https://www.instagram.com/p/BEhZjXXiFxm/?taken-by=rogerlisrael_sanchez
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I'm disgusted for a few reasons but I'm gonna pray.
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The way the little boy is mushing their faces together talking about "more! "
What in the actual hell is going on
I know people are gonna freak out about this. White men, black bbys, and gay love, something's coming. I couldn't care less. If kids were exposed to this real life shit earlier like this, everybody wouldnt be such a damn bigot. Every family is not the traditional family. If this were a man and his wife no one would care. Someone is definitely gonna fume tho
I want those kids taken away.
This is so scary omg
They couldn't find any white kids? Where's CPS wtfff
what's the issue here?
I see a loving couple with their kids being affectionate toward each other....
why must we find an issue or be asked if it's okay? we wouldn't if it were a male and female
or to some extent, even lesbians....
why is it when it's 2 men it becomes this big shock?
95% of this board is gay and if you had kids are you not gonna be affectionate around them?
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I mean fuck society, homophobes, etc...
we as gays can't even support one another
if we cant even do that, how are we gonna ever expect equality?
see, i look at it from two different perspectives... like on one hand the kids don't know nothing about sexuality and being gay (what society thinks about it that is) so all they know is daddy(s), love is love, etc. it's cute. They're their parents and if it were a male and female I wouldn't bat an eye
but then my illiberal perspective has negative thoughts and something negative to say....
People still view being gay as this barbaric, sick thing. If this was Sarah and Tom I think there would be less fuss. Cute even!
And the little babies being black is another issue
Guys I feel like being petty and sending this over to black twitter just to see what the ignorant niggers have to say :plzstop:
but naw, I wouldn't do that.
But Omfff at little Jamal pushing their heads together
"More dvy"
:latisha:
Im dailing 911 right now btw
preach mel sis !
Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on May 05, 2016, 02:01:24 AM
They throw the black kids to the gay couples. Like they're leftovers or something.
!!! They work hard to find 'traditional' settings for white kids
Mel is actually right....
My first instinct is to be like wtf
But the dads are in love.
Not understanding the black children part but that's okay.
They seem happy and healthy and happy that their dads love eachother
Fuck no
i mean black children do get stuck in the system like the unwanted puppy at the pound until they're put to dead, in a black kids case toss to the streets. So I'm at least happy they have a HOME.
They shouldn't have posted this
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 02:24:26 AM
They shouldn't have posted this
now this i agree with
not like that anyway; dont care if its gay or straight.
kissy time in the bed with the kids!
no.
but they all look happy so thats beautiful.
Lol its very innocent and cute dont put a dark cloud over it
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on May 05, 2016, 02:23:28 AM
i mean black children do get stuck in the system like the unwanted puppy at the pound until they're put to dead, in a black kids case toss to the streets. So I'm at least happy they have a HOME.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Like smh
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 02:34:32 AM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on May 05, 2016, 02:23:28 AM
i mean black children do get stuck in the system like the unwanted puppy at the pound until they're put to dead, in a black kids case toss to the streets. So I'm at least happy they have a HOME.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Like smh
i loooooooove that you're so accepting.
you a good man dvy :stressed:
Str8 men who accept us turn me on :stressed:
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What if this were a trans couple
:overit:
Uh oh
This video is a bit weird but otherwise, I'm not really seeing the issue.
They're in love and they love their children so..?
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
:diddraispoot:
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
I can agree with this. They probably posted this to make some sort of statement. i do like that the kids are in what is seemingly a loving environment that promotes qualities that alot of people lack. People are so quick to gripe about bullshit
black bbys tossed with any ol personLike :uhh:
What's the alternative? Them living their life in the system until theyre tossed into the street once they hit 18. Who gives a fck about what color someone is? These men opened their home and hearts to these kids but yea, let's focus on them being white and the kids being black :dead: idiots tbh
At first they gave me creepy skinhead vibes, but looking at the other pics you can see that they love those kids.
Their insta is adorable
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 03:37:27 AM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
I can agree with this. They probably posted this to make some sort of statement. i do like that the kids are in what is seemingly a loving environment that promotes qualities that alot of people lack. People are so quick to gripe about bullshit
black bbys tossed with any ol person
Like :uhh:
What's the alternative? Them living their life in the system until theyre tossed into the street once they hit 18. Who gives a fck about what color someone is? These men opened their home and hearts to these kids but yea, let's focus on them being white and the kids being black :dead: idiots tbh
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My only concern with any race adopting kids from another race is "Are the kids learning about and being exposed to their culture" because IMO that's very important and has a lot to do with self love. The kids know these guys love them but are the kids making strides to love themselves!
I would never adopt a Asian baby and only expose them to things I'm culturally familiar or comfortable with. We would learn about Asia together maybe even take a trip there. I would find some old Asian lady who I could befriend and ask her questions about Asian family dynamics and traditions. I wouldnt want kid idolizing black people simply because they are different and that's all they know.
Wow Vonc preached in here.
funny...i saw tha clip & saw a happy family
& jus for fckin ends means...i hope they keep postin their family luv in social media
FCK blck social media to be quite damns honest
would ppl be up in arms wit tha adopted kids of brangelina seein them kiss?!
