Quote from: Glenda on March 13, 2016, 06:53:14 PM
Quote from: Herbie on March 13, 2016, 06:49:22 PM
And just to be clear, I'd never treat any of my siblings like this. 
I am not condoning it. But I do understand how it feels to really just not care either way about someone. To the point where you don't care about what they're doing or how they're feeling. Sometimes it's just about moving on with your life, instead of allowing cycles to repeat themselves and stress you out.
You're not making an effort to "not care". You're not thinking about it. You're just moving forward. That isn't a grudge.
I understand what you're saying.
I was just talking to my younger sister about this , she was furious about how someone who she thought was a close friend treated her.
I let her vent; I let her explain the story to me. Because I think she needed to get it out. It was an hour long
But once she finished the story, I told her to stop talking about it, move forward, let her go because this hour you've spent talking about her, is an hour she's stolen from you. Don't give anymore to her, she doesn't deserve it.
Once someone proves themselves totally unworthy of your time, a decision must be made and it has to be made quickly. We're not immortal and we don't have time to continuously allow others to steal our energy and invade our space. Say what you need to say, get it out, and keep it moving. Don't even think about it.
I totally believe in letting go.
