Spankings don't "fix" ppl

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Genesis

Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 08:34:32 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:24:22 PM
good Luck trying to be your kids best friend. Lmao



see, after the 3rd time of asking, the situation needed to be escalated

their kids will grow up not respecting authority and devaluing others tbh

he should have asked twice

1. Suzy, please put the toy back because your grandmama is going to buy you one
2. Suzy, put the toy back, I understand you want it, but now is not the time, you have to be patient

this way you've fully explained to the child the what's and why's of their current behavior
then you issue a warning

3. Suzy, put the toy back or you're gonna get a spanking

once that disciplinary action is in place, Suzy has a choice to make and she'll learn her behavior won't be tolerated and there's a consequence. there's nothing abusive about the process tbh guys :kii:
Yeah. That talking bullshit doesn't work. Save that for disney channel :plzstop:

FINE.

I woulda YANKED that little girl up so damn fast

"Git ur fucking ass in this cart and shut it AHP"

jtwoeleven

Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

BAPHOMET.



Young



MelMel

kids are demonic though

we must remember we are fighting a losing war against demons

Jon




BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM


I means... Yea. She should've smacked his little fat ass across the room.

But he clearly had a mental disorder. sddsdds
He needed actual help.


L0NZ.

Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.

Define "fix." Because in the context of this thread, "fix" means deter them from performing a particular action. And yes, spanking does accomplish that sometimes. D @ psych 101.


Sinpool



Boomz

Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

ds :uhh:

You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:04:12 PM
Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

ds :uhh:

You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.

Yea... Im done with this thread. Like... seriously.


Marilyn

Quote from: ssw4919 on July 24, 2016, 08:14:04 PM
Discipline depends on the child. 

why didn't the thread end here

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