HELL NO
fck them & anyone who'd have a problem wit this
I don't like the idea of white people adopting black children and using them as an accessory.
Ion like it.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 06:03:36 AM
I don't like the idea of white people adopting black children and using them as an accessory.
progressive! not racist! new age!
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how r they racist 'gain
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& jus 'bout evry parent posts mess 'bout their kids on social media
jus look at monicas damns IG
is laytasha a accessory too
Why would they post this?
They're just looking for mess.
it's annoying when people bring up the "accessory" thing
how do yall know that's the case tho?
why do yall look as it more so as theyre giving a kid a loving home
that most likely their birth parents couldnt or didnt give a fuck to
yall always look at the negative in things instead of the beautiful things...
those kids have a home to call their own and what seems to be loving parents....
what's the issue?
they r so adorbs!
https://www.instagram.com/p/3oQMZECFwM/?taken-by=rogerlisrael_sanchez
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
WHEW
would you rather they have a loving home
no matter the race of the adopted parents
OR
continue to be stuck in the system for however long that is....??
or be bounced from place to place...
ch...
some kids don't even get to know what its like to have a home
a lot of them are stuck in the system all their lives just to be THROWN out at 18 like trash
and many become homeless, turn to drugs, etc...those kids have a HOME.
and yall worried bout the race of the adopted parents??
some of you gorls ASTOUND me. like, how dare you :uhh:
While we are conditioned to believe this weird or even immoral, I am not mad at this at all. As long as everyone is happy and healthy.
They have a beautiful family. This couple did what most people, no matter what race, would never do?take in someone else's children to raise as their own. Some of y'all can't even raise a bar of soap to clean your asses. Good for them.
I agree with Gyn
Quote from: Nyan Cat on May 05, 2016, 06:27:20 AM
& jus 'bout evry parent posts mess 'bout their kids on social media
jus look at monicas damns IG
is laytasha a accessory too
gor fuckin plea, you know how racist most of the white gays are.
wouldn't be surprised if they were just using these kids as tax write offs.
and one thing before I leave this thread for good
because some of the replies in here has me PISSED & DISGUSTED!
a lot of kids in the system get abused, whether it be physical, emotional, sexually, etc...
so if one kid can be saved from possibly going through that
I'M ALL FOR IT!
yall need to step outside of yourselves, your "personal" feelings and think about others. I'm done
Quote from: Mel. on May 05, 2016, 06:55:43 AM
and one thing before I leave this thread for good
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Surprised this thread hasn't erupted in mess yet tbhon'.
as if these bbys are going to read those instagram posts nnn gyn does too much. this post has only 40 comments.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 06:51:45 AM
Quote from: Nyan Cat on May 05, 2016, 06:27:20 AM
& jus 'bout evry parent posts mess 'bout their kids on social media
jus look at monicas damns IG
is laytasha a accessory too
gor fuckin plea, you know how racist most of the white gays are.
wouldn't be surprised if they were just using these kids as tax write offs.
fnm,
i dnt get racist
quiet as its kept
mosta yall jus fckin jealous
#1 reason why i nvr post me n my kid here
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on May 05, 2016, 06:49:47 AM
They have a beautiful family. This couple did what most people, no matter what race, would never do?take in someone else's children to raise as their own. Some of y'all can't even raise a bar of soap to clean your asses. Good for them.
honkies! niggers! culture! blending!
Like get over it. Interracial families and multiracial kids are soon to be the majority anyway.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 06:51:45 AM
Quote from: Nyan Cat on May 05, 2016, 06:27:20 AM
& jus 'bout evry parent posts mess 'bout their kids on social media
jus look at monicas damns IG
is laytasha a accessory too
gor fuckin plea, you know how racist most of the white gays are.
wouldn't be surprised if they were just using these kids as tax write offs.
I see blacks say this a lot when it comes to white people adopting black babies and even I have said before, but would anybody really go through that whole process just for a look? :uhh: I would hope people aren't that sick.
Quote from: Rajesha on May 05, 2016, 07:16:36 AM
as if these bbys are going to read those instagram posts nnn gyn does too much. this post has only 40 comments.
The Internet is forever! Just because they don't reconize now doesn't mean they wouldn't later. Hateful people know their faces!
Is it impossible for parents of the kids at their school to talk and those kids start teasing these kids? Is it impossible for this story to gain steam and those kids be thrust into a public conversation that they didn't ask for?
Furthermore, even if the kids themselves aren't a target the fact that your parents are being focused on can be hurtful as well.
As a responsible parent these are things you need to consider. Even if you can handle the heat in the kitchen why subject your kids to that.
Mel preached on that first page. Nobody would be complaining if that Tom and Cindy. Gyn preached even more. You have to be cautious.
