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Mentally yeah
Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags
I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around
xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:44:46 PM
Mentally yeah
Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags
I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around
xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
that's so trash
I can't say I've been there but one of my ex's was such a damn liar and his ex kept popping up in our relationship for 3 damn years
That really imparted insecurity in me tbh.. I'm so glad I left that situation alone
I feel like it was a form of abuse
Lying so damn much .. and parts of me feels as tho he led this boy on.. they were together for 5 years
I was a fool to think that a year was long enough for them to be over each other
I was abused spiritually
Hmph
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:47:33 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:44:46 PM
Mentally yeah
Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags
I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around
xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
that's so trash
I can't say I've been there but one of my ex's was such a damn liar and his ex kept popping up in our relationship for 3 damn years
That really imparted insecurity in me tbh.. I'm so glad I left that situation alone
I feel like it was a form of abuse
Lying so damn much .. and parts of me feels as tho he led this boy on.. they were together for 5 years
I was a fool to think that a year was long enough for them to be over each other
I was abused spiritually
Hmph
eek
You're better than me
I would have fought both of them
:kii: :kii:
I'm not into a violent mess but disrespect is one thing I can't take
I've... Done some things lol
But I'm glad that part of your life is over
No. I would never stay in a relationship where the power imbalance wasn't skewed in my favor. :nowgorl:
Mentally yes. I did some physical abuse after. :plea:
Not proud of that by the way. And I find it so funny that shit didn't happen to me until I started dating men. :melmel:
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:52:15 PM
But I'm glad that part of your life is over
yeah
I was young and had faith in someone that didn't deserve the faith I had in them
According to their ex.. they never messed
I don't believe it
Glad I closed that chapter tho..
being a hoe >
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 10:55:34 PM
Mentally yes. I did some physical abuse after. :plea:
Not proud of that by the way. And I find it so funny that shit didn't happen to me until I started dating men. :melmel:
to the person that mentally abused u?
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
Quote from: Blamblam on May 08, 2019, 10:53:21 PM
No. I would never stay in a relationship where the power imbalance wasn't skewed in my favor. :nowgorl:
wow ur better than us all
Yeah
He knew all my insecurities and secrets and used them against me.
He made me turn my back on my family and friends
He's the love of my life tbh
:stressed:
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life
How did u dip?
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
eek
So happy that's over
Fuck
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life
How did u dip?
Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
What do you find strange?
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
I think mental abuse is more common than we would like to believe
And it's a gradual thing
I've never faced it but the way it happens .. ch!
It's like they sift the mess in their everyday communication
And from speaking to others it seems that the abusers prey on a person that is in their most vulnerable and open state
Kinda don't see it coming
But yeah
I couldn't imagine someone raising their hand to me
I think most dudes are afraid of me anyway based off my demeanor and build so it ain't happening
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:03:50 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life
How did u dip?
Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
eek
At least it didn't have to be something physical from his crazy self
Did finding out he was fucking with an Ugly make u insecure?
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:09:49 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:03:50 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life
How did u dip?
Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
eek
At least it didn't have to be something physical from his crazy self
Did finding out he was fucking with an Ugly make u insecure?
Well at the time I mostly convinced myself gremlin was ugly. I may be exaggerating....it kinda just stuck.
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:05:42 PM
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
What do you find strange?
A man just letting another man lash them up on the regular. With women I SORTA can understand because in most of all cases they're much weaker and dont feel like they have much of a chance if they struck back.
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:47:33 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:44:46 PM
Mentally yeah
Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags
I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around
xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
that's so trash
I can't say I've been there but one of my ex's was such a damn liar and his ex kept popping up in our relationship for 3 damn years
That really imparted insecurity in me tbh.. I'm so glad I left that situation alone
I feel like it was a form of abuse
Lying so damn much .. and parts of me feels as tho he led this boy on.. they were together for 5 years
I was a fool to think that a year was long enough for them to be over each other
I was abused spiritually
Hmph
Awwww Glock
:stressed:
You deserved every bit of this
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
vjkldmnhsfghjkl,vmnbvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv
someone ban this nigga from this thread
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:17:11 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:05:42 PM
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
What do you find strange?
A man just letting another man lash them up on the regular. With women I SORTA can understand because in most of all cases they're much weaker and dont feel like they have much of a chance if they struck back.
Ah, well it's def more than just a physical strength thing. For one, as cheesy as it sounds, with the feelings I had for him, I couldn't imagine doing something to intentionally cause him harm. And this was IN the moment, as it's happening :dead: . I knew you don't let anyone touch you but I also knew this was the person I felt in love with and had been with for 3 yrs. I was very conflicted and the decision I made was to not retaliate. He blacked, and I was super present and thinking.
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:58:13 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 10:55:34 PM
Mentally yes. I did some physical abuse after. :plea:
Not proud of that by the way. And I find it so funny that shit didn't happen to me until I started dating men. :melmel:
to the person that mentally abused u?
Yeah. He insisted on playing mind games and I wasn't here for it. This all happened in the heat of the moment, I hate liars and manipulative people.
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:13:33 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:09:49 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:03:50 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life
How did u dip?
Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
eek
At least it didn't have to be something physical from his crazy self
Did finding out he was fucking with an Ugly make u insecure?
Well at the time I mostly convinced myself gremlin was ugly. I may be exaggerating....it kinda just stuck.
ugly is probably ugly tho
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 11:26:02 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:58:13 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 10:55:34 PM
Mentally yes. I did some physical abuse after. :plea:
Not proud of that by the way. And I find it so funny that shit didn't happen to me until I started dating men. :melmel:
to the person that mentally abused u?
Yeah. He insisted on playing mind games and I wasn't here for it. This all happened in the heat of the moment, I hate liars and manipulative people.
baby listen
Liars are so fucking disgusting to me
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:08:15 PM
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
I think mental abuse is more common than we would like to believe
And it's a gradual thing
I've never faced it but the way it happens .. ch!
It's like they sift the mess in their everyday communication
And from speaking to others it seems that the abusers prey on a person that is in their most vulnerable and open state
Kinda don't see it coming
But yeah
I couldn't imagine someone raising their hand to me
I think most dudes are afraid of me anyway based off my demeanor and build so it ain't happening
:'(
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
Quote from: HUGO on May 08, 2019, 11:18:43 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:47:33 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:44:46 PM
Mentally yeah
Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags
I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around
xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
that's so trash
I can't say I've been there but one of my ex's was such a damn liar and his ex kept popping up in our relationship for 3 damn years
That really imparted insecurity in me tbh.. I'm so glad I left that situation alone
I feel like it was a form of abuse
Lying so damn much .. and parts of me feels as tho he led this boy on.. they were together for 5 years
I was a fool to think that a year was long enough for them to be over each other
I was abused spiritually
Hmph
Awwww Glock
:stressed:
You deserved every bit of this
what in the hell
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
N
No
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury...I don't care enough to participate in the game of mental manipulaylay. My confidence is at a billi...so there's no way for you to get under my skin. :howfestive:
And as far as physical...im from the islands bby...they wouldnt even find your ashes :raycharles2urmess:
I did have a mentally abusive friendship or 2. Thought ne that if it is a chore to be or maintain a mess with you...I have better things to do. :sobusyjetsetter:
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
That was probably smart of u 🥴
Gays are infamous for damn jumping
Great thread Glock
Thanks baby
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
CCCGGVCVG
Funny you say that
I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me
:plzstop:
I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing
Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:39:14 PM
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
CCCGGVCVG
Funny you say that
I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me
:plzstop:
I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing
Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz
Thats a typical libra tea ignore it until it goes away :howfestive:
And i've dated too many gemini's before i realized they were all born a bit mental. Aint no crazy i havent seen already.
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:34:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
That was probably smart of u 🥴
Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh
I know friendships can be natural
But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click
When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay
I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS :dead: :dead:
And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:43:08 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:39:14 PM
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
CCCGGVCVG
Funny you say that
I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me
:plzstop:
I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing
Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz
Thats a typical libra tea ignore it until it goes away :howfestive:
And i've dated too many gemini's before i realized they were all born a bit mental. Aint no crazy i havent seen already.
oh no I'm Aries
Confident and self centered
:dead:
And loves too hard
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:44:00 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:34:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
That was probably smart of u 🥴
Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh
I know friendships can be natural
But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click
When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay
I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS :dead: :dead:
And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?
QuoteWhat were your own experiences of domestic abuse that spurred this campaign into being?
My experiences spanned over 15 months. Looking back, the warning signs were obvious from the beginning of our relationship, but I still fell madly in love with him. He maintained the high lifestyle in a penthouse apartment, had charisma, charm, was carefree, and people seemed to love his company. He was the complete opposite of every moral thing I was brought up to respect and I loved him.
He was a heavy drug user and although prior to meeting him I had never taken them, he eventually influenced me to use them with him. Over the course of the next 15 months with him trying to hang himself and me having to pull him down, or stabbing himself, or trying to stab me with shards of glass, or with a chef's knife, or sleeping around and treating me like a trophy, or trying to jump out of my car down the motorway because he didn't like what I was saying about our relationship, or anything else that's on the endless list of events, all added to the strain I was under, which resulted in me turning to drugs as a crutch from the relationship.
By the end of our relationship I was in a severe state of anxiety, isolation and depression. We had another row, which resulted in him pushing my head into the corner of a brick wall – he was trying to push me over the stairs banister – and me ending up in hospital with my ear ripped in two and my skull cut open. I turned to drugs heavily after this and ended up in hospital having suffered a massive overdose in 2012. My mom phoned ReThink to arrange counselling sessions for me.
I had four months' intensive trauma counselling sessions and a few small sessions after that. It wasn't until 2013 that I finally felt myself again. I've now gained three stone since my experience, work out, am training in boxing and will no longer take any form of abuse. I am quick to defend others and will always help someone who is in trouble.
Do you think domestic abuse in gay relationships is often a subject swept under the carpet?
Yes it is. The Guardian wrote in an article that same sex abuse is a "silent epidemic". Mankind Initiative have recently published research that shows some alarming statistics in domestic abuse towards men from women and also gay men. Their findings found that gay and bisexual men are twice as likely to experience domestic abuse over heterosexual men.
Biiiiiiitch :omgwatshappening:
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:46:05 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:44:00 PM
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I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
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That was probably smart of u 🥴
Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh
I know friendships can be natural
But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click
When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay
I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS :dead: :dead:
And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?
Glock
The first time I went to a gay club it was cool then we get back to her house and it's like 6 of us just hanging out
They were talking about sugar daddies and credit card scams :plzstop: :plzstop:
I was SHOCKED. I don't mess like that :plzstop: :plzstop:
And the fact that they JUST met and were comfortable talking about this shit in front of me
I just...I didn't know what to do so I got on my phone and after like an hour I left.
I think I went to that club like 3? Times to make my friend happy but I just couldn't hang with her anymore. We actually still talk but that's it. One of those girls was in fucking jail :plzstop: :plzstop: fuck no. I'll stick to my black sis
Im trying to google for NON-WHITE gay abusive relationships. Abusive relationships in gays of colors seems interesting.
Whites are inherently are weak and ion wanna see a video of them crying about some mess
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:50:46 PM
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Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:44:00 PM
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Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
That was probably smart of u 🥴
Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh
I know friendships can be natural
But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click
When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay
I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS :dead: :dead:
And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?
Glock
The first time I went to a gay club it was cool then we get back to her house and it's like 6 of us just hanging out
They were talking about sugar daddies and credit card scams :plzstop: :plzstop:
I was SHOCKED. I don't mess like that :plzstop: :plzstop:
And the fact that they JUST met and were comfortable talking about this shit in front of me
I just...I didn't know what to do so I got on my phone and after like an hour I left.
I think I went to that club like 3? Times to make my friend happy but I just couldn't hang with her anymore. We actually still talk but that's it. One of those girls was in fucking jail :plzstop: :plzstop: fuck no. I'll stick to my black sis
bxjdjsjsjjd
Oh fucking god
:plzstop:
I seriously would've left the moment they started talking about that mess
It's a kii how gays are always looking for a way to rob a girl or trick them jdjdjdjd
No damn maam
Not in jail
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Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to
He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.
It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab, went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt
Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls
And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself
I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing
And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
That was probably smart of u 🥴
Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh
I know friendships can be natural
But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click
When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay
I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS :dead: :dead:
And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?
Glock
The first time I went to a gay club it was cool then we get back to her house and it's like 6 of us just hanging out
They were talking about sugar daddies and credit card scams :plzstop: :plzstop:
I was SHOCKED. I don't mess like that :plzstop: :plzstop:
And the fact that they JUST met and were comfortable talking about this shit in front of me
I just...I didn't know what to do so I got on my phone and after like an hour I left.
I think I went to that club like 3? Times to make my friend happy but I just couldn't hang with her anymore. We actually still talk but that's it. One of those girls was in fucking jail :plzstop: :plzstop: fuck no. I'll stick to my black sis
bxjdjsjsjjd
Oh fucking god
:plzstop:
I seriously would've left the moment they started talking about that mess
It's a kii how gays are always looking for a way to rob a girl or trick them jdjdjdjd
No damn maam
she's sensitive and I try to not hurt people feelings. I just didn't involve myself with the conversation
I think gay people get abandoned by their families and do whatever to survive, and I understand that
But when it gets to mess like scams and fucking for cash :uhh:
Yeah, time for me to go
She still hangs with those same girls :dead: I don't think she's involved with the mess... But.... This was like 2013? If you're friends with some girls that long, I dunno how you can avoid getting in trouble or being influenced
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:54:02 PM
Im trying to google for NON-WHITE gay abusive relationships. Abusive relationships in gays of colors seems interesting.
Whites are inherently are weak and ion wanna see a video of them crying about some mess
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Between masculinity issues, being closeted, racial issues, the whole top/bottom thing
There needs to be a class on black gays and abuse :dead:
My baby daddy force me to have a abortion when i was pregnet wit my second baby
Mentally, yea. He played a lot of mind games. But I don't even think he did intentionally... he's just weird. Even the way we started dating was just... weird. :dead:
But what's funny is that I'm pretty sure he thinks the same exact way about me... We just confuse the shit out of each other and it just would never work.
I'll give y'all an example...... So he asked me a really deep and multilayered question about black men dressing in suits and deeming it professional, based on "massa's" standards. I responded and gave a very thorough answer... thinking his intentions were to engage and spark a deeper conversation, so I asked for his thoughts.... This nigger said he had no thoughts, he was just asking... So I hung up on him and blocked him on any and everything I could think of.
We haven't talked since.
Sdfghhhjj
Not you wanting a debate mess.
King said no dice.
:mmyulost:
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:39:14 PM
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
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Funny you say that
I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me
:plzstop:
I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing
Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz
fgggggggggg
It's suprisingly common in gay relationships, where I used to work one of the questions we'd ask was about domestic abuse and a lot of the gays, especially black ones, would tick yes. I personally know of 3 of my friends that have been in some kind of abusive relatioship, my current boyfriend had to drag me out of my last mess because he could see where it was going :dead:
I mean if women can mentally and physically abuse a man in a relationship, what's stopping it happening to two men.
Most times it's not about the who's bigger and stronger, but the actual dynamics of a relationship itself, there is always going to be a more dominant force in a relationship whether it's concious or not and emotions skewers a lot of perspectives whilst your IN that relationship, you may tolerate things in that relationsip you nesscarlu wouldn't if you weren't in that situation. A lot of gay couples feel they have to stick it out because A. Finding a relationship is hard enough in the gay community, B. They feel like they won't find anyone better. and C. They think it's not abuse because it's 2 men.
Add to the fact you have the whole top and bottom dynmanic, the pressure of black men in relationships still keeping it a secret from the general public, DL culture, internalized homophobia, jealousy, fsmily expectations, pride and all the other bits and pieces that exist in other toxic relationships.
And a lot of ethnic gay men are still trawling through their own trauma and issue's...now imagine adding the pressure of a realtionship to that :guys:
It's no excuse but it'd def under-reported.
I was with this abusive Arab man last year who was in the military with large muscles. I think he was on steroids. He thought he was dealing with a weak bitch but he choose the wrong one to mess with. In the end I had to pull a knife on him. He said he knew I wouldn't use it. I was like bitch you don't me. I was a bit unstable mentally cos my brother had just been killed. This FOOL still blew up my phone afterwards wanting to meet and shit.
Quote from: Cersei on May 09, 2019, 06:16:06 AM
I was with this abusive Arab man last year who was in the military with large muscles. I think he was on steroids. He thought he was dealing with a weak bitch but he choose the wrong one to mess with. In the end I had to pull a knife on him. He said he knew I wouldn't use it. I was like bitch you don't me. I was a bit unstable mentally cos my brother had just been killed. This FOOL still blew up my phone afterwards wanting to meet and shit.
girl
No. Never.
