Home

[Glenda]

[yekim]

FFFFFFFFFF

that's inappropriate sis

[SUPREME]

No

My family for the most part just saw homosexuality as weird

I had a bunch of male straight friends growing up so I only heard gay slurs around them, but I knew I was a Fag early on so it didn't bother me or stick to me

But my mom honestly always taught us to be accepting of people and to assume there's SCUM in EVERY demographic

So that was beneficial for me

However, older black women are like my kryptonite. I feel like they're just SENDING me to hell every time I'm out with my dude. They just bother me. I think it's partly because most of the women in my life ARE black women

We're not making out in the middle of a theater but you can tell we're fucking.

[Glenda]

When did you guys enter into your first real relationship? I'm 24 and I haven't had a real relationship with a guy yet, but at the same time I'm not too pressed about it. I'm more focused on my career right now, I want to be rich tbh, but I'm just intrigued to know how it all panned out for some of you guys? 

[Kurama]

When did you guys enter into your first real relationship? I'm 24 and I haven't had a real relationship with a guy yet, but at the same time I'm not too pressed about it. I'm more focused on my career right now, I want to be rich tbh, but I'm just intrigued to know how it all panned out for some of you guys? 

At 17. It was nice up until he graduated. Usually all of my relationships lasted a year or so then the last one lasted for 7 years.

I just had my first random hookup experience this year.

[Glenda]

When did you guys enter into your first real relationship? I'm 24 and I haven't had a real relationship with a guy yet, but at the same time I'm not too pressed about it. I'm more focused on my career right now, I want to be rich tbh, but I'm just intrigued to know how it all panned out for some of you guys? 

At 17. It was nice up until he graduated. Usually all of my relationships lasted a year or so then the last one lasted for 7 years.

I just had my first random hookup experience this year.

Omffff 7 years? Slay sis.



I'm kinda over hookups. They're so unsubstantial, imo. I'm talking about the Jack'd, Grindr, OkCupid mess. Meeting someone haphazardly at the grocery store is different. But even then. It'd be nice to have something real.

[Nyan Cat]

basically dealin wit my moms side..

like no one talks 'bout my luv life & all tht n it use to fckin annoy me after i came out wen i was 14
my great grand papi on my moms saids sumn to me durin a family gatherin one time, i was still in my early teens mind u & thts wen mess began
I went clean tha fck off on him & got attacked by my fam "watch ya mouf!"
ended up gettin into an altercation wit my uncle, cut him hjfnmgf
no lies, i was off tha damn chain in my teens, very angry (still am)
told them i didnt give a fck who they was, i wont be disrespected blah blah snnsnss

my mom pissed me off too cuz wen i firs came out she was weird 'bout it but like...she had a gay ass frien who she 'luved! friends 4evr!"
i kinda started to see her a new light as a fckin hypocrite & jus all 'round stopped talkin' to her & her side of tha fam

i lived wit my dad frm 15 & on
he was a mess but he said he dint understand it but he accepted me & luv me
tht was tha las, he'd ask me wat typa boys i liked & stuff Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnb
damns weed head
luh my ddy tho
& his ex wife (my step mom) was fckin cool

I eventually spoke to my moms, read her & let her kno wat i thought of her attitude towards my sexuality
patched mess up

saw her side of tha fam like 2 yrs ago for tha las time & read tha shit outta them (made a thread on it)

idk why but ive always jus been a no nonsense type of person wen i comes to this or demeaning other ppl for their differences
jus cnt deal wit bigots, hypocrites & ignant ppl and yea im not so innacent either in how i handled situations but as a teen u had alotta mess to go through & bein put down n disrespected for sumthin u cant control by 'family' is sumn i couldnt take
i wanted to kill tht nigger ghbjndfdddd

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

lol not at all.

[Nyan Cat]

XRTFGHBJKlhnfgbvdddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddbdrd

[Nyan Cat]

keif join tha group chat

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

keif join tha group chat

u keep telling me this without giving any details

[LOONA.]

Not really

[throwintheTAL]

Yes. My fam used to bash me daily. Only one who didn't was my mother. I definitely learned to internalize homophobia. I was smart, awkward, feminine, I enjoyed reading & writing and I got lashed often for it. I attempted to adhere to the behaviors of the "standard" Black men within my neighborhood and at school. Being hyper masculine, shunning at femininity, drugs, fights, and sex with girls (lolz).

It really didnt change until I succumbed to my nature a few years after. That in itself was still a journey cause I still disliked certain things about other gay men and these internalizations were the root of it all. I honestly didnt start becoming completely accepting of others and myself until 2-3 years ago. Even still Im still on that journey trying to get those old pieces of myself back. I still have issues speaking in front of other ppl, especially if they look like me because of that environment.

It's crazy how society prevents ppl from reaching their full potential at such a young age. I believe soon you'll be able to gain full clarity of yourself and look at those past mistreatments as the building blocks that helped make you the strong, beautiful human you are today.

[BAPHOMET.]

I forgot to say that im not gay 

[throwintheTAL]

basically dealin wit my moms side..

like no one talks 'bout my luv life & all tht n it use to fckin annoy me after i came out wen i was 14
my great grand papi on my moms saids sumn to me durin a family gatherin one time, i was still in my early teens mind u & thts wen mess began
I went clean tha fck off on him & got attacked by my fam "watch ya mouf!"
ended up gettin into an altercation wit my uncle, cut him hjfnmgf
no lies, i was off tha damn chain in my teens, very angry (still am)
told them i didnt give a fck who they was, i wont be disrespected blah blah snnsnss

my mom pissed me off too cuz wen i firs came out she was weird 'bout it but like...she had a gay ass frien who she 'luved! friends 4evr!"
i kinda started to see her a new light as a fckin hypocrite & jus all 'round stopped talkin' to her & her side of tha fam

i lived wit my dad frm 15 & on
he was a mess but he said he dint understand it but he accepted me & luv me
tht was tha las, he'd ask me wat typa boys i liked & stuff Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnb
damns weed head
luh my ddy tho
& his ex wife (my step mom) was fckin cool

I eventually spoke to my moms, read her & let her kno wat i thought of her attitude towards my sexuality
patched mess up

saw her side of tha fam like 2 yrs ago for tha las time & read tha shit outta them (made a thread on it)

idk why but ive always jus been a no nonsense type of person wen i comes to this or demeaning other ppl for their differences
jus cnt deal wit bigots, hypocrites & ignant ppl and yea im not so innacent either in how i handled situations but as a teen u had alotta mess to go through & bein put down n disrespected for sumthin u cant control by 'family' is sumn i couldnt take
i wanted to kill tht nigger ghbjndfdddd

teach them IDIOTS, hun