They have 3 black kids :plzstop:
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BEmBhXSCF0N/[/instagram]
Not the caption being #braids
At least they're identifying them with their culture
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BERsaRACF1X/[/instagram]
But this is such a touchy topic. Yes it's a family and there seems to be love amount the parents but part of me feels like that lil boy smudging their heads together is gonna turn out gay by what he's being exposed to. He may just go to school and try to kiss Tommy! It's just my opinionata. Not that you shouldn't show affection but it's such a young age. But then again u would not want ya child to grow up and u spring your gayness on them. It's hard :stressed:
wtf this is so not cute...and that kid saying "gimme more" :uhh:
mmmm
if this were a man and woman everyone would be like 'so cute...aww adorable!'
so the way you guys reacting right now is a sign of self hate and shame about being a fag
Quote from: Stewie on May 05, 2016, 09:29:24 AM
mmmm
if this were a man and woman everyone would be like 'so cute...aww adorable!'
so the way you guys reacting right now is a sign of self hate and shame about being a fag
!!!!!!!!!!! :plzstop:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 01:33:46 AM
I know people are gonna freak out about this. White men, black bbys, and gay love, something's coming. I couldn't care less. If kids were exposed to this real life shit earlier like this, everybody wouldnt be such a damn bigot. Every family is not the traditional family. If this were a man and his wife no one would care. Someone is definitely gonna fume tho
!!!!!!!
people just need to see it more until its not seen as weird and gross...
Quote from: Young on May 05, 2016, 02:36:59 AM
Str8 men who accept us turn me on :stressed:
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But does any couple posting online have any rhyme or reason for posting a PDA pic/video?
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:36:06 AM
They have 3 black kids :plzstop:
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BEmBhXSCF0N/[/instagram]
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wait, is the the couple that was posting vids of their son twerking :plzstop:
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 09:52:38 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:36:06 AM
They have 3 black kids :plzstop:
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BEmBhXSCF0N/[/instagram]
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wait, is the the couple that was posting vids of their son twerking :plzstop:
now see.... :uhh:
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on May 05, 2016, 06:49:47 AM
They have a beautiful family. This couple did what most people, no matter what race, would never do?take in someone else's children to raise as their own. Some of y'all can't even raise a bar of soap to clean your asses. Good for them.
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Quote from: Stewie on May 05, 2016, 09:29:24 AM
mmmm
if this were a man and woman everyone would be like 'so cute...aww adorable!'
so the way you guys reacting right now is a sign of self hate and shame about being a fag
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
And little Tyrone chanting "more" disturbed my soul
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Its just random as FUCK.
But does any couple posting online have any rhyme or reason for posting a PDA pic/video?
Im not saying there's anything wrong. I'm saying its random, in a more "this is not something you see everyday" kind of way. I mean... or maybe yall do. :dead:
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
your parents didnt kiss around you?
:kii:
Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:02:06 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
And little Tyrone chanting "more" disturbed my soul
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Parents showing each other affection around their kids isn't anything new or weird. :dead:
My only worry is these two white queens raising a bunch of coons who loathe everything about being black.
Stuff like this really strikes me because i have white family members. My cousin married a white guy, my aunt has an adopted white son, so it's always crazy to see people be such (IMO) BIGOTS! I dont see these people as anything but parts of my family. So that's why i call black people on shit just like i would a white person. Racism aint cute from anybody
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Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
your parents didnt kiss around you?
:kii:
Like :plzstop:
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Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:09:48 AM
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when are you gonna just admit you hate us
:hmph:
wth
Boy I don't care that these niggas are gay lol
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Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:09:48 AM
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when are you gonna just admit you hate us
:hmph:
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I love when y'all go on witch hunts
Where's monika, someone pm her this video :kii:
Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:13:51 AM
Boy I don't care that these niggas are gay lol
"Lol" has me leaned tf over :kii:
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I always end my lies in 'lol' too real!
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 10:05:53 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
your parents didnt kiss around you?
:kii:
Not while I was laid up in bed with them no
Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:13:51 AM
Boy I don't care that these niggas are gay lol
well everytime theres a thread of this nature you're 'disgusted' or planting a simple 'n' somewhere
but i guess thats just your way of saying its cool, LOL
ok. just wondering.
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on May 05, 2016, 10:16:32 AM
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I always end my lies in 'lol' too real!
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 10:05:53 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
your parents didnt kiss around you?
:kii:
Not while I was laid up in bed with them no
you laid up in bed with your parents?
oh.
some might find that strange :blink:
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Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 10:16:37 AM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 10:05:53 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
your parents didnt kiss around you?
:kii:
Not while I was laid up in bed with them no
you laid up in bed with your parents?
oh.
some might find that strange :blink:
I never did that
I'll take gay over interracial or black/white adoption any day. That ain't the problem.
i support love!
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I'm more concerned with why they felt the need to post it online
different. ... very out of the box.
This was weird :uhh:
and the child giving a " more" tea made it even more strange.
Quote from: Mel. on May 05, 2016, 01:40:32 AM
I will never understand why gays cant even be happy for other gays...
I mean fuck society, homophobes, etc...
we as gays can't even support one another
if we cant even do that, how are we gonna ever expect equality?
(https://67.media.tumblr.com/9887db4d8e386137fece32de1b2735f0/tumblr_o6lzelYoOh1s2a3gvo1_540.gif)
Quote from: Mel. on May 05, 2016, 01:38:29 AM
what's the issue here?
