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[BranLover]

I honestly am more skeptical about Blk gay men being real friends with Blk straight men. I was pretty biased about it and believed it was legit possible up until recently.

Anyway share sentiments or experienced a real Blk straight friend that you didnt try to sleep with & vice versa?

Outside some small talk with a few co-workers...me and straight dudes don't mesh too well.

The hyper masculine ones who catcall women and "damn that bitch got a fat ass" or "did you catch the game last night?"

[GRAND]

Do you also feel uncomfortable when/if you are in a friend group, and it is basically girl's night + you. I could NEVER. I don't see how gays do that.

v

I perch with girls on vacation all the time.
There's usually 4 of us and posted to like 

Doesn't bother me

See this is where I need to escape the situation. Am not you bitches' accessory. And I also hate how you lose respect and esteem even more so to a female the moment they know you are gay. I think it is even worse with women than men. Coming out to a woman is like actively stripping yourself of straight male privilege.

v

no ive known these dykes since i was a teen

but new female friends? i am cautious of.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

I think ppul see them separate
Its a yin and yang thing

But i also dont define a drag queen as feminine
Or a stud as masculine
Because to me they are both fake depictions of masculinity and femininity

Take don lemon for example hes what we call masculine for the most part but an edge of feminity that really gives him a mature edge but its complimentary to the whole package

I define it as  a walk and demeaner and mannerisms

[Kaeli.]

A few weeks ago a few of my former students who are 8th graders now visited my 7th grade class toward the end of the day. I was reading this boy's paper, and when he writes his "I" he does the circle for the dot.

He peeks at the paper my 8th grade student says, "is he gay?" I was like..."what?" 

He then says, "str8 dudes don't write their i's like that"

I had to enlighten a bit.

Omf one of my guy friends had his dorm room  to himself up until a guy transferred in & he calls me and this other girl in there and is like "tell me if you think my roomate is gay." His "evidence" was good handwriting, Caramel Frappuchinos from Starbucks & Bagels. I coulda fucked him up

I do think his roommate's gay tho & not because of that tea.

[Rxxf]

I honestly am more skeptical about Blk gay men being real friends with Blk straight men. I was pretty biased about it and believed it was legit possible up until recently.

Anyway share sentiments or experienced a real Blk straight friend that you didnt try to sleep with & vice versa?

Outside some small talk with a few co-workers...me and straight dudes don't mesh too well.

The hyper masculine ones who catcall women and "damn that bitch got a fat ass" or "did you catch the game last night?"

[Rxxf]

All of my male best friends are straight, now that I think about it.
One I've known since elementary.
The others from college.