Quote from: BruceTruMusicFan on October 06, 2024, 09:35:37 AMQuote from: i'm oph, he's mine on October 05, 2024, 10:10:18 PMQuote from: MÃE (MUVA) on October 05, 2024, 08:14:49 PMi just wouldn't expect someone that young to really have significant foresight into what their choices can do to their lives.
i would. 13 years old is plenty old enough to understand the consequences of robery and murder.
But is it really? At any age, what we understand is the sum of our experiences and what we've been taught. What a child in Beverly Hills, a child in Syria, or a child in the projects in the 80s thinks of robbery and murder will all be completely different. Some kids are taught how to regulate their emotions; in my opinion, a large percentage of Black children are not. They are not taught how to deal with disappointment. Many were used to being whipped relentlessly for making basic mistakes, especially back then.
I can't say if he does or doesn't deserve to spend 100 years in jail, but I will say this: the goal of our justice system should be to determine if the person can be rehabilitated. And if you, offer them resources to accomplish this especially for juveniles. He is also a victim, no matter how you want to look at it.
you're making sense
Rons mother admitted she failed him and his incarceration forced her to get her life together . He was home by himself at 13 years old when he went out and got in trouble
I'm so thankful I didn't grow up in an environment where certain things were normalized . It does make a difference .
Being exposed to things as a CHILD makes a difference
Which is why most mental health professionals bring their patients BACK to their childhood to reflect on things before digging into the present
Because you were too young to truly understand how things that happened to you can affect you ... as they were happening
That goes for everything from a child being groomed and sexually abused , to how being in an empty house by themselves with no guardian in sight for hours or days at a time , could have had an impact.
Only a desensitized, lost, ANGRY child could do What he did.
And considering his situation at home , is it really a surprise that he was lost and angry?
It's interesting that the woman REJECTING his offer is what kicked off the mess. It's giving an extreme case of "mommy issues" - which a child does not have enough mental capacity to effectively process .