I see a loving couple with their kids being affectionate toward each other....
why must we find an issue or be asked if it's okay? we wouldn't if it were a male and female
or to some extent, even lesbians....
why is it when it's 2 men it becomes this big shock?
95% of this board is gay and if you had kids are you not gonna be affectionate around them?
!!!!!!!
Quote from: Cartier on May 05, 2016, 02:47:37 AM
This video is a bit weird but otherwise, I'm not really seeing the issue.
They're in love and they love their children so..?
!!!!!!
I agree.
And I'm not saying it's weird because it's a gay couple.
If it were a straight couple I think it would still be weird.
BUT
it's their family, and if they don't see anything wrong with it then.... :)
It's cute nevertheless.
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 07:27:43 AM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on May 05, 2016, 06:49:47 AM
They have a beautiful family. This couple did what most people, no matter what race, would never do?take in someone else's children to raise as their own. Some of y'all can't even raise a bar of soap to clean your asses. Good for them.
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:36:06 AM
They have 3 black kids :plzstop:
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BEmBhXSCF0N/[/instagram]
Their house looks amazing
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 01:33:46 AM
I know people are gonna freak out about this. White men, black bbys, and gay love, something's coming. I couldn't care less. If kids were exposed to this real life shit earlier like this, everybody wouldnt be such a damn bigot. Every family is not the traditional family. If this were a man and his wife no one would care. Someone is definitely gonna fume tho
I agree. I don't see the problem.
It's not like they are bumping bussies in front of the kids.
Quote from: Young on May 05, 2016, 02:04:26 AM
Mel is actually right....
My first instinct is to be like wtf
But the dads are in love.
Not understanding the black children part but that's okay.
They seem happy and healthy and happy that their dads love eachother
!!!
Their parents are in love and showing them that. It's a hell of a lot better than kids seeing their dads walk out or their mother running around town with several different men.
Quote from: Young on May 05, 2016, 02:36:43 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 02:34:32 AM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on May 05, 2016, 02:23:28 AM
i mean black children do get stuck in the system like the unwanted puppy at the pound until they're put to dead, in a black kids case toss to the streets. So I'm at least happy they have a HOME.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Like smh
i loooooooove that you're so accepting.
you a good man dvy :stressed:
He really is. I adore him.
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:41:56 AM
but part of me feels like that lil boy smudging their heads together is gonna turn out gay by what he's being exposed to.
f
Yeah like all the fags on here who were only exposed to heterosexual relationships that grew up to be strai....oh wait
:ohwow:
Quote from: Nyan Cat on May 05, 2016, 06:33:50 AM
they r so adorbs!
https://www.instagram.com/p/3oQMZECFwM/?taken-by=rogerlisrael_sanchez
They are too cute!!!
Children are expensive
Adoption is expensive + time consuming
I don't think a couple would go through that process because of public perception
Although I WOULD like to know their reasoning for getting 3 black bbys and not a mixture or something.
I know there was a cindy, lil chalupa or chao ming at the adoption agency
:hmph:
Either way, unless they're abusing the kids, any home is better than being in the adoption system. But like Yummy said, hope those fags don't have a negative perception of black people, and are raising a bunch of Lil Jays
:mmyulost:
oh wait
maybe the kids are siblings. the little boy and girl look alike
Maybe the kids are related hun.
Maybe the gay couple lived in areas that were predominately black and it influenced their decision.
The races of each child shouldn't matter.
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:41:56 AM
But this is such a touchy topic. Yes it's a family and there seems to be love amount the parents but part of me feels like that lil boy smudging their heads together is gonna turn out gay by what he's being exposed to. He may just go to school and try to kiss Tommy! It's just my opinionata. Not that you shouldn't show affection but it's such a young age. But then again u would not want ya child to grow up and u spring your gayness on them. It's hard :stressed:
If that's the case then couldn't the same thing be said for kids with straight parents? Just because Billy sees his mom & dad kissing doesn't mean he's gonna go to school and start kissing every little girl on the playground.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 09:52:38 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:36:06 AM
They have 3 black kids :plzstop:
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BEmBhXSCF0N/[/instagram]
hjfjngm
wait, is the the couple that was posting vids of their son twerking :plzstop:
WTFFFFF?! :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 12:08:20 PM
Maybe the kids are related hun.
Maybe the gay couple lived in areas that were predominately black and it influenced their decision.
The races of each child shouldn't matter.
yeah, and i wanna know what the reasoning was.
let's not act like black people aren't negatively perceived in america
what if they're being raised to dislike their own
:hmph:
but again, any child out of the system is an amazing thing.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BC6Yf9liF9M/
they're cutting these babies hair
i can tell
:stressed:
this is so cute though
i'm gonna go adopt a baby
:traciandchelle:
Between the pictures of afro puffs and braids I seriously doubt they're being raised to hate blacks.
Wouldn't make sense to adopt them in the first place. :dead:
Y'all need to stop questioning why these white people are adopting blacks and start questioning why the blacks aren't adopting any.
ssssssd
yeah because hairstyles that 90% of little black girls sport anyway is a testament of them being #WOKE and opened minded
we all know white gays are the most tolerant of them all!
i'm not trying to take anything away from them as parents, i'm just saying i HOPE they're decent people.
Quote from: Aalonso on May 05, 2016, 06:39:09 AM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
WHEW
Period!!!!!!
:loose2when:
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But yeah, they shouldn't have uploaded this.
Cute family tho.
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 12:16:07 PM
Wouldn't make sense to adopt them in the first place. :dead:
Y'all need to stop questioning why these white people are adopting blacks and start questioning why the blacks aren't adopting any.
!!!
Why would racists, who would likely have racists friends, adopt black kids as accessories? Who in their circle would they be impressing? :uhh:
We know it's notoriously difficult to find permanent homes for black kids in the system. Of course you don't wanna just throw them anywhere but these kids show no signs of mistreatment.
I don't see a thing wrong with it, but I know many others will disagree. If this is the worst they're exposed to, their parents loving on each other and expressing affection, then they're some blessed little kids. This world can be so ugly, so I personally find this beautiful.
I'm just glad these kids aren't in the system tbh
#votethebestmess
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 12:05:37 PM
oh wait
maybe the kids are siblings. the little boy and girl look alike
This EXACTLY what i was thinking but
ACCESSORIES
They cant be accessories because their siblings? :shannonsmissing:
Some of y'all are just....woo!
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 12:38:01 PM
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 12:16:07 PM
Wouldn't make sense to adopt them in the first place. :dead:
Y'all need to stop questioning why these white people are adopting blacks and start questioning why the blacks aren't adopting any.
!!!
Why would racists, who would likely have racists friends, adopt black kids as accessories? Who in their circle would they be impressing? :uhh:
We know it's notoriously difficult to find permanent homes for black kids in the system. Of course you don't wanna just throw them anywhere but these kids show no signs of mistreatment.
Pretty much
People have been adopting kids of different races for eons now. It isn't anything new or edgy.
The gurs are just looking for anything bad to say just because they're white.
Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:24:05 AM
I'll take gay over interracial or black/white adoption any day. That ain't the problem.
And what the fck is this about? :uhh:
Aside from them looking creepy I dont see an iss'
Those kids look healthy, well cared for, and happy. That's all that should matter. The alternative is much worse for them. Small minded people will have their small minded opinions.
:omgwatshappening:
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Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
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Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
Those kids look healthy, well cared for, and happy. That's all that should matter. The alternative is much worse for them. Small minded people will have their small minded opinions.
:plea:
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 01:00:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.
And that's the reality a lot black children in the system live.
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:02:45 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 01:00:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.
And that's the reality a lot black children in the system live.
There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.
Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.
Just throwing this out there a bit.
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:24:56 PM
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:02:45 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 01:00:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.
And that's the reality a lot black children in the system live.
There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.
Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.
Just throwing this out there a bit.
I didn't know that. But it makes sense because there's more white people in America.
The second part made my stomach drop. You don't think thats because its hard to get people to adopt black children?
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 12:03:42 PM
Children are expensive
Adoption is expensive + time consuming
I don't think a couple would go through that process because of public perception
Although I WOULD like to know their reasoning for getting 3 black bbys and not a mixture or something.
I know there was a cindy, lil chalupa or chao ming at the adoption agency
:hmph:
Either way, unless they're abusing the kids, any home is better than being in the adoption system. But like Yummy said, hope those fags don't have a negative perception of black people, and are raising a bunch of Lil Jays
:mmyulost:
Maybe they have black friends
:udontlookok:
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:54:21 PM
Aside from them looking creepy I dont see an iss'
!!!!!!
it looks creepy, but I can't find anything to gripe about :dead:
I mean ... if anything MAYBE the lil boy GRABBING their faces and pushing them together
BUT even that view, we as adults FORCE sexualized things on children, and what is innocent to them seems dirty to us, like when Janet's nipple popped out and ppl were saying their children were RUINED... like ... why would seeing a titty ruin your child? what are you teaching them about titties?! :uhh:
and I'm glad I caught myself after reading the comments, because the kids are really surrounded by love
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 12:08:20 PM
Maybe the kids are related hun.
Maybe the gay couple lived in areas that were predominately black and it influenced their decision.
The races of each child shouldn't matter.
yeah
:sobusyjetsetter:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 09:52:38 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:36:06 AM
They have 3 black kids :plzstop:
[instagram]https://instagram.com/p/BEmBhXSCF0N/[/instagram]
hjfjngm
wait, is the the couple that was posting vids of their son twerking :plzstop:
:holdupguys:
I have CPS on the other line
seeing this ... I want a damns CHILD
I mean, I would adopt cause there are kids that need it but...
it won't kill me to nut in a female, I'll just make her take fertility drugs so we have twins, might as well get em all at once
:hmph:
Quote from: Mel. on May 05, 2016, 01:38:29 AM
what's the issue here?
I see a loving couple with their kids being affectionate toward each other....
why must we find an issue or be asked if it's okay? we wouldn't if it were a male and female
or to some extent, even lesbians....
why is it when it's 2 men it becomes this big shock?
95% of this board is gay and if you had kids are you not gonna be affectionate around them?
Thank you for being on of the only voices of reason in this thread.
If it was a straight couple, everyone would be all, "How cute! Marriage! Love!"
But because they are a gay couple they aren't supposed to show affection to each other.
And lastly, you fags can do a quick Google search. There are a lot of black children in the foster system so it is easier to adopt them. Especially as a gay couple, I'm sure it was hard for them to get the clearance to adopt.
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BDjiDEUiF6S/
They seem loving.
It looks like their friends with hispanics too.
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:stressed: I can't wait until I have some kids.
Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on May 05, 2016, 02:01:24 AM
They throw the black kids to the gay couples. Like they're leftovers or something.
There are more AA children in the foster system up for adoption. It easier to adopt them because there are more to adopt. The sad truth is there are more black parents that put their children up than others.
And in this case maybe they want to adopt them. Why is it wrong for another race to raise a child?
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Quote from: FINE. on May 05, 2016, 01:43:10 AM
People still view being gay as this barbaric, sick thing. If this was Sarah and Tom I think there would be less fuss. Cute even!
And the little babies being black is another issue
!!!!!
It's a shame but I'm sure they love those kids. All that matters
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
With that thinking, it will continue to be looked at as wrong. Until more couples like this make the situation visible it will continue to be taboo.
More couples need to do this. There is nothing wrong with it.
Quote from: Young on May 05, 2016, 02:27:32 AM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 02:24:26 AM
They shouldn't have posted this
now this i agree with
not like that anyway; dont care if its gay or straight.
kissy time in the bed with the kids!
no.
but they all look happy so thats beautiful.
im shivering in place
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:36:10 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:24:56 PM
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:02:45 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 01:00:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.
And that's the reality a lot black children in the system live.
There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.
Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.
Just throwing this out there a bit.
I didn't know that. But it makes sense because there's more white people in America.
The second part made my stomach drop. You don't think thats because its hard to get people to adopt black children?
No I agree with your point but I think the reasons its so difficult is because of stereotypes and the disparities for Black children to be placed into foster care more often.
Quote from: 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕚𝕖. on May 05, 2016, 01:46:57 PM
https://www.instagram.com/p/_sLnwPiF91/
They're so cute.
:stressed: I can't wait until I have some kids.
they look all related
so fucking adorable
Quote from: BENTLEY! on May 05, 2016, 01:38:11 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:54:21 PM
Aside from them looking creepy I dont see an iss'
!!!!!!
it looks creepy, but I can't find anything to gripe about :dead:
I mean ... if anything MAYBE the lil boy GRABBING their faces and pushing them together
BUT even that view, we as adults FORCE sexualized things on children, and what is innocent to them seems dirty to us, like when Janet's nipple popped out and ppl were saying their children were RUINED... like ... why would seeing a titty ruin your child? what are you teaching them about titties?! :uhh:
and I'm glad I caught myself after reading the comments, because the kids are really surrounded by love
bb
Yeah Bent people in western society sexualize everything. It's sad sometimes
and those white men look related as well
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 12:46:21 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 12:05:37 PM
oh wait
maybe the kids are siblings. the little boy and girl look alike
This EXACTLY what i was thinking but
ACCESSORIES
Well, I said what I said and I ain't changing it, ya blue black hoodlum.
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 04:20:23 AM
My only concern with any race adopting kids from another race is "Are the kids learning about and being exposed to their culture" because IMO that's very important and has a lot to do with self love. The kids know these guys love them but are the kids making strides to love themselves!
I would never adopt a Asian baby and only expose them to things I'm culturally familiar or comfortable with. We would learn about Asia together maybe even take a trip there. I would find some old Asian lady who I could befriend and ask her questions about Asian family dynamics and traditions. I wouldnt want kid idolizing black people simply because they are different and that's all they know.
Then your ass should adopt these children so u can stop bitching.
Be happy they have a nicer home than you instead of in a cold system that treats them like they ain't shit.
Quote from: One Of Those Nights. on May 05, 2016, 01:47:12 PM
Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on May 05, 2016, 02:01:24 AM
They throw the black kids to the gay couples. Like they're leftovers or something.
There are more AA children in the foster system up for adoption. It easier to adopt them because there are more to adopt.
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Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:24:56 PM
There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.
Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.
Just throwing this out there a bit.
:usureuok: so whats the truth here
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 06:03:36 AM
I don't like the idea of white people adopting black children and using them as an accessory.
WTF
It's easier to adopt black children because more are available for adoption. It was already hard for them I'm sure cause they are a gay couple.
What a dumb fucking comment.
Earings! Accessories! Purses! Dummy
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on May 05, 2016, 06:49:47 AM
They have a beautiful family. This couple did what most people, no matter what race, would never do?take in someone else's children to raise as their own. Some of y'all can't even raise a bar of soap to clean your asses. Good for them.
!!!
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
Gorl, fuck you and these neo nazi looking fags
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:41:56 AM
But this is such a touchy topic. Yes it's a family and there seems to be love amount the parents but part of me feels like that lil boy smudging their heads together is gonna turn out gay by what he's being exposed to. He may just go to school and try to kiss Tommy! It's just my opinionata. Not that you shouldn't show affection but it's such a young age. But then again u would not want ya child to grow up and u spring your gayness on them. It's hard :stressed:
You do know people can't be convinced to become gay. You are born gay or you aren't. It isn't some club you can join after seeing two men kiss.
SMH
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 09:30:26 AM
Quote from: Stewie on May 05, 2016, 09:29:24 AM
mmmm
if this were a man and woman everyone would be like 'so cute...aww adorable!'
so the way you guys reacting right now is a sign of self hate and shame about being a fag
!!!!!!!!!!! :plzstop:
!!!
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
:omgwatshappening:
Where are your receipts One of those nights
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
It would appear
One of Those Nights is misinformed.
That makes sense though
I know more than a few white people that are adopted/have adopted siblings
White people don't mind DUMPING their children off a bit
Or straight up aborting them lol
Quote from: 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕚𝕖. on May 05, 2016, 01:45:15 PM
It looks like their friends with hispanics too.
I'm levitating
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 01:51:13 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 12:46:21 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 12:05:37 PM
oh wait
maybe the kids are siblings. the little boy and girl look alike
This EXACTLY what i was thinking but
ACCESSORIES
Well, I said what I said and I ain't changing it, ya blue black hoodlum.
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What the heck man
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
mmmm
the comments in this thread are lot more disgusting and cringeworthy than the actual video tbh
just all types of ignorance and stupidity
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:24:56 PM
Quote from: Boomer on May 05, 2016, 01:02:45 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 01:00:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 12:56:23 PM
Quote from: CandyCrush on May 05, 2016, 12:55:17 PM
The alternative is much worse for them. .
What's the alternative?
To not be adopted at all, to be in foster care and get shuffled from home to home, to watch other kids get adopted while they slowly feel unwanted and unworthy and just plain LESS THAN. That's the real alternative.
And that's the reality a lot black children in the system live.
There are actually more white children in foster care than Black children.
Also, its less expensive to adopt a black child opposed to a white one.
Just throwing this out there a bit.
Yah, but the sad thing is people want to adopt white kids. So they get snatched up quick & black kids stay in the system for 18 years until they are dumped in the streets at 18.
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
Yah, but white kids get snatched right up, black kids aren't the first people want to adopt.
I volunteer with Foster children during the summers cause my high school requires it and little white babies get snatched up left and right... minorities, not so much. It's a sad truth.
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
!!!!
More white children get adopted than black children:
https://www.quora.com/Why-do-so-few-African-American-children-get-adopted
QuotePercentage-wise, Blacks are actually more likely to adopt than Whites.
Interesting
Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on May 05, 2016, 02:01:24 AM
They throw the black kids to the gay couples. Like they're leftovers or something.
I think there is actually some truth to this.
I read somewhere that black children are the least likely to get adopted and so it's easier for gay couples to get a black child because they're less in demand.
Are people really that picky about adopting a bby?
I can see age discrimination, but Jesus
:udontlookok:
Quote from: One Of Those Nights. on May 05, 2016, 02:16:00 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
my high school
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 02:28:33 PM
Are people really that picky about adopting a bby?
I can see age discrimination, but Jesus
:udontlookok:
Yeah
QuoteAdditionally, Caucasians and Hispanics are consistently preferred to African-Americans. The probability that a non-African-American baby will attract the interest of an adoptive parent is at least seven times as high as the corresponding probability for an African-American baby.
http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/01/25/black-babies-boys-less-likely-to-be-adopted/?_r=0
And then there's this
QuoteThe little boy, who was born to a couple battling issues with alcohol, used to live in a shelter in Capelinha, a small city in the state of Minas Gerais, Brazil. When his mother died, his father abandoned him and he was later given up for adoption where he subsequently faced rejection from three straight couples. Their reason, Scofield, was that the boy was ?ugly? or ?too black.?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/27/gay-couple-adopts-brazili_n_6926818.html
Quote from: Lion Babe on May 05, 2016, 02:26:56 PM
Quote from: Herbie's Podcast on May 05, 2016, 02:01:24 AM
They throw the black kids to the gay couples. Like they're leftovers or something.
I think there is actually some truth to this.
I read somewhere that black children are the least likely to get adopted and so it's easier for gay couples to get a black child because they're less in demand.
It's true sadly
Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 05, 2016, 02:30:56 PM
Quote from: One Of Those Nights. on May 05, 2016, 02:16:00 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
my high school
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Yes? :uhh:
Quote from: Lion Babe on May 05, 2016, 02:31:43 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME DIETRICH III on May 05, 2016, 02:28:33 PM
Are people really that picky about adopting a bby?
I can see age discrimination, but Jesus
:udontlookok:
?ugly? or ?too black.?
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how rude
:usureuok:
Quote from: Kurama on May 05, 2016, 01:54:56 PM
Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System (AFCARS) data for FY 2014 (link is external)
Who are the 415,129 foster children?
Sex
Age
Race
52% male
48% female
39% 5 years old or under
23% 6 to 10 years old
22% 11 to 15 years old
16% 16 to 20 years old
2% American Indian/Alaskan Native
1% Asian
24% Black or African American
0% (525) Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander
22% Hispanic (of any race)
42% White
3% Unknown/Unable to Determine
7% Two or more Races
:receipts:
1% Asian :-o
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 12:08:20 PM
Maybe the kids are related hun.