One was more of a nuisance, after a while, though.
Ack this thread guys
:stressed:
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:32:38 AM
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
ton hit me
what you gonna do about it
Quote from: Kill Bill on May 09, 2019, 09:33:31 AM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:32:38 AM
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
ton hit me
what you gonna do about it
u want me to beat him up babe?
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:35:13 AM
Quote from: Kill Bill on May 09, 2019, 09:33:31 AM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:32:38 AM
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
ton hit me
what you gonna do about it
u want me to beat him up babe?
fuck him and let me watch
:enchantress:
Quote from: Kill Bill on May 09, 2019, 09:35:36 AM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:35:13 AM
Quote from: Kill Bill on May 09, 2019, 09:33:31 AM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:32:38 AM
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
ton hit me
what you gonna do about it
u want me to beat him up babe?
fuck him and let me watch
:enchantress:
Say less :freewilly:
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:32:38 AM
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
Now THIS...
I had to leave a situation before, because each time I wanted to knock his face in. And I did man handle a lot. Held down, grabbed and toss a bit. My friend told me about myself - which wasn't easy to hear and I was denial about it. I'm not abusive. But he made me get to points I didn't care for. And it's best to walk away.
My last relationship i ended up being with someone who made me second guess my judgement a lot. He was very low key. He lied about a lot of things when we first began dating and I didnt find out until a year in. Didnt have any solid proof of him fuckin other ppl and he swore he didn't but I was always skeptical.
Im always up front about how i am and what i need in any relationship, just be straight up and everything else is fixable. He manipulated me and had me thinking we were cut from the same cloth, when we really werent.
It was the classic "slut into a housewife" type of thing. The whole time i had to suffer the problematic shit he did as he tried to figure himself out and become better. Very selfish and felt like i should do it cuz he thought he was worth it (most shitty niggas do).
Anyway, i think i spoke about this but i understood a lot of his issues. Just seeing himself as a sexual being, no one caring about him beyond that, feeling insecure, not knowing how to communicate or be completely honest. Similar to Lonz ex he tried to make me pay for his insecurities/jealousy about me and all i had going on and men being attracted to me. He resented me but admired me without ever knowing how to just channel the latter.
I was out here contemplating doing foul shit, slutting it up, and just becoming the type of nigga I hate just to feel like I wasn't a complete idiot.
Recently just started getting back to myself and i feel better than I was before. More confident and sure of what I offer. Thankful for that experience.
Also i sort of came from a physical violent space in relationships. I beat up my first boyfriend. I thought because we both were men it didnt matter and that aggression was how u showed love/ownership . It wasnt until my early 20s when 3rd boyfriend shut me DOWN after i slapped him that i learned I was trash in that regard. Havent touched anyone since.
Almost popped the last nigga but thats cuz i thought i found a vid where he was fuckin someone else. Yikes.
Quote from: Kurama on May 09, 2019, 09:54:10 AM
Also i sort of came from a physical violent space in relationships. I beat up my first boyfriend. I thought because we both were men it didnt matter and that aggression was how u showed love/ownership . It wasnt until my early 20s when 3rd boyfriend shut me DOWN after i slapped him that i learned I was trash in that regard. Havent touched anyone since.
Almost popped the last nigga but thats cuz i thought i found a vid where he was fuckin someone else. Yikes.
bgfnbgngnfgngngngngngnbfgnfgnxf :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat:
You should've sent it to everybody, that's what I did and don't regret it :scrumptious:
But aww bre :'( :'(
Quote from: PowerBottom92 on May 09, 2019, 09:54:46 AM
Quote from: Kurama on May 09, 2019, 09:54:10 AM
Also i sort of came from a physical violent space in relationships. I beat up my first boyfriend. I thought because we both were men it didnt matter and that aggression was how u showed love/ownership . It wasnt until my early 20s when 3rd boyfriend shut me DOWN after i slapped him that i learned I was trash in that regard. Havent touched anyone since.
