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[Real]

Oh god, I might actually be a bit of a mess tho

[yummy]

Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

I usually do my best to avoid arguments or confrontations with people, so yes.

You can't just hear what you wanna hear from someone, there may be something beneficial underneath it all.

[L0NZ.]

is that dawn. or kristal

[L0NZ.]

Oh god, I might actually be a bit of a mess tho

yes. BREAK down. evolve!

[Vonc2002]

I like this convo. Good thread, texturizer faggot

[Vonc2002]

Oh god, I might actually be a bit of a mess tho

yea, lol

[Lazarus]

Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit

I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?

any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma

You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?

Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imo

Define putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.

It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTEN

Very true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?

no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr
and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!

That's good y'all both could admit it was petty and stupid and put behind y'all. It's also good that y'all friendship remained in tact. Losing friends over something so trivial is never worth it.

[BAPHOMET.]

I like this convo. Good thread, texturizer faggot

Yea its always a welcomed change of pace from the constant Shanice vs Jon B's that's been going on and who has a top90 hit in the last 2 decades

[GLOCK]

Oh god, I might actually be a bit of a mess tho

yea, lol

[Real]

If you cant be vulnerable then you cant be honest. And from that point youre disingenuous and disconnected.

But this was interesting. Elaborate just a little. What if it's not that they can't be vulnerable, but that it's just not their personality. Or they have a different idea of vulnerability? They could be the most honest person in the world

[Vonc2002]

Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

it depends, sometimes yes. I have to feel like the other person is being completely transparent and open for me to completely let down my guard, otherwise im always ready to toss a bit

I see. Does this go for just your significant other or anybody in general?

any and everybody. I let my grandomter have it one day, dont play with me, grandma

You're a hot head huh. How do you make it thru the day ?

Im honestly not as hot headed as I come off on here. I just believe that EVERYONE can be put in their place, no one is exempt imo

Define putting in your place ? And shouldn't there be a way to settle things and find a common ground with out "putting someone in their place" or even leading up to that.

It depends, too many variables. It depends on who it is, what the situation is, how strongly I feel about it, etc. Im honestly a very rational person and am open to calmly and peacefully settling things. Another factor is the way u come at me, very important if u expect me to not just hear u but LISTEN

Very true. The way you come at a person can set the tone of how the conversation will go. Sounds like to me it's either Vonc's way or no way with you. Do you have a hard time opening up to others ?

no, im an open person. Its not my way or the highway BUT if I feel like im totally right about something, its not likely i'll submit easily. I definitely have to work on that. and like i said, this is the way i am in all relationships. I have a friend I had a petty ass argument with and I felt completely and totally justified in how I felt. we didnt speak for a yr
and because he was the same unwilling to budge type, neither of us were willing to take down. I ultimately had to call him and was like I miss u man and this is stupid. we had a long, DUMB ass convo about it and we're better than ever. He also admitted he was wrong so that made me feel better LOLZ!

That's good y'all both could admit it was petty and stupid and put behind y'all. It's also good that y'all friendship remained in tact. Losing friends over something so trivial is never worth it.

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That's ultimately how I saw it........plus I like having a place to stay in L.A. when I get there, needed to makeup with that faggot

[GRAND]

Sounds like some of y'all are a bit MUCH to date



I'd be in jail for murder.

Especially real. I'd probably think he's cheating on me and would sabotage the relationship

 

[Real]

Oh god, I might actually be a bit of a mess tho

yea, lol

Can't stand him

[Lazarus]

Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

I usually do my best to avoid arguments or confrontations with people, so yes.

You can't just hear what you wanna hear from someone, there may be something beneficial underneath it all.

I understand. I get where you coming from.

[GRAND]

Do y'all know how to have a rationale conversation without let y'all pride or ego get in the way?

I usually do my best to avoid arguments or confrontations with people, so yes.

You can't just hear what you wanna hear from someone, there may be something beneficial underneath it all.

I understand. I get where you coming.

b

Why are you always trying to give therapist?