Maybe the gay couple lived in areas that were predominately black and it influenced their decision.
The races of each child shouldn't matter.
If im not mistaken, the girl actually came last. I remember them posting a "our family is now complete" type of post. I've sort of been followed these two in the past. :wellheythere:
Aww its nice to see a gay couple with kids. Not for me though but its sweet
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
i totally get what you mean, but in fairness to them, i doubt anyone is attacking the children.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 03:37:27 AM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 02:50:52 AM
Is it okay? Yes
How do I feel about it? It's off putting. I feel like as parents we sometimes have to use our better judgement and separate what's best for us, from what's best for our kids. This was for him and his lover with no regard for the light the kids will now stand in. Two white dads with black sons who are encouraging them to kiss is not going to go well on social media. You have to know this as an adult with common sense. So the only reason for posting this IMO is to make a social statement or low key bait for a reaction (because you know you're getting one). If it was merely about love you would have enjoyed your private moment, and be content with not subjecting your children to public shaming on social media. What ever positive feedback or new normal dad of the year award he received isn't worth the spotlight that is now place on his kids and family. The trade off isn't worth it and I would protect my kids from social media trolls.
I can agree with this. They probably posted this to make some sort of statement. i do like that the kids are in what is seemingly a loving environment that promotes qualities that alot of people lack. People are so quick to gripe about bullshit
black bbys tossed with any ol person
Like :uhh:
What's the alternative? Them living their life in the system until theyre tossed into the street once they hit 18. Who gives a fck about what color someone is? These men opened their home and hearts to these kids but yea, let's focus on them being white and the kids being black :dead: idiots tbh
!!!!! mind boggling. really
Quote from: Rajesha on May 05, 2016, 06:42:17 AM
While we are conditioned to believe this weird or even immoral, I am not mad at this at all. As long as everyone is happy and healthy.
!!!! i agree with Yummy in general, cuz its obvious that
some celebs and
some white people (among others) use black kids as accessories,
but i dont get that vibe here, thank God.
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on May 05, 2016, 07:49:54 AM
Quote from: Rajesha on May 05, 2016, 07:16:36 AM
as if these bbys are going to read those instagram posts nnn gyn does too much. this post has only 40 comments.
The Internet is forever! Just because they don't reconize now doesn't mean they wouldn't later. Hateful people know their faces!
ok, and i would hope they're raising these kids to have minds of their own and to rise above the hate, lashing and impending teasing. ALL kids deal with it in some way and they're pretty much predisposed whether this vid continues to circulate or not :dead: i dont see any added trauma on the horizon here. It'll be lateral at best :dead: a wash, basically. They're gonna deal with ignorance until they're dead and gone, but the love they're being raised under and around can pay off big time.
Shielding them or even putting them through independent study wouldn't help at all.
Quote from: Stewie on May 05, 2016, 09:31:19 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 05, 2016, 01:33:46 AM
I know people are gonna freak out about this. White men, black bbys, and gay love, something's coming. I couldn't care less. If kids were exposed to this real life shit earlier like this, everybody wouldnt be such a damn bigot. Every family is not the traditional family. If this were a man and his wife no one would care. Someone is definitely gonna fume tho
!!!!!!!
people just need to see it more until its not seen as weird and gross...
agreed. including some of us :dead:
Quote from: Real on May 05, 2016, 10:02:06 AM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 09:54:22 AM
Kids are impressionable. And even if it were a mom and dad they should not be laid up in bed kissing with their kids laid up with them.
And little Tyrone chanting "more" disturbed my soul
sdsdddsddfdffffggf i didn't quite catch that, but aww
:mmyulost:
luv this, still. i think
:wheresmylawyer:
Quote from: Drais. on May 05, 2016, 12:02:28 PM
Quote from: Big Bertha on May 05, 2016, 08:41:56 AM
but part of me feels like that lil boy smudging their heads together is gonna turn out gay by what he's being exposed to.
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Yeah like all the fags on here who were only exposed to heterosexual relationships that grew up to be strai....oh wait
:ohwow:
woops. lolz
Quote from: SUPREME on May 05, 2016, 12:27:44 PM
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yeah because hairstyles that 90% of little black girls sport anyway is a testament of them being #WOKE and opened minded
we all know white gays are the most tolerant of them all!
i'm not trying to take anything away from them as parents, i'm just saying i HOPE they're decent people.
!!!!!
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honestly ALL of you have made very valid/solid arguments. Like you, I just wanna believe they're good people. period.
More zadii!!
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stfu ok
What's the issue?
so this thread = self hate
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basically!
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Have the kids been taken aways yet?
Quote from: SUPREME on May 05, 2016, 02:28:33 PM
Are people really that picky about adopting a bby?
I can see age discrimination, but Jesus
:udontlookok:
if you gots money, you can do that
(http://images.thehollywoodgossip.com/iu/s--stKPXOrl--/t_full/f_auto,fl_lossy,q_75/v1436902457/rubbing-moms-feet.png)
:udontlookok:
btw have yall sen these fags house? I wanna be adopted now. I'll click these niggas toe nails and things of that
:udontlookok: