but anyway, I always thought screaming "born this way! can't helps it!" made being gay look like some sort of birth defect or the mental illness that many religious nutcases believe it is. it really shouldn't matter whether feels they have identified as homosexual from birth or whether they chose to start sucking dick once they hit college, there is NOTHING intrinsically wrong with having romantic feelings for someone of the same sex and that damn harry potter book of fables that you coons love to live and die by won't sway my opinion on that.