted earlier in the thread, I had plenty of room to do so. Sometimes caring TOO much will turn you into a people pleaser.

All humans need acceptance, it's part of the way we are wired.
I see your point.
Either extreme is worrisome. A healthy amount of caring isn't bad. :justabit:
!!!!!!!

MelMel

Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:51:19 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways6
:everythingok:

then why does everyone here like you?

You don't

MelMel


King

Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 05:06:18 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:51:19 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways6
:everythingok:

then why does everyone here like you?

You don't

yeah.

but everyone else does

99/100 ain't bad  :charon:

MelMel

Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 05:07:38 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 05:06:18 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:51:19 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways6
:everythingok:

then why does everyone here like you?

You don't

yeah.

but everyone else does

99/100 ain't bad  :charon:

Fuck u u fake vegan

AIDS!


Vonc2002

Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 05:07:38 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 05:06:18 PM
Quote from: King on December 20, 2015, 04:51:19 PM
Quote from: MelMel on December 20, 2015, 04:37:14 PM
well I'm not really liikeable and I think no one cares about me anyways6
:everythingok:

then why does everyone here like you?

You don't

yeah.

but everyone else does

99/100 ain't bad  :charon:
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I don't like him either LMAO
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw