Quote from: Martin Green on September 14, 2021, 08:28:54 PM
Quote from: paper planes on September 14, 2021, 08:09:15 PM
well we all gotta kinda downplay our blackness in some way to excel in a white country
id love to be able to just BUST into the office and be all types of southside jamaica queens all up n thru there
rollin my neck and just being the complete ghetto fag i was born tah be
but thats not reality - at least if ur looking to get to certain levels within a space
It's one thing to comport oneself w/ professionalism, but it's a different thing to downplay one's blackness and black support into ambiguity. Not saying Beyonce intended to do this, but many white people accepted Beyonce in her previous form b/c they weren't aware of how pro-black she actually was. She was even perceived as white adjacent to some people in foreign countries as a result of certain imagery (the infamous Revlon ad comes to mind). Also, white people also change themselves in professional settings. As black people, we have to be careful that we don't lose our authenticity trying to climb the ladder of success. B/c you'll most likely regret it when you're faced w/ the racism those in some of these elite circles have for you regardless of your position/social standing. Never sacrifice the crux of your blackness/being trying to fit into boxes created by white people.
It's not about sacrificing all of who you are, it's about having to find a required balance.
You can still be very Black and proud of your Blackness - and display it loudly and proudly.
I can call my Black coworkers "sister" and "King", etc. in the open without second thought because it's my right to do so. And I dare someone to tell me it's inappropriate or unprofessional, cuz it's totally not. lol Unless someone who you're directing it to prefers not to be called that.
But at the same time, there's some conformity in the name of remaining professional in a specific space. That's a given .
I'd even say it's an ART - balancing it all .