Almost popped the last nigga but thats cuz i thought i found a vid where he was fuckin someone else. Yikes.
bgfnbgngnfgngngngngngnbfgnfgnxf :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat: :ummwhat:
Xkdndnjdjd
I grew up in the hood i keep telling yall. Couples used to be duking it out in the street all the time. My family included, i thought it was normal :dead:
Quote from: PowerBottom92 on May 09, 2019, 09:55:13 AM
You should've sent it to everybody, that's what I did and don't regret it :scrumptious:
Dndnnd
It wasnt him bby
We all went through that phase though, I def did with my first boyfriend, i was MOUTHY as fuck and brazen
but baby one night I tried to hell out of him and he lifted that paw and my life flashed before my eyes...
he's the only person I've ever dated that I have so much respect for but scares the shit out of me at the same time
Terrible. Sorry you had to experience that king. :-(
Hell for everyone in here tbh. We deal with some BS tryna be with one another.
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 09, 2019, 09:32:38 AM
One thing I'll admit is that I do a lot of work on myself to ensure I'm not the abuser..
im a naturally aggressive guy.. and I never want to be a person that is fucking with Someone's mental or making them feel less than in a relationship
also.. raising my hand.. I've never done it before but I've been so angry before that when my ex girlfriend kicked me .. I went for her neck but before I touched her actual neck.. i stepped back and got my shit and left
BABY..
that lil neck was about to get POPPED
You give an abusive tease. :woohoo:
Quote from: PowerBottom92 on May 09, 2019, 09:25:19 AM
Quote from: Cersei on May 09, 2019, 06:16:06 AM
I was with this abusive Arab man last year who was in the military with large muscles. I think he was on steroids. He thought he was dealing with a weak bitch but he choose the wrong one to mess with. In the end I had to pull a knife on him. He said he knew I wouldn't use it. I was like bitch you don't me. I was a bit unstable mentally cos my brother had just been killed. This FOOL still blew up my phone afterwards wanting to meet and shit.
girl
I will CUT a ho. :woohoo:
I knife is always by my side. :woohoo:
Quote from: Kurama on May 09, 2019, 09:54:10 AM
Also i sort of came from a physical violent space in relationships. I beat up my first boyfriend. I thought because we both were men it didnt matter and that aggression was how u showed love/ownership . It wasnt until my early 20s when 3rd boyfriend shut me DOWN after i slapped him that i learned I was trash in that regard. Havent touched anyone since.
Almost popped the last nigga but thats cuz i thought i found a vid where he was fuckin someone else. Yikes.
aweee
Faggot I'm going to KILL you for not telling me this
:stressed:
Omg I'm flying to Chicago now
Yeah but he did it while i was sleeping
Me and my man FOUGHT a few times
woo
we were MUCH younger though.
Quote from: Young on May 09, 2019, 11:31:25 AM
Me and my man FOUGHT a few times
woo
we were MUCH younger though.
Quote from: Young on May 09, 2019, 11:31:25 AM
Me and my man FOUGHT a few times
woo
we were MUCH younger though.
no ma'am
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:19:05 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
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someone ban this nigga from this thread
:kii: :kii: huh
Fjdjdjdjd djdjdjdjdjd
Had two dates with someone recently who turned out to be controlling, possessive and scary. Had to cut it off right away before things would probably get worse and/ or physical.
Quote from: GLOCK on May 08, 2019, 11:08:15 PMQuote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PMI personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.
I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
I think mental abuse is more common than we would like to believe
And it's a gradual thing
I've never faced it but the way it happens .. ch!
It's like they sift the mess in their everyday communication
And from speaking to others it seems that the abusers prey on a person that is in their most vulnerable and open state
Kinda don't see it coming
But yeah
I couldn't imagine someone raising their hand to me
I think most dudes are afraid of me anyway based off my demeanor and build so it ain't happening
Jjjjjhhhhhhhhh I miss king
Quote from: BAPHOMET. on May 08, 2019, 11:54:02 PMIm trying to google for NON-WHITE gay abusive relationships. Abusive relationships in gays of colors seems interesting.
Whites are inherently are weak and ion wanna see a video of them crying about some mess
Jfjfjfjgjggjjgjgkvkvkvkvkvkvvk
Lonz is messy
why do gays, particularly OUR gors, seem to NORMALIZE getting physical? its such a late FAG stereotype thats embarrassing, immature, and low class. but im busy fighting all the BULLSHIT stacked against us as melanated kings in this society, what the fuck i look like fighting my PARTNER? like, fucking EW.
Quote from: Zankou. on October 05, 2024, 04:20:28 PMLonz is messy
:plzstop: I came across this by chance during a search. that 'never no more' bit sent me again :dead: